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Using the same name

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No 156 92.31%
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Would this bother you?

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Goobster
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Member since 5/07

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Re: Would this bother you?

Middle, NO. Many families have the same middle name. No no no. Not a big deal.

Posted 11/14/14 10:41 PM
 

Chai77
Brighter days ahead

Member since 4/07

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Re: Would this bother you?

I'm usually touchy with stuff like this but honestly NO, this absolutely would not bother me. As a matter of fact, we named our DS's the same exact two middles names as my sister in law's two boys! The other SIL used a close variant for her DS's middle name. It never even occurred to me that anyone would care. They are very dear family names. I think it would have raised more eyebrows if we hadn't used those names (seen as snubbing those family members).

Posted 11/14/14 10:54 PM
 

donegal419
St. Gerard, pray for us.

Member since 7/07

7650 total posts

Name:
K

Re: Would this bother you?

No. In fact DD and her cousin share the same middle name. The middle name is after their grandmother. I like the fact that the girl cousins share it.

Posted 11/14/14 11:55 PM
 

wingsofsong
My 3 little loves <3<3<3

Member since 1/09

7395 total posts

Name:
Maureen

Would this bother you?

Not even in the slightest. In fact, both of my brothers have a son with the same middle name as my oldest son.

Message edited 11/15/2014 12:05:36 AM.

Posted 11/15/14 12:05 AM
 

BsMomma2014
Fly high little one

Member since 6/10

2662 total posts

Name:
nicole

Would this bother you?

Not at all, I have the same middle name as my first cousin and it never fazed us

Posted 11/15/14 3:47 AM
 

nferrandi
too excited for words

Member since 10/05

18538 total posts

Name:
Nicole

Re: Would this bother you?

I know two brothers and both of their first born boys have the same name. One was a junior. The other boy was named after his mothers brother who died. It's a little odd, but they have seperate meanings.

Posted 11/15/14 8:16 AM
 

AprilBabyBoy
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Member since 7/13

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Re: Would this bother you?

Posted by NervousNell

Wouldn't bother me.
But very little does.

I haven't taken out a copyright or trademark on DD's name like Beyonce wanted to, so I have to expect others will use it.




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Posted 11/15/14 8:40 AM
 

DiamondGirl
You are my I love you

Member since 7/09

18802 total posts

Name:
DiamondMama

Re: Would this bother you?

No

Posted 11/15/14 2:01 PM
 

oldtimerocknroll
LIF Adult

Member since 11/14

1657 total posts

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Re: Would this bother you?

No. I'm not quite sure why this would be bothersome, to be honest.

Posted 11/15/14 3:08 PM
 

jendar
happy bday mom! 7yrs married

Member since 12/13

1323 total posts

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thank you mom. i love you

Re: Would this bother you?

nah.

Posted 11/15/14 3:47 PM
 

Sweetlax22
LIF Adult

Member since 5/10

1904 total posts

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Re: Would this bother you?

Nope, but I come from a large italian family where just about all of my cousins , plus my sister and I , share a first or middle name with at least one cousin. In fact, thinking about it, out of 20 of us only one (the youngest) has a completely original name. Chat Icon

My mom had 6 first cousins with her name so this is a pattern haha

Posted 11/16/14 10:42 AM
 

KevinNKristin8-15-08
Welcome to the world Chase

Member since 9/08

6162 total posts

Name:
Kristin

Re: Would this bother you?

For a middle name, no not at all.

Posted 11/17/14 3:13 AM
 

mnmsoinlove
Mommy to 2 sweet girls!

Member since 3/09

8585 total posts

Name:
Melissa

Re: Would this bother you?

Not at all. If any myself, my brother, or cousins have a boy we all want to use our grandpas first name as a middle name.

My brother and my first cousin have the same middle name it was never an issue.

Eta: my mom has a lot of first cousins who share the same 1st name. There are 4 Thomas, 4 Christophers that is a bit confusing

Message edited 11/17/2014 6:59:06 AM.

Posted 11/17/14 6:55 AM
 

JennZ
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Member since 8/05

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Re: Would this bother you?

Nope. We have a lot of same names in our family.

Posted 11/17/14 8:29 AM
 

evenedan
Need a little sunshine

Member since 9/05

3843 total posts

Name:
D

Re: Would this bother you?

Posted by BargainMama

Not at all. Not even a tiny bit. I'm surprised this would bother anyone to be honest.



This was my thought too.

Posted 11/18/14 9:17 AM
 

Waste06
Waste not, want not

Member since 6/06

7219 total posts

Name:
Lois Mom Mommy Mama Ma

Re: Would this bother you?

Wouldn't bother me. In my family, middle names are typically named after a grandparent. So it's highly likely that the name would be used more than once.

If it's a completely unique name, it might seem odd, but for a middle name that hardly gets used...not a big deal.

Posted 11/18/14 9:57 AM
 

JennyPenny
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Member since 1/08

12702 total posts

Name:
Jen

Would this bother you?

It would definitely grate on my nerves, but I wouldn't say anything to them.

Posted 11/18/14 10:08 AM
 

EatingMyVeggies

Member since 1/12

6667 total posts

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Would this bother you?

One question...

Do you like your brother in law or do you have issues with him?


I find that silly things can get to me if I don't like the person.

Posted 11/18/14 12:37 PM
 

BeachGrl
LIF Adult

Member since 10/11

2140 total posts

Name:
Kristy

Re: Would this bother you?

Posted by EatingMyVeggies

One question...

Do you like your brother in law or do you have issues with him?


I find that silly things can get to me if I don't like the person.



This is the exact reason why it would bother me.

Posted 11/18/14 12:56 PM
 

JDubs
different, not less

Member since 7/09

13160 total posts

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Re: Would this bother you?

I wouldn't care. Its only a middle name.

Posted 11/18/14 2:24 PM
 

TheDivineMrsM
2 girls 4 me!

Member since 8/08

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Name:
Mama mama mama....

Re: Would this bother you?

Nope, not at all. My sister and I may actually have this situation someday. The babies' middle names will be for our grandfather.

Posted 11/18/14 3:15 PM
 
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