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FLaCaTaCa
Kelsey Elyse = Love
Member since 5/05 1855 total posts
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Stacy
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With My <3 in my Hand....
I must let you all know that my DH and I have decided to put the TTC stuff on hold for a bit.
I feel selfish. I feel stupid. I feel like I should stop trying to control something I apparently can not. Most of our reasoning for putting this on hold is for school and timing purposes. With student teaching next year, I'll have to work nights and my DH works nights 2 times a week. I couldn't imagine having a sitter put my child to sleep on those nights at a newborn age. 
It breaks my heart completely and I've fought with myself a whole lot the past two days. I know that this works for DH and myself and we've gotta make this happen. We'll be waiting until a little bit into 2009.
Thank You for your countless amount of help and all of your support! I really need you now more than ever!
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Posted 7/9/08 2:17 PM  |
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summerBaby10
let's be nice
Member since 9/07 10208 total posts
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Wifey
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
 awww.. I can't imagine how hard a decision this is for you guys.
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| Posted 7/9/08 2:18 PM |
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Teachergal
We made a snowman!
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
Awwwwww, Stacy, you made the best decision for you and DH. In the end that IS the best for your future DC! I'm probably biased though since I'm a teacher  but I think you are doing a wonderful thing! Good luck in the future...we'll miss you here!
Message edited 7/9/2008 5:41:31 PM.
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| Posted 7/9/08 2:24 PM |
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MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor
Member since 12/07 16202 total posts
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Deanna
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
oh Stacy,
i am so sad that you are leaving us.. i hope you still come on here to chat .. ill miss you!!
you are such a strong girl , and you and DH knows whats best for you both and thats all that matters!!
love ya!!
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| Posted 7/9/08 2:24 PM |
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MikesWife
Wanting...........
Member since 1/06 6887 total posts
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Karen
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
Awwww, that is such a hard decision. I wish all the best.
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| Posted 7/9/08 2:27 PM |
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Angel321
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
OH no.... I am so sorry for how hard this decision must've been for you both to come to.
Please know that we are here for you regardless of your TTC status!!!! We've grown to love you and care for you - so just flat out going away now is NOT the answer!
Do you hear me MISSY?? 
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| Posted 7/9/08 2:27 PM |
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jam11308
Member since 11/07 7273 total posts
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
I'm sorry to see you go  As sad as it is, though, it sounds like you guys made the right decision for now...even though it was a hard one. I wish you all the best!!!
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| Posted 7/9/08 2:30 PM |
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LemonHead
Sour Girl
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
Please continue to chat with us, we love your posts!! You have to do what's best for you and Dh, I know it's not easy!
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| Posted 7/9/08 2:40 PM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
Member since 9/07 3389 total posts
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Lisa
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
I am so sorry you are leaving the TTC, it is a hard decision to make. Best of luck stacy.
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| Posted 7/9/08 3:11 PM |
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BellaRock
I am all the Me I will ever Be
Member since 5/06 9746 total posts
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She who shall remain nameless
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
I know it must be so hard. You have to do what's best for you two. All things will work out in the end.
I know this is easier said than done but don't be a stranger. Come around and say "Hello" and let us know how you are doing. I know its hard to come on and read all these things that you want to be apart of. So my FM is alway there if you want to chat.
We will miss you.
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| Posted 7/9/08 3:12 PM |
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nicknmb
SISTERS!
Member since 1/06 5193 total posts
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MaryBeth
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
sorry to see you go, but you have to do what's best for you and DH
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| Posted 7/9/08 3:15 PM |
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Dani922
Here's to new beginnings
Member since 10/07 7260 total posts
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Danielle
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
I'm so sorry to see you leaving! I can imagine that this must have been a difficult decision for you both, but I'm sure it will work out for you or the best in the long run.
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| Posted 7/9/08 4:03 PM |
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Nikkibean
LIF Adolescent
Member since 6/08 647 total posts
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I'm waiting for you to come back to me
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
I think your decision is completely unselfish and thoughtful. You are putting off having a child so that when you do have one you can give it all the love and attention it deserves.
You're already a great mom!
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| Posted 7/9/08 4:28 PM |
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Lizzy
Carson's Mama
Member since 2/08 2430 total posts
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Elisabeth
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
Stacy -- this must be so hard after all the work and time you have put into TTC. But, I also know that you are wise to do what will work best for you and DH, too. Maybe the little break will be just what you need to make a baby
Are you going to keep hanging out with us on LIW? I will miss you so much!!
xoxoxox
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| Posted 7/9/08 4:39 PM |
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maybeamommy
Blessed beyond belief
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
Stacy I can't even imagine what a hard decision this must have been for you.
You have all of our support and please feel free to stay and chat, or I'm always here on FM if you need me for any reason!
I hope to see you back here as soon as you two are ready!
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| Posted 7/9/08 4:53 PM |
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Bridex100
Two Under Two Mommy
Member since 3/08 10420 total posts
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Momx100
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
I'm very sad to see you go. I thought you were one of the secret BFPs. I'm sure your decision was a tough one to make. Wish you the best of luck.
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| Posted 7/9/08 4:54 PM |
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FLaCaTaCa
Kelsey Elyse = Love
Member since 5/05 1855 total posts
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Stacy
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
Thank You so much! Your overwhelming love and support just really help in so many ways. This was tough...one of the toughest things ever. I know my advice to someone in my shoes would be to go ahead and do what they felt was right. I know this is right, I just didn't want to accept it if that makes sense. We have and we're ok.
I promise to stick around. I want to learn soooo much from each of you!!!
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| Posted 7/9/08 6:28 PM |
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Kissy331
My two miracles!
Member since 5/06 17826 total posts
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Kristen
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
I am sad to see you leaving the TTC board, but your decision is well respected All in all, it is all about timing & when the time is right for you guys, I will be looking for you back on the TTC boards.....Good luck with your student teaching
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| Posted 7/9/08 6:58 PM |
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ArmyOfBabies
Growing older but not up
Member since 7/07 4427 total posts
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Jeri
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
I'm gonna miss my CB!!!
It's a hard decision, but I'm sure you know, when it does happen, you'll be happy you waited!
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| Posted 7/9/08 7:09 PM |
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MrsPowers
So blessed!
Member since 11/06 10348 total posts
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Ivelysse
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
I will definitely miss you on here. I know that this must have been a tough decision for you and I wish you all of the best.
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| Posted 7/9/08 7:16 PM |
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SummerMiracle
LIF Toddler
Member since 7/08 465 total posts
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Brianne (Bri)
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
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sfp0701
Liam's Mommy!
Member since 1/07 9764 total posts
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Tricia
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
What a tough decision. I am sorry we won't be seeing you around for a little while but 2009 is not too far away.
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| Posted 7/9/08 8:59 PM |
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Kris516
Love The Roo
Member since 2/08 2024 total posts
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Kris
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
I'm so sorry to hear this, but it sounds like you are making a very selfless decision, which is what parenting is all about. 2009 will be here before you know it!!
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| Posted 7/9/08 11:03 PM |
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katiebug
I'll love you for always
Member since 2/08 4624 total posts
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Katie
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
We will miss you! You know what is best for you and your future family.
On a good note, you and I will officially TTC together, so that makes me happy!
Hugs for you!
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| Posted 7/10/08 12:49 AM |
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mrsgafforio
LIF Adult
Member since 3/07 3929 total posts
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Christine
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Re: With My <3 in my Hand....
Don't leave me!!!
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