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luvsbob4603
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Grudges
Are you a person who Hold Grudges or Do you Let them go after a while? There is a co-worker at my Job who Just get on my nerves! He came in one morning because he had to cover for a person and we had to share the same table to make sandwiches/desserts and he complained to the boss that i would not give him a extra cutting board which there was only 6 boards on the table and i had three and he had three but three was not enough for him. So my boss said to give him the extra board and I was p-od at him But i forgave him for the first time than he did it again to me recently and he was like you forgive me right sweetheart? Ummm No and dont call me sweetheart. I have no respect for him.and he just started at our building in September. But normally he works in the afternoon so its works out that when i leave he comes in.So Yes I am still holding a grudge against this guy.
Message edited 10/8/2006 11:07:49 PM.
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megsmom
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Re: Grudges
I forgive.. but I don't forget..
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baghag
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Re: Grudges
You are holding a grudge over cutting board? 
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luvsbob4603
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Re: Grudges
Posted by baghag
You are holding a grudge over cutting board?
Not over the cuttingboard Just the fact that instead of coming to me and talking it out like adults he goes to the boss!
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| Posted 10/8/06 10:49 PM |
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Wendy1220
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Re: Grudges
Depends on how serious the offense is. Little things I let go, larger issues I tend to hold onto but then move on. Although, if it was really bad, I always have it in the back of my mind.
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| Posted 10/8/06 10:50 PM |
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megsmom
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Re: Grudges
Posted by baghag
You are holding a grudge over cutting board?
yea.. i agree
something like this is kind of miniscule...jmo
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Wendy1220
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Re: Grudges
Posted by luvsbob4603
Posted by baghag
You are holding a grudge over cutting board?
Not over the cuttingboard Just the fact that instead of coming to me and talking it out like adults he goes to the boss!
I wouldn't hold onto it. I'd just tell him that next time he could talk to you about it before going to the boss. I can see how it can be annoying but don't let it get to you.
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| Posted 10/8/06 10:53 PM |
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skip123
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Re: Grudges
i never hold a grudge anymore in my life..takes too much energy and thought from me..if someone wrongs me in a big way I just simply disassociate myself from them..but like I said..it has to be something huge to make me do that...
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| Posted 10/8/06 10:54 PM |
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luvsbob4603
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Re: Grudges
Thanks wendy!
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| Posted 10/8/06 10:54 PM |
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Re: Grudges
I don't hold grudges but if the person isn't worth my time then I really can't be bothered with them.
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| Posted 10/8/06 11:22 PM |
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islandersgirl74
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Re: Grudges
I never hold grudges. Certain things I might not have forgotten but life is too shirt to waste it holding a grudge.
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| Posted 10/8/06 11:24 PM |
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luvsbob4603
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Re: Grudges
Thanks Ladies.
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| Posted 10/9/06 5:15 AM |
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lvdolphins
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Re: Grudges
No, I dont hold grudges.
I do agree with the other ladies...Over a cutting board? Kind of silly IMO. I see your point about him going to the boss..Again, silly.
I would be the "adult" in the situation and just let it go.
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| Posted 10/9/06 7:23 AM |
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MrsS1126
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Re: Grudges
No, I never hold a grudge. I'll forgive but NEVER EVER forget.
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| Posted 10/9/06 8:22 AM |
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neenie
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Re: Grudges
i don't hold grudges. especially over kitchen accesories 
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| Posted 10/9/06 8:56 AM |
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LaurenExp
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Re: Grudges
Posted by MrsS1126
No, I never hold a grudge. I'll forgive but NEVER EVER forget.
Same here!
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Stefanie
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Re: Grudges
If someone insults me or my family, I will probably hold that grudge forever. I don't forget and I don't forgive either.
But some people already know that in my family..
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| Posted 10/9/06 8:58 AM |
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Emily
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I forgive but it can take years
I will never forget untill the Alzheimer's or old age kicks in.
ETA: Unless its this Brian Vicker's creep! I will NEVER EVER EVER forgive him. May he die old and lonely *spit spit* 
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july06bride
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Re: Grudges
depends on the situation, who the person is and what the situation is... I try not to...but to be honest, there is "a friend" who really showed her true colors to me the past 2 years..and I am angry with her and hold a grudge a bit, but to be honest I dont include her in my life except when she "has to be"
It needs to be serious though- I dont hold grudges over little things, not worth the effort
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| Posted 10/9/06 9:03 AM |
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angnick
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Re: Grudges
I forgive, but i never forget.
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| Posted 10/9/06 9:07 AM |
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june262004
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Re: Grudges
I forgive but don't forget depending on how bad it is.
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| Posted 10/9/06 10:31 AM |
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munchkinbugs
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Re: Grudges
Oh yeah...I'm BIG on grudges. I just won't talk to you.
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| Posted 10/9/06 11:09 AM |
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MrsA
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Re: Grudges
I forgive and will try to forget if I can...but depends on what the situation is.
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| Posted 10/9/06 11:18 AM |
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MrsPorkChop
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Re: Grudges
hes just an imature jerk
hes not even worth a grudge- especially over stupid cutting board- sounds like fifth grade to me
just ignore the jerk
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| Posted 10/9/06 11:21 AM |
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Depends how bad it was in the 1st place but I never forget.
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