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Eunyboo
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Re: Dating questions
This one guy once messaged me "Wowee Kazowee you're beautiful" and I just.. couldn't respond after wowee kazowee.. who talks like that?!
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Funkybutt
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Re: Dating questions
Posted by Eunyboo
This one guy once messaged me "Wowee Kazowee you're beautiful" and I just.. counted respond after wowee kazowee.. who talks like that?!
Hahaha - that would have made me laugh so I would have responded. Especially to see if he said something else crazy!
I just had a doozie if a conversation. Guy contacts me on Tinder and rapid fire asks me all these questions - what am I looking for (relationship and not hooking up), single or divorced, my exact experiences on Tinder and what guys are looking for from me. It was all kinda weird bc of the intensity of the questions. Said he hasn’t been in a relationship for 5 years bc he got hurt and that I’m the second person he’s talked to on the site (other woman kept asking for nude photos).
Then it got weirder. He said he really wanted to meet me and that he was excited to have a conversation off the site. I said I don’t give out my phone number and he insisted that I go to kik. I said I didn’t have an acct but he only wanted to talk there (not sure why since the texting in Tinder is fine). I lied and said my phone is maxed out so I can’t add new apps until I buy a new phone next month and he immediately unmatched! Weird!!!
I hope this doesn’t sound badly but I’ve had nothing but negative experiences with guys that are active military (this guy’s profile didn’t say military but he told me he is). I’ve had matches with 5 military guys and each one hit the ground running and say they want a committed relationship ASAP. Each one comes across as desperate. And I totally get it - I can’t imagine how lonely it might be in the military - but they’re all so intense as soon as I say hi and it makes me back away quickly.
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| Posted 3/27/18 8:45 PM |
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lilqtny
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Dating questions
I went out with a guy, we went for coffee, he was trying to be all over me. I resisted and told him thats not what I am looking for.
He was respectful of that. We had a nice time. We continued to talk for the next several days, he works on a tug boat and had to go back out to sea, but then on Friday night he messaged me "hey whats up? whats your plans for the evening.?"
I responded "I'm getting coffee with a friend and then we are visiting baby Matthew in the hospital" (he knew who baby Matthew was)
His response was UNBELIEVABLE!
"Oh another coffee date, huh? Make sure to get some **** this time"
WTF I flipped out. 1. I said it was a FRIEND. Actually was a female but he didn't know that.
2. Obviously I'm not that type of woman because I rejected your physical advances.
Men these days are unbelievable.
If you don't have sex on a first date many times there is no 2nd date I am fine with that as I am not sleeping with every man I meet just to have another date. But really? Are we 16?.
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Funkybutt
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Dating questions
Wow - that's crazy! If someone drops you b/c you don't sleep with them the first night - at least you dodged a bullet b/c I bet that would end up being a bad relationship later on!
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| Posted 3/28/18 9:14 AM |
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Funkybutt
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No new crazies, thankfully, but I did have a guy that I had to unmatch this morning b/c he was constantly sending me 1-liner messages. Weird b/c he's a surgeon - you'd think he wouldn't have that much time to text. I started to ghost him but he just kept writing. Last night I wrote to say I was going to sleep early (so he wouldn't keep texting) and he wrote back for me to dream about him. Blech! I waited until this morning and unmatched. I know - coward's way out instead of saying thanks but no thanks.
Here's a pet peeve of mine. Guy wants to meet up for the weekend and I say yes. Then they say, Great - I'll be in touch to set up a time. Um.... it's already Friday - when do you think you'll get back in touch?! I'm making plans to do things - it'd be nice if you let me know in advance. Last time it happened, the guy texted Sunday at 10 and said "How about 3?" I said I already had plans even though I didn't b/c I was already "meh" on going out with him again. Another guy is doing it to me now - I told him I have Saturday night plans and he said he'll be in touch (and I'm just "meh" on him, too). I wrote back this morning to tell him to make a decision b/c I'm making other plans.
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| Posted 4/6/18 6:56 AM |
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bunnyluck
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Lol - I feel like people lack social skills and don't realize, even if "think of me" was a joke, there is no tone to detect humor.
And to your second point, agree. Like no one is waiting around for you to reach out. If you want to meet up I feel like you need to give at least two days notice and propose a time and place.
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| Posted 4/6/18 7:45 AM |
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Funkybutt
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Re: Dating questions
Posted by bunnyluck
Lol - I feel like people lack social skills and don't realize, even if "think of me" was a joke, there is no tone to detect humor.
And to your second point, agree. Like no one is waiting around for you to reach out. If you want to meet up I feel like you need to give at least two days notice and propose a time and place.
I know he was just kidding (kinda) but he also made a sexual comment early on. I think he's just a little too excited about making a connection with someone and was over eager with the constant texting. I had already decided I was going to unmatch before the "dream of me" comment.
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| Posted 4/6/18 7:57 AM |
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Posted by bunnyluck
Lol - I feel like people lack social skills and don't realize, even if "think of me" was a joke, there is no tone to detect humor.
And to your second point, agree. Like no one is waiting around for you to reach out. If you want to meet up I feel like you need to give at least two days notice and propose a time and place.
I know he was just kidding (kinda) but he also made a sexual comment early on. I think he's just a little too excited about making a connection with someone and was over eager with the constant texting. I had already decided I was going to unmatch before the "dream of me" comment.
Do you always unmatch when someone makes a sexual comment?
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| Posted 4/6/18 10:10 AM |
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Funkybutt
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Re: Dating questions
Posted by Straightarrow
Do you always unmatch when someone makes a sexual comment?
No, but I do tell them it's not something I'm interested in until we've met in person so I can see if there's a connection. If they keep making sexual comments after I try to redirect them several times, then yes, I do unmatch b/c they're not interested in listening to what I'm saying.
In this guy's case, I wasn't really interested in him, but wanted to give it a chance. But the constant texting and bragging about himself kinda put him in a no category for me. So I didn't unmatch with him b/c of his "dream of me" comment - I had already decided I wasn't interested.
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| Posted 4/6/18 10:27 AM |
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Dolphinsbaby
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Re: Dating questions
Posted by Funkybutt
I signed up for Match.com yesterday and in less than 24 hours I got this gem. It's from a guy in Lynbrook even though I'm in NC.
Hi there, I have to say you have a nice smile...a spunky feisty look too....the type of woman who when in a feisty mood is apt to settle a playful argument by pinning your guy down, sitting on his chest and pinning his arms with your knees until you have made your point lol-
On that note - I read an article about a woman that has naturally curly hair and posted herself for 2 weeks with curly hair and 2 weeks with straight - and the number of replies with straight hair were almost double the curly. I have curly hair (and I don't have the patience to straighten it) and I'm sure that's what this d0uche was responding to. I'm curious to see if I would get more responses to straight hair b/c most of the guys interested so far are gross.
I remember watching Millionaire Matchmaker and Patti used to always tell the girls to straighten their hair before the mixer because that’s what men want. I thought really? And they showed on the show they sent the same girl to 2 different mixers with curly and straight hair and you know she definitely got more attention with the straight hair. So interesting.
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| Posted 4/7/18 6:44 PM |
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Funkybutt
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Dating questions
HAHAHAHAHA - this just cracked me up!
Wednesday....
Him: Hi Sexy. Originally from Long Island
Me: Cool - I was only there 3 years.
Him: Ah ok
Me: Where did you live?
Him: Sayville
Me: I was East Meadow.
Him: Ahhh ok
Him: (an hour later) 2 flower emojis
I stopped replying b/c I didn't have anything to say, but then today (2 days later) he wrote:
I should be giving you a foot rub soon
Ummmm..... what?! That was out of nowhere and made me laugh.
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Funkybutt
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Dating questions
Went on a first date with someone that I matched with on Bumble. I get that his profile said he's not vanilla, but I certainly didn't need him talking about b&tt sex and how he met his last girlfriend at an S&M sex party with strangers while I'm eating dinner!
I think he picked up on me not being interested b/c I haven't heard from him since. :D
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bunnyluck
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Re: Dating questions
Posted by Funkybutt
Went on a first date with someone that I matched with on Bumble. I get that his profile said he's not vanilla, but I certainly didn't need him talking about b&tt sex and how he met his last girlfriend at an S&M sex party with strangers while I'm eating dinner!
I think he picked up on me not being interested b/c I haven't heard from him since. :D
OMG WTF!!
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b2b777
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Re: Dating questions
Posted by Funkybutt
Went on a first date with someone that I matched with on Bumble. I get that his profile said he's not vanilla, but I certainly didn't need him talking about b&tt sex and how he met his last girlfriend at an S&M sex party with strangers while I'm eating dinner!
I think he picked up on me not being interested b/c I haven't heard from him since. :D
Thank God you haven't.... crazy!
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| Posted 6/6/18 9:58 AM |
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Tulips915
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Re: Dating questions
Just yesterday had a guy say Hi then "do you like seeing a guy cum?" Then says he's horny and hard.
This was in the middle of the work day...
W T F!!  
Can't make this $hit up...
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| Posted 6/6/18 10:15 AM |
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NervousNell
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Re: Dating questions
Posted by Tulips915
Just yesterday had a guy say Hi then "do you like seeing a guy cum?" Then says he's horny and hard.
This was in the middle of the work day...
W T F!!
Can't make this $hit up...
OMG I can't.
It scares me how many sick fuks are out there roaming the streets.
Disturbing
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| Posted 6/6/18 10:28 AM |
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bunnyluck
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Dating questions
What sites are these????? I joined a few and so far everyone has been generally normal. I kind of wish I had some real entertainment!
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| Posted 6/6/18 10:49 AM |
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klingklang77
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Re: Dating questions
Posted by Funkybutt
Went on a first date with someone that I matched with on Bumble. I get that his profile said he's not vanilla, but I certainly didn't need him talking about b&tt sex and how he met his last girlfriend at an S&M sex party with strangers while I'm eating dinner!
I think he picked up on me not being interested b/c I haven't heard from him since. :D
What? You don’t like talking about anal during dinner? What’s wrong with you? /sarcasm
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klingklang77
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Re: Dating questions
Posted by Tulips915
Just yesterday had a guy say Hi then "do you like seeing a guy cum?" Then says he's horny and hard.
This was in the middle of the work day...
W T F!!
Can't make this $hit up...
Boys and their penises... I’m so glad I never got these freaks messaging me.
And what did you say back? Or did you just ghost?
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Tulips915
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Re: Dating questions
Posted by klingklang77
Posted by Tulips915
Just yesterday had a guy say Hi then "do you like seeing a guy cum?" Then says he's horny and hard.
This was in the middle of the work day...
W T F!!
Can't make this $hit up...
Boys and their penises... I’m so glad I never got these freaks messaging me.
And what did you say back? Or did you just ghost?
Deleted him / Unmatched
No time for that $hit.
40 yr old man talking like that right away.. No thanks.
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| Posted 6/6/18 11:03 AM |
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Funkybutt
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Re: Dating questions
Posted by Tulips915
Just yesterday had a guy say Hi then "do you like seeing a guy cum?" Then says he's horny and hard.
This was in the middle of the work day...
W T F!!
Can't make this $hit up...
WHAT?! I've had some crazies, but nothing like that (I guess I consider that worse than talking about anal on the first date)!
I was at the mall the other day playing Pokemon Go and as I was walking away, a guy approached me - said he saw me checking him out and asked me out. I was really flattered, but I wasn't remotely attracted to him, he's 30 and I'm 47 (yay me for looking so young), and I wasn't checking him out (I was staring at my phone playing Pokemon). When he approached I actually tried to get away and said I wasn't interested in taking a survey b/c guys *never* approach me in person. 
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Funkybutt
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OMG - I just had the craziest message. It was his first message to me - not like we've been texting back and forth for a while. Here it is in all it's glory!
I am definitely looking for someone who is not into smoking, alcohol, pot etc.
I just finished dating someone for 3 years. I think i had my first narcissist and ptsd is real from that! But tragedy plus time equals comedy. I look fwd to this being funny.
I did heavily... heavily for me anyway...self medicate at the end of this last relationship.
I bought a bong, some pot, some cigarettes, some PBR and tried to stay numb when i wasnt at work.
I kept it up for about 5 days.
Last night i went to see 2 bands at slims. One was Steve Grothmann on bass with Dave Wilson from Chatham co line and evan nichols. It was Dave Wilson Trio. 2 of the 12 songs were outstanding. Ive known Steve for over 20 years. So it was fun.
The other band was Tonk. They play vintage honky tonk music. Im friends with and have done electrical work with most of those guys. Anyway... it was a cool night. But i f'd it up by having too many beers and too much pot. Then i drive home. I couldn't believe i was driving.
I threw up in front of my neighbors apartment and slept at her place. We are just friends. Never have had sex with her. We went to Asheville 2 weekends ago. No sex. Just pot alcohol and food. Weird. We are both lonely as hell.
But what im getting at is im ready to come out if this tunnel. This self medicated numb avoidance tunnel.
When i am at my best i am vegan, very nutritionally conscience, super kind, super funny, loving, monogamous, passionate, supportive, musical, hardworking, optimist and believe that our spirit keeps going when we die.
Also i never use coupons but i should.
I never pay more than $12 for a haircut. But i buy organic food.
I dont play any gigs this weekend. I am a busy musician plus i work a full time job a ncsu in their electrical dept.
But maybe we could meet for dinner Friday or Saturday and see how much we dislike each other? Or we could fall in love. One of those 2 probably.
I do like to eat a good meal though on a first date because at least you know that part will be good.
All right. Im not sorry for writing this much or being this honest. At this point... i just be me. You'll know me eventually anyway.
Oops. I was gonna delete this entire message but accidentally sent it. I missed my therapy session yesterday so i was trying to talk out some stuff.
Oh well. Let me know if you want to have dinner.
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Tulips915
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Re: Dating questions
Posted by Funkybutt
OMG - I just had the craziest message. It was his first message to me - not like we've been texting back and forth for a while. Here it is in all it's glory!
W T F?????????????????  
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NervousNell
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Re: Dating questions
Posted by Funkybutt
OMG - I just had the craziest message. It was his first message to me - not like we've been texting back and forth for a while. Here it is in all it's glory!
I am definitely looking for someone who is not into smoking, alcohol, pot etc.
I just finished dating someone for 3 years. I think i had my first narcissist and ptsd is real from that! But tragedy plus time equals comedy. I look fwd to this being funny.
I did heavily... heavily for me anyway...self medicate at the end of this last relationship.
I bought a bong, some pot, some cigarettes, some PBR and tried to stay numb when i wasnt at work.
I kept it up for about 5 days.
Last night i went to see 2 bands at slims. One was Steve Grothmann on bass with Dave Wilson from Chatham co line and evan nichols. It was Dave Wilson Trio. 2 of the 12 songs were outstanding. Ive known Steve for over 20 years. So it was fun.
The other band was Tonk. They play vintage honky tonk music. Im friends with and have done electrical work with most of those guys. Anyway... it was a cool night. But i f'd it up by having too many beers and too much pot. Then i drive home. I couldn't believe i was driving.
I threw up in front of my neighbors apartment and slept at her place. We are just friends. Never have had sex with her. We went to Asheville 2 weekends ago. No sex. Just pot alcohol and food. Weird. We are both lonely as hell.
But what im getting at is im ready to come out if this tunnel. This self medicated numb avoidance tunnel.
When i am at my best i am vegan, very nutritionally conscience, super kind, super funny, loving, monogamous, passionate, supportive, musical, hardworking, optimist and believe that our spirit keeps going when we die.
Also i never use coupons but i should.
I never pay more than $12 for a haircut. But i buy organic food.
I dont play any gigs this weekend. I am a busy musician plus i work a full time job a ncsu in their electrical dept.
But maybe we could meet for dinner Friday or Saturday and see how much we dislike each other? Or we could fall in love. One of those 2 probably.
I do like to eat a good meal though on a first date because at least you know that part will be good.
All right. Im not sorry for writing this much or being this honest. At this point... i just be me. You'll know me eventually anyway.
Oops. I was gonna delete this entire message but accidentally sent it. I missed my therapy session yesterday so i was trying to talk out some stuff.
Oh well. Let me know if you want to have dinner.
omg! I can't stop laughing.
This is the best thing I have seen in years.
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Funkybutt
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Dating questions
On the plus side - at least he saved me from wasting my time on a date with him!
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