Wednesday QOTD

Happy Gorgeous Wednesday!!

Do you get along with your DH's family and does your DH get along with your family and do you think they will be happy for you when you get your BFP?

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I think I get along with all of DH's family on both sides (divorced parents) they are great! I'v had some bumps in the road with some of his family but it is family and you get over it! And my family loves my DH he gets along well with them all!
As far as the BFP Im pretty sure they will all be thrilled! My MIL wanted me to have a baby before we even got married lol and Grandma well she'll be the happiest. My DH is like the apple of her eye and she cant wait for me to have a baby . My family will also be so excited for us!

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My DH has a very small very disfunctional family. He is very close to his dad and so I am I, I love his dad.

My family is huge and close knit and it is as if my DH is blood related. They embraced him and he got very close with them since his family is almost nonexistant.

I am the oldest child on my side and I know my family is patiently waiting the news of a BFP. I think its my moms ultimate dream

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Yes I get along with DH's family and when we get our BFP they will be ecstatic again...my family also..we are all really close.

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Thankfully everyone really does get along well. It is funny though we live near his family and really far , 6 hours, from mine. But we end up seeing mine more. There were a lot of differences in the way that we were raised so I do think that will come up in parenting and grandparenting decisions. I am sure both sides will be thrilled though!

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DH's family is a complete and utter waste of our time. They never call, they never send cards, they could careless that our DD exists. I can count on two hands how many times they have seen Emerson since she's been born and she is 18 months old!!!...............and they live a half hour away.

They just finally saw her two weeks ago and that was the first time since CHRISTMAS DAY!!! I don't even bother with them. I put in my time when my DH forces the issue otherwise I am fine not seeing them. My DD has plenty of family on my side who actually care about her. When we got our BFP his mother barely batted an eye and Emerson is their first grandchild.

This past pregnancy where I miscarried my DH happened to call her the day of the IUI...........you think she would've called a few days later to see if anything was going on but no. Didn't know we got a BFP, didn't know we were dealing with a non-viable pregnancy, and didn't know I miscarried until my DH called her which is the only way we ever end up speaking to them. Ridiculous!

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Luckily for me my DH gets along very well with my family. He has known my immdediate family (dad, sister and mom..before she passed) since we were 14 yrs old. He loves my extended family too but he doesn't love the drama. We live within 5 mins-45 mins away from my family.

His family lives in Florida and the only people he talks to on a regular basis is his mom and grandma. I love both of them and wish they lived closer or we lived closer. His brother is a piece of crap and his aunts are garbage too.

I know that both of our families will be very excited once we get our BFP. For Christmas we sent his mom and grandma GC's to use towards a plane ticket for when we do get a BFP so they can be here either for the birth or shortly after.

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I love DH's family and get along with everyone. DH and I lived with my inlaws for about a year and a half so MIL and I are very close. We see his extended family pretty often.

My family LOOOVES DH! My dad and DH get along soo well that sometimes I have to drag DH out of my parents house when we're over there for dinner. DH also gets along really well with my brother. My bro NEVER got along with (or even talked to!) any of my exes.

I think both families will be thrilled when we give them news of a BFP! My plan is to have both sets of parents over for dinner and tell them after we eat (if I can hold it in that long lol!) I just KNOW that there will be screams and tears and smiles and jumping jacks!!! Can't wait for that!!!

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Yes, Yes and Absolutely without a doubt!!!

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Yes, I get along great with DH's family--they will be over the MOON when I get a BFP. They don't know how long we've been trying (I assume they assume we have been though), but they talk about their future grandchildren all the time.

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I get along with DH's family really well. Most of them at least. I'm actually really close to his sister and SIL. DH gets along with my family too. Both families will be ESTATIC once we get our BFP, they've all been praying and hoping for us.

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Yes, I absolutely love DHs family, and I'm sure it will be happy news on both sides!

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Everyone gets along on both sides and both sides will be THRILLED when I get a BFP...... Hopefully that will happen soon!!

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I get along good with his family. DH's family will be thrilled when we are pregnant his Mom already told me she's praying for a girl.
I can't really tell my family because I don't want my mother to know. I don't plan on telling them until I'm showing a lot or if possible, after the babies born. I don't need their negativity when I'm trying to have a happy healthy pregnancy. I would really like to enjoy my pregnancy & infant with people who truly love & support us.

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Yes, everyone gets along and I think everyone will be totally thrilled and supportive when we get our bfp.