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Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by PrincessP
What were you guys trying to do? You said knock down wood? Were you throwing out stuff? building stuff? Also, how do you throw out crap that you dont know if it is important to the homeowner? This sounds like a contaminated mess.

DH & I were mostly doing Demo. We were taking down the sheetrock including the ceilings, pulled up some of the flooring, and took down any non-support 2x4s inside the house. Everything had to be taken out as the mold spread behind the walls and into the frame of the house. Most of their personal possessions were out of the house as they were already living in the trailer for a few months at that point. There was some random stuff in the upstairs closets and basement thought, but not a lot.

Posted 3/24/12 10:56 PM
 
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

the whole thing really is very fascinator.

Posted 3/24/12 10:57 PM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by MsKS511

Posted by MC09

Posted by MsKS511

Posted by MC09

Posted by neenie

Can we speak about something more lighthearted? Like the time that Janet's "friend" came on to LIF and demanded that we get together 3 THOUSAND dollars for Janet so that she could have sperm extracted from Keith's body so that she could still have the option to have his baby. Cause that one always warms my heart Chat Icon



This is just horrifying! Please tell me this is just a joke and did NOT actually happen I hope?



It sure as shit happened. And I'm not banned!!!......Yet Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



eh I meant your original username Chat Icon I hope they don't ban you again under this name



My name was Hollagirl and I was an asshole back then Chat Icon

I don't mind if they ban me. They have a right to. :)


You were the most lovable asshole ever!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Oh and you are still lovableChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/24/12 11:57 PM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by Phyl

Posted by MsKS511

Posted by MC09

Posted by MsKS511

Posted by MC09

Posted by neenie

Can we speak about something more lighthearted? Like the time that Janet's "friend" came on to LIF and demanded that we get together 3 THOUSAND dollars for Janet so that she could have sperm extracted from Keith's body so that she could still have the option to have his baby. Cause that one always warms my heart Chat Icon



This is just horrifying! Please tell me this is just a joke and did NOT actually happen I hope?



It sure as shit happened. And I'm not banned!!!......Yet Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



eh I meant your original username Chat Icon I hope they don't ban you again under this name



My name was Hollagirl and I was an asshole back then Chat Icon

I don't mind if they ban me. They have a right to. :)


You were the most lovable asshole ever!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Oh and you are still lovableChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/25/12 12:35 AM
 

ItsTime2011
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

WOW! Just...wow. Following this thread there is really nothing else to say. This woman got over on so many people for so long! So sad that she jaded an entire online community.
For what it's worth, although things get out of hand on this site sometimes, and I may not agree with all (or many Chat Icon ) of you, I still think this is a very giving and caring, albeit, more cautious community.

Posted 3/25/12 7:59 AM
 

JennP
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

As others have mentinoed, the problem is that the newer posters couldn't glean all of this from the thread initially, and all they saw were vaguely hostile and sarcastic comments about the OP. (Not me, I've been around and know exactly what happened, although the sperm bit - Chat Icon Chat Icon .)

I think the next time she posts and alludes to the drama herself, like she did here, someone needs to just post a link to this thread or an otherwise summarized post of what happened.

I 10000000% do NOT blame the people she hurt for being completely disgusted with her and wanting to call her out, but it's more effective to do it in a way that makes others understand.

Posted 3/25/12 9:17 AM
 

Stacey1403
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by Phyl

Posted by MsKS511

Posted by MC09

Posted by MsKS511

Posted by MC09

Posted by neenie

Can we speak about something more lighthearted? Like the time that Janet's "friend" came on to LIF and demanded that we get together 3 THOUSAND dollars for Janet so that she could have sperm extracted from Keith's body so that she could still have the option to have his baby. Cause that one always warms my heart Chat Icon



This is just horrifying! Please tell me this is just a joke and did NOT actually happen I hope?



It sure as shit happened. And I'm not banned!!!......Yet Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



eh I meant your original username Chat Icon I hope they don't ban you again under this name



My name was Hollagirl and I was an asshole back then Chat Icon

I don't mind if they ban me. They have a right to. :)


You were the most lovable asshole ever!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Oh and you are still lovableChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



You are also still an asshole Chat Icon

Posted 3/25/12 10:16 AM
 

ladybug8
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Wow--I knew she came on and asked for things but I had no idea about the donations and the house since it went down before I joined LIF. Thanks for the heads up. I'm so surprised that she hasn't been blocked from this site!

Posted 3/25/12 10:39 AM
 

teachermom
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by jennylu

Can we stop throwing the word BULLY around, please? A kid who has no choice but to go to school, and is picked on there simply for being him or herself is, yes, being bullied. No one HAS to be on LIF, everyone here is a grown up and if they dont like the climate, they can leave. To refer to differences of opinion constantly as bullying is doing a disservice to all those who are truly being bullied every day. Stop with this kumbaya stuff, please!










Have you heard of cyberbullying? The age of the person doesn't matter, nor does the venue. I don't know how you people can feel good about the nonsense that is going on here. Family chat? Yeah, right. Are some of you mothers? I feel bad for your kids and families if this is how you interact with people in real life. This terrible thread isn't about a "difference of opinion" but about ridicule and snarky attempts at self-gratifying humor. Grow up.

Posted 3/25/12 10:54 AM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by teachermom

Posted by jennylu

Can we stop throwing the word BULLY around, please? A kid who has no choice but to go to school, and is picked on there simply for being him or herself is, yes, being bullied. No one HAS to be on LIF, everyone here is a grown up and if they dont like the climate, they can leave. To refer to differences of opinion constantly as bullying is doing a disservice to all those who are truly being bullied every day. Stop with this kumbaya stuff, please!










Have you heard of cyberbullying? The age of the person doesn't matter, nor does the venue. I don't know how you people can feel good about the nonsense that is going on here. Family chat? Yeah, right. Are some of you mothers? I feel bad for your kids and families if this is how you interact with people in real life. This terrible thread isn't about a "difference of opinion" but about ridicule and snarky attempts at self-gratifying humor. Grow up.




Have you even read the entire thread?

Posted 3/25/12 10:59 AM
 

skew
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by MsMBV

Posted by nrthshgrl

When he died, the house was in horrible shape (like condemn-able from what I heard). She had a leak in the roof that was never fixed, inches of water in the basement & a serious mold problem that made the house unlivable. That's outside of the other issues I heard secondhand that the house had (animal feces all over, etc)

http://www.lifamilies.com/chat/topic.aspx?&P=1&ID=40341



I was one of the ones who showed up to help with the house. The smell was unbearable. We wore masks, because of the mold everywhere, and you could smell the ammonia through the masks. At one point we tried doubling up the masks. Of course we couldn't breathe and had to go back to one mask, but Ron got a good chuckle or two out of that part, as we then had one mask on top of our head and the other one covering our nose & mouth. Not to make light of it, but it was such a heavy day, any levity was welcomed.



I might not have worn the proper shoes Chat Icon but at least I wasn't lounging while everyone so selflessly helped to restore my house. As I recall our "friend" spent more time chatting, smoking and eating then contributing. Chat Icon

Message edited 3/25/2012 11:31:31 AM.

Posted 3/25/12 11:07 AM
 

Phyl
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by Stacey1403

Posted by Phyl

Posted by MsKS511

Posted by MC09

Posted by MsKS511

Posted by MC09

Posted by neenie

Can we speak about something more lighthearted? Like the time that Janet's "friend" came on to LIF and demanded that we get together 3 THOUSAND dollars for Janet so that she could have sperm extracted from Keith's body so that she could still have the option to have his baby. Cause that one always warms my heart Chat Icon



This is just horrifying! Please tell me this is just a joke and did NOT actually happen I hope?



It sure as shit happened. And I'm not banned!!!......Yet Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



eh I meant your original username Chat Icon I hope they don't ban you again under this name



My name was Hollagirl and I was an asshole back then Chat Icon

I don't mind if they ban me. They have a right to. :)


You were the most lovable asshole ever!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Oh and you are still lovableChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon





You are also still an asshole Chat Icon

jksskoijaei'aaqseo!!lkdjfedf;;Chat Icon

Message edited 3/25/2012 11:15:43 AM.

Posted 3/25/12 11:14 AM
 

teachermom
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by Stacey1403

Posted by teachermom

Posted by jennylu

Can we stop throwing the word BULLY around, please? A kid who has no choice but to go to school, and is picked on there simply for being him or herself is, yes, being bullied. No one HAS to be on LIF, everyone here is a grown up and if they dont like the climate, they can leave. To refer to differences of opinion constantly as bullying is doing a disservice to all those who are truly being bullied every day. Stop with this kumbaya stuff, please!










Have you heard of cyberbullying? The age of the person doesn't matter, nor does the venue. I don't know how you people can feel good about the nonsense that is going on here. Family chat? Yeah, right. Are some of you mothers? I feel bad for your kids and families if this is how you interact with people in real life. This terrible thread isn't about a "difference of opinion" but about ridicule and snarky attempts at self-gratifying humor. Grow up.




Have you even read the entire thread?



No, I got a few pages in. Any furter and I would have vomited on my computer.

Posted 3/25/12 11:46 AM
 

HeathKernandez
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by teachermom

Posted by Stacey1403

Posted by teachermom

Posted by jennylu

Can we stop throwing the word BULLY around, please? A kid who has no choice but to go to school, and is picked on there simply for being him or herself is, yes, being bullied. No one HAS to be on LIF, everyone here is a grown up and if they dont like the climate, they can leave. To refer to differences of opinion constantly as bullying is doing a disservice to all those who are truly being bullied every day. Stop with this kumbaya stuff, please!










Have you heard of cyberbullying? The age of the person doesn't matter, nor does the venue. I don't know how you people can feel good about the nonsense that is going on here. Family chat? Yeah, right. Are some of you mothers? I feel bad for your kids and families if this is how you interact with people in real life. This terrible thread isn't about a "difference of opinion" but about ridicule and snarky attempts at self-gratifying humor. Grow up.




Have you even read the entire thread?



No, I got a few pages in. Any furter and I would have vomited on my computer.



of course you didn't

Posted 3/25/12 11:59 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by HeathKernandez

Posted by teachermom

Posted by Stacey1403

Posted by teachermom
Have you heard of cyberbullying? The age of the person doesn't matter, nor does the venue. I don't know how you people can feel good about the nonsense that is going on here. Family chat? Yeah, right. Are some of you mothers? I feel bad for your kids and families if this is how you interact with people in real life. This terrible thread isn't about a "difference of opinion" but about ridicule and snarky attempts at self-gratifying humor. Grow up.



Have you even read the entire thread?



No, I got a few pages in. Any furter and I would have vomited on my computer.



of course you didn't



That's pretty freaking obvious.

Don't feel bad for my kids. Feel bad for your own if you're the type to form an opinion based on your own choice to be ignorant.

Message edited 3/25/2012 12:04:42 PM.

Posted 3/25/12 12:04 PM
 

DirtyBlonde
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by teachermom

Posted by jennylu

Can we stop throwing the word BULLY around, please? A kid who has no choice but to go to school, and is picked on there simply for being him or herself is, yes, being bullied. No one HAS to be on LIF, everyone here is a grown up and if they dont like the climate, they can leave. To refer to differences of opinion constantly as bullying is doing a disservice to all those who are truly being bullied every day. Stop with this kumbaya stuff, please!





Have you heard of cyberbullying? The age of the person doesn't matter, nor does the venue. I don't know how you people can feel good about the nonsense that is going on here. Family chat? Yeah, right. Are some of you mothers? I feel bad for your kids and families if this is how you interact with people in real life. This terrible thread isn't about a "difference of opinion" but about ridicule and snarky attempts at self-gratifying humor. Grow up.



Go to page 8 and start reading from there.

Then you can apologize for what you just said to the moms on this board.

Message edited 3/25/2012 12:59:33 PM.

Posted 3/25/12 12:07 PM
 

HeathKernandez
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by nrthshgrl

Posted by HeathKernandez

Posted by teachermom

Posted by Stacey1403

Posted by teachermom
Have you heard of cyberbullying? The age of the person doesn't matter, nor does the venue. I don't know how you people can feel good about the nonsense that is going on here. Family chat? Yeah, right. Are some of you mothers? I feel bad for your kids and families if this is how you interact with people in real life. This terrible thread isn't about a "difference of opinion" but about ridicule and snarky attempts at self-gratifying humor. Grow up.



Have you even read the entire thread?



No, I got a few pages in. Any furter and I would have vomited on my computer.



of course you didn't



That's pretty freaking obvious.

Don't feel bad for my kids. Feel bad for your own if you're the type to form an opinion based on your own choice to be ignorant.



Gotta love 'those people...'

Posted 3/25/12 12:12 PM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by DirtyBlonde

Posted by teachermom

Posted by jennylu

Can we stop throwing the word BULLY around, please? A kid who has no choice but to go to school, and is picked on there simply for being him or herself is, yes, being bullied. No one HAS to be on LIF, everyone here is a grown up and if they dont like the climate, they can leave. To refer to differences of opinion constantly as bullying is doing a disservice to all those who are truly being bullied every day. Stop with this kumbaya stuff, please!





Have you heard of cyberbullying? The age of the person doesn't matter, nor does the venue. I don't know how you people can feel good about the nonsense that is going on here. Family chat? Yeah, right. Are some of you mothers? I feel bad for your kids and families if this is how you interact with people in real life. This terrible thread isn't about a "difference of opinion" but about ridicule and snarky attempts at self-gratifying humor. Grow up.



Go to page 8 and start reading from there.

Then you can apologize for what you just said to the moms on the this board.



ITA!

I can't believe some of what I have read on here and it really puts any comments that were about made about the OP into perspective. I had NO clue about all of this Janet drama but after reading every post on this thread and gaining a better understanding of some of the things that took place, I can COMPLETELY understand why some of the women on here are very upset with her. I would be too if the tables were turned! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/25/12 12:13 PM
 

ThePinkGoose
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

I just have no words.....I've been on this site for a few years but had no IDEA about many of the things posted on this thread. In the past, i've defended Janet and almost felt like it was a witch-hunt whenever she posted. Now, I can understand why!!!! That is insane!

Posted 3/25/12 12:32 PM
 

neenie

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by teachermom
No, I got a few pages in. Any furter and I would have vomited on my computer.



Chat Icon Fine job of showing your enlightenment.


Ever since this thread started, i seriously feel an overwhelming urge to scream "Leave Brittney Spears ALONEEEE". I picture lots of men dressed as women, sitting in front of their computer screens, having an emotional outburst, with streams of eyeliner and mascara running down their faces. Chat Icon

Posted 3/25/12 1:01 PM
 

headoverheels
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by teachermom

Posted by Stacey1403

Posted by teachermom

Posted by jennylu

Can we stop throwing the word BULLY around, please? A kid who has no choice but to go to school, and is picked on there simply for being him or herself is, yes, being bullied. No one HAS to be on LIF, everyone here is a grown up and if they dont like the climate, they can leave. To refer to differences of opinion constantly as bullying is doing a disservice to all those who are truly being bullied every day. Stop with this kumbaya stuff, please!










Have you heard of cyberbullying? The age of the person doesn't matter, nor does the venue. I don't know how you people can feel good about the nonsense that is going on here. Family chat? Yeah, right. Are some of you mothers? I feel bad for your kids and families if this is how you interact with people in real life. This terrible thread isn't about a "difference of opinion" but about ridicule and snarky attempts at self-gratifying humor. Grow up.




Have you even read the entire thread?



No, I got a few pages in. Any furter and I would have vomited on my computer.



I feel way worse for the kids you teach than for the children of the women who participated in revealing the truth in this thread. You know, after page 3. What kind of teacher makes comments like that without reading the whole thread so you can know the entire story?

Message edited 3/25/2012 1:12:27 PM.

Posted 3/25/12 1:12 PM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by AnaMaree77

I just have no words.....I've been on this site for a few years but had no IDEA about many of the things posted on this thread.



I agree as well. I never knew the magnitude of what has occured. I am so sorry for all those who were being kind and generous and only got slapped in the face.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/25/12 3:30 PM
 

MsMBV
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by skew

Posted by MsMBV

Posted by nrthshgrl

When he died, the house was in horrible shape (like condemn-able from what I heard). She had a leak in the roof that was never fixed, inches of water in the basement & a serious mold problem that made the house unlivable. That's outside of the other issues I heard secondhand that the house had (animal feces all over, etc)

http://www.lifamilies.com/chat/topic.aspx?&P=1&ID=40341



I was one of the ones who showed up to help with the house. The smell was unbearable. We wore masks, because of the mold everywhere, and you could smell the ammonia through the masks. At one point we tried doubling up the masks. Of course we couldn't breathe and had to go back to one mask, but Ron got a good chuckle or two out of that part, as we then had one mask on top of our head and the other one covering our nose & mouth. Not to make light of it, but it was such a heavy day, any levity was welcomed.



I might not have worn the proper shoes Chat Icon but at least I wasn't lounging while everyone so selflessly helped to restore my house. As I recall our "friend" spent more time chatting, smoking and eating then contributing. Chat Icon

Not to mention sleeping. Good to see you skew!

Teachermom, it's not snark - its anger & shock. Had you bothered to read the rest, you would have gotten it.

Message edited 3/25/2012 4:53:51 PM.

Posted 3/25/12 4:51 PM
 

KristenRSF
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

I'm still not banned. And I have ALWAYS adored you, Skew <3.

Posted 3/25/12 4:56 PM
 

MsMBV
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

LB, marry me Chat Icon

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