LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

What are you planning

Posted By Message
Pages: [1] 2

Babyin10
LIF Infant

Member since 8/09

137 total posts

Name:

What are you planning

when you go back to work? If you go back to work? Daycare or will you have someone in your family take care of the baby? Or will you be able to stay home??

Posted 8/27/09 2:29 PM
 
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource

Lisa982006
Mommy of 2! Ty God

Member since 9/06

3107 total posts

Name:
Lisa

Re: What are you planning

SAHM Chat Icon

Posted 8/27/09 2:36 PM
 

MrsScott
So in Love

Member since 1/09

3356 total posts

Name:
Shawna

Re: What are you planning

i would like my mom to be my babysitter if I have to go back to work i pray I wont have to

Posted 8/27/09 2:47 PM
 

TheDivineMrsM
2 girls 4 me!

Member since 8/08

7878 total posts

Name:
Mama mama mama....

Re: What are you planning

Taking a year off, and then we'll decide btw a nanny or daycare

Posted 8/27/09 2:51 PM
 

nicrae
He's here!

Member since 12/06

9289 total posts

Name:
Mommy

Re: What are you planning

DD #1 already goes to daycare so DC #2 would be joining her.

Posted 8/27/09 2:52 PM
 

MayBbaby21
Baby no. 3 coming soon!

Member since 6/09

5738 total posts

Name:

Re: What are you planning

This has been a tough one for me. I love my career but I have one heck of a commute. I wouldn't be getting a whole lot time with the baby. Ideally, I'll work from home because we can use the extra income, but it wouldn't be with my current company.

Posted 8/27/09 2:53 PM
 

BabysMomma29
Due with Baby #2!

Member since 10/08

2004 total posts

Name:
Tricia aka MattandTricia07

Re: What are you planning

My MIL does childcare for a living, so we're thinking her and hopefully my mom will be retiring in a year so she can help out too.

Posted 8/27/09 2:56 PM
 

ko123
My loves!

Member since 10/07

3002 total posts

Name:
Kristin

Re: What are you planning

Our latest "plan" is I'll stay home the first 6 months, then go back to work full time (but work from home one day a week); and have a nanny at the house.
Sounds great in theory....We'll see what actually happens when our time comes! Chat Icon
I love my job very much so I hope to be able to balance everything.

Posted 8/27/09 2:58 PM
 

8ternity
<3

Member since 11/08

10586 total posts

Name:
Formally NYPD-Wife

Re: What are you planning

Take maybe 2 months off. My mom just retired so she will watch our baby.

I would love to be a SAHM but that won't happen unless we win the lotto!

Posted 8/27/09 2:59 PM
 

Mrs-D-Girl
Love my fur baby

Member since 8/07

5183 total posts

Name:

Re: What are you planning

DH will be a stay at home Daddy Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 8/27/2009 3:10:50 PM.

Posted 8/27/09 3:00 PM
 

jerseychick
LIF Adult

Member since 4/09

3923 total posts

Name:

Re: What are you planning

Hopefully I'll stay home for a few months...then probably daycare unless MIL retires.

Posted 8/27/09 3:19 PM
 

maymama
my little loves

Member since 8/08

18453 total posts

Name:

Re: What are you planning

daycare or grandmothers M-W when DH is teaching

DH will be home with the peanut TH-F

Chat Icon (i will go back full time)

Posted 8/27/09 3:21 PM
 

ns1011
I'm wide awake

Member since 4/09

2697 total posts

Name:
Nic

Re: What are you planning

Posted by Lisa982006

SAHM Chat Icon



Same here.

Posted 8/27/09 3:55 PM
 

Ever-After
Goals w/o plans r just wishes

Member since 6/09

2585 total posts

Name:
C

Re: What are you planning

SAHM

Posted 8/27/09 4:18 PM
 

jennarose023
Jack's gonna be a big brother!

Member since 11/08

7769 total posts

Name:
Jenna

Re: What are you planning

doesn't seem the SAHM is an option but i will try to work from home part time and the office part time

Posted 8/27/09 4:23 PM
 

maymama
my little loves

Member since 8/08

18453 total posts

Name:

Re: What are you planning

Posted by jennarose023

doesn't seem the SAHM is an option but i will try to work from home part time and the office part time




this would be ideal for me too, and i might just be able to swing it since I am in medical sales... I pray that I can talk my management into this when the time comes Chat Icon

Posted 8/27/09 4:59 PM
 

LoveyQ
Stalkers, get a life.

Member since 11/07

12820 total posts

Name:

Re: What are you planning

We can't afford for either DH or I to be a stay at home parent unfortunately. So in an IDEAL world, I would LOVE for me to care for the baby on weekends (my days off), for DH to take care of the baby 2 days during the week (his days off) and for my MIL or a daycare to have the baby the other 3 weekdays.

That being in an IDEAL world. I'm not sure how comfortable DH would be with an infant all on his own, so we would have to see how it plays out in real life.

Posted 8/27/09 5:07 PM
 

JenMarie
One day at a time

Member since 11/07

7397 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: What are you planning

We're still really unsure. My Dad just retired, but I'm not sure he can handle watching my kids, and I'm not sure it's even fair to ask him. I want him to enjoy his retirement. So, that would leave us with daycare because we have no other family.Chat Icon If my Dad watches our kid, DH will probably switch to an 11:30-8 shift and I'll work 8-3 with no lunch so he'd only have the kid for like 4 hours. And hopefully I'd be able to work from home 1 day per week.

Posted 8/27/09 5:56 PM
 

getinmybelly18
LIF Adolescent

Member since 8/09

730 total posts

Name:

Re: What are you planning

SAHM

We figure if I go back to work we would end up spending a majority of my salary on child care anyway.

Posted 8/27/09 7:21 PM
 

KNic19
Baby's First Christmas

Member since 7/09

3541 total posts

Name:
Kim

Re: What are you planning

Unfortunately we can't afford for SAH anything. Day care will have to be our plan. DH was already looking into the one across the street from his job Chat Icon

Posted 8/27/09 7:58 PM
 

NewLIGirl
LIF Infant

Member since 8/08

150 total posts

Name:

Re: What are you planning

We dont have any family members who can help us . :( I plan on going to 3-4 day work weeks and daycare. I dont really have a family friendly career so it is going to be tough!

Posted 8/27/09 10:22 PM
 

heatherandrichie
xoxo

Member since 7/07

1384 total posts

Name:
Heather

Re: What are you planning

My mom offered but I am not too sure about that anymore. DH & I will try to rotate days.

Posted 8/28/09 12:18 AM
 

ttcing
LIF Adolescent

Member since 8/09

851 total posts

Name:
Mel

Re: What are you planning

summer off since im a teacher..maybe take one more month and then i have no clue. I'd like to find a trustworthy babysitter and not daycare!

Posted 8/28/09 1:52 AM
 

FergieK
Loving my girls

Member since 7/09

2533 total posts

Name:
Fergie

Re: What are you planning

I wish I had a choice. I would like to be a SAHM but dont think that is possible. I will have to probably do Day care. But from what I hear there are so many places that put you on a wait list that you almost have to sign up the day you concieve.Chat Icon

Posted 8/28/09 7:59 AM
 

Babyin10
LIF Infant

Member since 8/09

137 total posts

Name:

Re: What are you planning

Yeah I would love to be able to stay home as well but that won't be possible either. It'll probably be day care!

Posted 8/28/09 8:14 AM
 
Pages: [1] 2
 

Potentially Related Topics:

Topic Posted By Started Replies Forum
Party Planning... Repost Dont know If you ladies can help.. CollP612 3/22/07 3 Parenting
FH & I are planning a trip to Disney... I have a question... KGools 10/25/06 2 Travel & Vacations
Dh and I are going to the movies Friday.. Yes I am planning ahead luvsbob4603 10/2/06 4 Families Helping Families ™
Was anyone planning to go to this? Think it was posted earlier... karacg 4/17/06 2 Infertility
Guess what??? We are planning a trip to Ireland this summer peabody 4/7/06 27 Families Helping Families ™
Are you planning on bringing extra pillows and the boppy pillow with you when u go into labor? AnnBrunoXO 2/6/06 13 Pregnancy
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 1178806 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows