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lbelle821
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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

entertainment or not, this is a hurtful thing to say about an ENTIRE community. A very large commuity. I think the imus thing was also hurtful but I'm sure hit harder for certain people rather than others just like this does. These incidences are personal attacks on people where a lot don't deserve it. I don't think you can say that one is worse than the other. It just depends on who it is directed to. I can get offended by something that someone else thinks is perfectly fine. It's not fair for others to make any opinions on what should offend me and what shouldn't. If it is purely "just for entertainment" than he could at least fess up to the fact that he does it for entertainment but instead he is choosing to alienate a LARGE part of his listening audience. I don't feel strongly one way or another about the firing or suspension because I could care less but I for one am so sick of hearing about how people feel about this community. We get it.

PS - i don't live there but grew up there and my family is still there and so I take it a little personally because they are hard-working middle class people who have lived there forever. And I get upset when people call them white trash because they're not. Nor are they sex offenders. But let's get real, I'm probably not going to let some comments by a DJ get to me that much. I don't listen to the station anyway because I'm in Jersey.

Message edited 2/29/2008 12:32:56 PM.

Posted 2/29/08 10:43 AM
 
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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

Posted by Tracey

Why should one be considered worse? Imus put down a football team - Randy put down an entire community - with the trailer park and white trash with no teeth comment. They are both despicable.




I guess that was my point but you just said it better.

Posted 2/29/08 10:54 AM
 

LFitzy79
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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

Posted by janet

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I can't even believe Kate Browning would get involved in this, of all the petty things to care about, she should be focusing more on improving the lives of the residents in her district. Work on affordale housing, don't get involved in a silly off the cuff comment of a radio personality.



she DOES alot for our commuinty. she is very active in everything.



this isn't something she should be active in, she gives it more attention by getting involved

Posted 2/29/08 10:57 AM
 

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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

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I agree except I don't think he should be forced to apologize if he feels he did nothing wrong.

He has every right to think and say what he wants as it's his freedom of speech. If people don't like it, they should stop listening.

This is just a form of censorship that has become more commonplace and that makes me nervous.


I agree 100%...it's called freedom of speech.....if you don't agree with him, don't listen to his show. I do not understand whay he would get fired for that

Posted 2/29/08 10:58 AM
 

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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

IDK -- i don't really let entertainment personalities and their comments bother me. sometimes i think people get "offended" so freaking fast these days---its overkill. big freaking deal. i also think the word "offended" is entirely overused in our society nowadays. it was a stupid joke and everyone getting up in arms about it is doing nothing but fueling a fire. its silly. gotta just learn to brush it off and get over it

Posted 2/29/08 11:02 AM
 

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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

The point I was getting as was that if Imus can go back on the air then Randy can too.

Posted 2/29/08 11:02 AM
 

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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

Posted by MrsPJB2007

IDK -- i don't really let entertainment personalities and their comments bother me. sometimes i think people get "offended" so freaking fast these days---its overkill. big freaking deal. i also think the word "offended" is entirely overused in our society nowadays. it was a stupid joke and everyone getting up in arms about it is doing nothing but fueling a fire. its silly. gotta just learn to brush it off and get over it



I'm offended that you said the word offended is overused.

Posted 2/29/08 11:04 AM
 

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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

Posted by MrsPJB2007

IDK -- i don't really let entertainment personalities and their comments bother me. sometimes i think people get "offended" so freaking fast these days---its overkill. big freaking deal. i also think the word "offended" is entirely overused in our society nowadays. it was a stupid joke and everyone getting up in arms about it is doing nothing but fueling a fire. its silly. gotta just learn to brush it off and get over it



why should we have to "just get over it?" - he doesn't even think he was wrong and refused to apologize - I happen to live in a very nice area over there and i do take great "offense" to the generalization of the type of people that live there.

Posted 2/29/08 11:06 AM
 

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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

Posted by carolinep24


I'm offended that you said the word offended is overused.




well i'm truly offended by the offensive & heinous drawing in your offensive avatar. i'm offended you call yourself an artist!

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Posted 2/29/08 11:06 AM
 

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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

Posted by MrsPJB2007

Posted by carolinep24


I'm offended that you said the word offended is overused.




well i'm truly offended by the offensive & heinous drawing in your offensive avatar. i'm offended you call yourself an artist!

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Posted 2/29/08 11:07 AM
 

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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

Posted by MrsPJB2007

Posted by carolinep24


I'm offended that you said the word offended is overused.




well i'm truly offended by the offensive & heinous drawing in your offensive avatar. i'm offended you call yourself an artist!

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though I am proud of my interpretation of planet of the apes in MS Paint.

it is ART.. you wouldn't understand.
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Posted 2/29/08 11:08 AM
 

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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

Posted by Tracey

Posted by MrsPJB2007

IDK -- i don't really let entertainment personalities and their comments bother me. sometimes i think people get "offended" so freaking fast these days---its overkill. big freaking deal. i also think the word "offended" is entirely overused in our society nowadays. it was a stupid joke and everyone getting up in arms about it is doing nothing but fueling a fire. its silly. gotta just learn to brush it off and get over it



why should we have to "just get over it?" - he doesn't even think he was wrong and refused to apologize - I happen to live in a very nice area over there and i do take great "offense" to the generalization of the type of people that live there.




honestly---who FREAKING CARES!?!?! everyone is all about beating into someone's brain why they are being offensive! so what if he doesn't think what he said is offensive!? do you honestly think you saying "i'm so offended" by his statement is gonna make him magically say "oh wow i should completely change my thought process here" NO it won't. and FORCING him to apologize is ridiclious---wow they say "apologize or you don't get your job back" yeah he'll apologize -- for the job and that's it. he won't be sincere and he won't mean it and nothing will change.

so trying to get him to "see the light" isn't going to work.

by getting worked up over what ONE person said in a generalization--you are just giving them validation...hence why i say...get over it.

maybe i'm used to generalizations--being hispanic--and i have heard them all. hell--i've had someone SPIT IN MY FACE and tell me to "go back where i came from" (i was born here thank you) with my 5 yr. old niece with me.....THAT is cause for offense. when one loser on a radio station makes a stupid comment that probably thousands of people make all the time (since the station received so many people calling and agreeing)---why let it fan the flames?? its not gonna change what this guy says or what many others say anyway. generalizations happen to everyone---rich, poor, black, white, male, female---its the point of letting it GET to you that makes the difference.

Posted 2/29/08 11:11 AM
 

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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

<Porrruss gets on flame retardent suit>

I haven't lived in LI for many years.... but I recall that Mastic had a certain "rep" not far off from what this DJ said.... SO, it's not like he decided to dream this stuff up- the thought process came from somewhere.

I recently moved from an area here in Maryland that is "affectionately" know as Hazzard County (redneck reference). Was everyone there a redneck? NO. There were some very nice areas/people there (including myself
Chat Icon ) In fact, most people there had all their teeth. They did love their pick-ups though. What was interesting though is that those who lived in the area EMBRACED it- we laughed about it. In fact, I can recall many Baltimre City DJ's would turn on the hick accent whenever anyone from our "county" would call in.

Are those of you who are offended plssed that there is this stigma attached to the Mastic area, or because someone decided to voice it over the airways?

Posted 2/29/08 11:19 AM
 

HeathKernandez
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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

Posted by Tracey
he doesn't even think he was wrong and refused to apologize



why SHOULD he apologize.. he DOESN'T think he was wrong.

What was so wrong about someone stating an opinion other than the people who live there might not agree?

I wouldn't apologize...

Posted 2/29/08 11:20 AM
 

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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

Posted by carolinep24

Posted by Tracey
he doesn't even think he was wrong and refused to apologize



why SHOULD he apologize.. he DOESN'T think he was wrong.

What was so wrong about someone stating an opinion other than the people who live there might not agree?

I wouldn't apologize...



I didn't say that he SHOULD apologize - i am saying that he wouldn't - really now it makes no difference.

Just lilke Randy is entitled to his opinion - so AM I. I made my opinion known - i think he is despicable and without merit - he has nothing to back up his opinion as it was stated that he has never even been to mastic/shirley.

I don't care if he apologizes or not - it makes no difference to me.

Posted 2/29/08 11:24 AM
 

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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

Posted by Tracey

Posted by MrsPJB2007

IDK -- i don't really let entertainment personalities and their comments bother me. sometimes i think people get "offended" so freaking fast these days---its overkill. big freaking deal. i also think the word "offended" is entirely overused in our society nowadays. it was a stupid joke and everyone getting up in arms about it is doing nothing but fueling a fire. its silly. gotta just learn to brush it off and get over it



why should we have to "just get over it?" - he doesn't even think he was wrong and refused to apologize - I happen to live in a very nice area over there and i do take great "offense" to the generalization of the type of people that live there.



Regardless of wheter it was offense or not, he has a right to say what he wants. No one should be censored because another group doesn't like what that one is saying hence the development of the 1st amendment.

If you don't like what he says, don't listen to the radio station or withdraw your support of their sponsors. To censor a person for their opinion is treading on dangerous ground.

Posted 2/29/08 11:26 AM
 

HeathKernandez
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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

Posted by Tracey

Posted by carolinep24

Posted by Tracey
he doesn't even think he was wrong and refused to apologize



why SHOULD he apologize.. he DOESN'T think he was wrong.

What was so wrong about someone stating an opinion other than the people who live there might not agree?

I wouldn't apologize...



I didn't say that he SHOULD apologize - i am saying that he wouldn't - really now it makes no difference.

Just lilke Randy is entitled to his opinion - so AM I. I made my opinion known - i think he is despicable and without merit - he has nothing to back up his opinion as it was stated that he has never even been to mastic/shirley.

I don't care if he apologizes or not - it makes no difference to me.



you just said 'why should we get over it... what he did was wrong and refused to apologize'

so obviously you're not over it.

where was it stated that he has not been there? I'm only asking because I'm curious.

Then that means he based his opinion on hear say. And like many others pointed out, UNFORTUNATELY that area has a bum rep. If you know of the area being different, then he is ignorant.

I understand where your frustration is coming from. and yes you are entitled to your opinion as well.

Personally, I don't take to heart what people say about me. I DEFINITELY don't think he should get fired for it.

Posted 2/29/08 11:32 AM
 

MrsPJB2007
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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

Posted by Tracey

I didn't say that he SHOULD apologize - i am saying that he wouldn't - really now it makes no difference.

Just lilke Randy is entitled to his opinion - so AM I. I made my opinion known - i think he is despicable and without merit - he has nothing to back up his opinion as it was stated that he has never even been to mastic/shirley.

I don't care if he apologizes or not - it makes no difference to me.



maybe my issue is when i hear everyone throwing the "i'm offended & hurt" stuff around. it just seems a bit dramatic to throw that terminology around about a guy that probably most people who are claiming to be offended didn't even hear him say it in the first place and probably only found out about it thru news stories and such. (not specifying you--just in general)


lets be real here--long island is a diverse area and there's no denying that certain areas have a "stigma" attached to them....be it good or bad. sometimes i think when you live in these areas you just have to take the good with the bad and let the stigma roll off your back.

Posted 2/29/08 11:32 AM
 

HeathKernandez
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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

Posted by Porrruss

<Porrruss gets on flame retardent suit>

I haven't lived in LI for many years.... but I recall that Mastic had a certain "rep" not far off from what this DJ said.... SO, it's not like he decided to dream this stuff up- the thought process came from somewhere.

I recently moved from an area here in Maryland that is "affectionately" know as Hazzard County (redneck reference). Was everyone there a redneck? NO. There were some very nice areas/people there (including myself
Chat Icon ) In fact, most people there had all their teeth. They did love their pick-ups though. What was interesting though is that those who lived in the area EMBRACED it- we laughed about it. In fact, I can recall many Baltimre City DJ's would turn on the hick accent whenever anyone from our "county" would call in.

Are those of you who are offended plssed that there is this stigma attached to the Mastic area, or because someone decided to voice it over the airways?



OMG I remember your neighbor has a rebel flag on his front porch!!!!

good times were had by all when you were living there.

Message edited 2/29/2008 11:33:48 AM.

Posted 2/29/08 11:33 AM
 

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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

i really don't see the big deal. i would not be offended if he said that about my town.

Posted 2/29/08 11:35 AM
 

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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

Posted by dita

i really don't see the big deal. i would not be offended if he said that about my town.

agreed

Posted 2/29/08 11:37 AM
 

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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

Posted by carolinep24

Posted by Tracey

Posted by carolinep24

Posted by Tracey
he doesn't even think he was wrong and refused to apologize



why SHOULD he apologize.. he DOESN'T think he was wrong.

What was so wrong about someone stating an opinion other than the people who live there might not agree?

I wouldn't apologize...



I didn't say that he SHOULD apologize - i am saying that he wouldn't - really now it makes no difference.

Just lilke Randy is entitled to his opinion - so AM I. I made my opinion known - i think he is despicable and without merit - he has nothing to back up his opinion as it was stated that he has never even been to mastic/shirley.

I don't care if he apologizes or not - it makes no difference to me.



you just said 'why should we get over it... what he did was wrong and refused to apologize'

so obviously you're not over it.

where was it stated that he has not been there? I'm only asking because I'm curious.

Then that means he based his opinion on hear say. And like many others pointed out, UNFORTUNATELY that area has a bum rep. If you know of the area being different, then he is ignorant.

I understand where your frustration is coming from. and yes you are entitled to your opinion as well.

Personally, I don't take to heart what people say about me. I DEFINITELY don't think he should get fired for it.



Actually, Dana said it this morning on the show.
I am actually over it - I do take it from where its coming -

it makes no difference to me whether they let him back on the show or not - I just said I wouldn't care if he got fired cuz he is just sooooo annoying with that whiney voice!!!

Posted 2/29/08 11:40 AM
 

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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

Posted by MrsPJB2007

Posted by Tracey

I didn't say that he SHOULD apologize - i am saying that he wouldn't - really now it makes no difference.

Just lilke Randy is entitled to his opinion - so AM I. I made my opinion known - i think he is despicable and without merit - he has nothing to back up his opinion as it was stated that he has never even been to mastic/shirley.

I don't care if he apologizes or not - it makes no difference to me.





lets be real here--long island is a diverse area and there's no denying that certain areas have a "stigma" attached to them....be it good or bad. sometimes i think when you live in these areas you just have to take the good with the bad and let the stigma roll off your back.




i really do agree - there really is nothing I can do about what others think - It just annoys me - and there is no denying the stigma attached to our town what with the recent events that have gone on there.

I digress.....

Posted 2/29/08 11:44 AM
 

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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

I find him extremely annoying all the time. I can't stand him.

Posted 2/29/08 11:47 AM
 

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Re: WBLI Suspends Randy

seriously- consider the source

why waste your time being offended over a radio show

I am sure everyone has better things to do with there time

this country is too sensitive

Posted 2/29/08 11:51 AM
 
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