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This will be our last month TTC. *Update*

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TessMike214
Gabriella Aubrey born 3/26!

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Tess

This will be our last month TTC. *Update*

It's all or nothing this month. Dh & I have been trying for #2 since I went off birth control back in April 2011. We suffered one early miscarriage June 30th.
While I have not lost all hope, I think that it's best to take a few months off, relax, & enjoy our lives with our beautiful DS. The stress of TTC has been very overwhelming for me these past few months. I spoke with DH last night & he doesn't mind the break. So this is it. If God blesses us with being pregnant this month, it would be amazing. If not, then I will go on birth control for a few months. A part of me doesn't want to go on birth control, but it's the only way that I know I can control the situation & take all of the TTC pressure, anxiety, & stress off of me, just for a little while. I'm not out yet this month, as AF is due the 25th. The best of luck to all my ladies Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 11/26/2012 11:10:58 AM.

Posted 11/16/12 6:06 PM
 
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LoveBug72
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Member since 7/12

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J

This will be our last month TTC.

Hope you get your BFP this month... Totally understand the pressure and heartache it brings!! Wishing you the absolute best!

Posted 11/16/12 10:17 PM
 

EandF
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Re: This will be our last month TTC.

Your post made me tear up! Wishing you all the best and a BFP soon. Chat Icon

I had no idea how hard and emotional this process would be and it helps having everyone on here to talk to. Take care of yourself and keeping my fingers crossed.

Posted 11/16/12 10:50 PM
 

StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!

Member since 6/10

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Stacey

This will be our last month TTC.

Good luck!

Posted 11/17/12 8:22 AM
 

TaraVinny
my miracle coming October!!!

Member since 10/09

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Tara

Re: This will be our last month TTC.

good luck!!!

Posted 11/17/12 9:16 AM
 

TessMike214
Gabriella Aubrey born 3/26!

Member since 5/10

2440 total posts

Name:
Tess

Re: This will be our last month TTC.

Thank you ladies so much for your encouraging words & support. I know I can always count on you! Chat Icon Chat Icon
Regardless of TTC for a year & a half, we are very blessed to have our son.
I hope & pray that you all get BFPs very soon. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 11/17/2012 10:19:36 AM.

Posted 11/17/12 10:18 AM
 

frio85
LIF Adult

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Michele

Re: This will be our last month TTC.

Good Luck! I hope you get a BFP!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/17/12 10:26 AM
 

Bearcat
Love my little girls!!! <3

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Re: This will be our last month TTC.

Good luck!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/17/12 10:28 AM
 

gina409
TWINS!

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Re: This will be our last month TTC.

best of luck to youChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/17/12 11:07 PM
 

pteradactylmama
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Heather

Re: This will be our last month TTC.

good luck and I hope you don't need to refill that BC!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/18/12 8:26 AM
 

leelee2011
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Re: This will be our last month TTC.

My heart goes out to you. DH & I decided last month also to take some time off as well. It really starts to take a toll on you. Since we have taken off this cycle I almost feel light a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I think us ladies put too much pressure on ourselves. When we start up again there will be no more tempting,OPKS or figuring out the EXACT days for GO TIME for Chat Icon . Going to do the traditional every day and just go back to having fun with it. Maybe just stay of BC and just see what happens. You never know!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/18/12 9:35 AM
 

Kizzy
LIF Infant

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Kim

Re: This will be our last month TTC.

Wishing you the best of luck! I really hope this is your month! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/18/12 10:05 AM
 

BabysMomma29
Due with Baby #2!

Member since 10/08

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Tricia aka MattandTricia07

Re: This will be our last month TTC.

I hope this is your month!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/18/12 11:48 AM
 

junecookie
LIF Infant

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This will be our last month TTC.

take good care of yourself. sounds very stressful. i wish you the BEST luck!

Posted 11/18/12 12:41 PM
 

SryMrsJackson
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Just call me D

Re: This will be our last month TTC.

Good Luck!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/18/12 9:50 PM
 

phoenix913
LIF Adult

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V

Re: This will be our last month TTC.

Good luck. Sorry it's been so stressful for you. Chat Icon

Posted 11/18/12 10:24 PM
 

TessMike214
Gabriella Aubrey born 3/26!

Member since 5/10

2440 total posts

Name:
Tess

Re: This will be our last month TTC.

Thank you all for your support & love, it means so much to me! If it doesn't happen this month, hope is whispering to me, one more month, but I don't know.
Good luck to you all! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/20/12 9:06 AM
 

IveGotAFeeling
Always look on the bright side

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of life!

Re: This will be our last month TTC.

Good luck Tess. I really hope this is your month!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/20/12 2:33 PM
 

MRsFaTThead
NY GIRL IN TEXAS

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WHO GIVES A POO WHO GIVES A FUDGE !!

Re: This will be our last month TTC.

GOOD LUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK

Posted 11/21/12 1:32 PM
 

TessMike214
Gabriella Aubrey born 3/26!

Member since 5/10

2440 total posts

Name:
Tess

Re: This will be our last month TTC.

Thank you ladies so much!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
I don't think this month will be my month though. I tested early with a BFN, haven't tested since, but I don't have a good feeling...I don't think I am ready to throw the towel in though, I think I am having a change of heart! If it doesn't happen this month, I don't think that I am going on BCP after all.

Posted 11/23/12 12:45 PM
 

DumpsterBaby
My compass when I'm lost

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My anchor when I get tossed

This will be our last month TTC.

Stick with it Tess!!!! I'm hanging in there too! Love you xoxoxoxo

Posted 11/23/12 4:22 PM
 

SLPlady1984
She's here!

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Re: This will be our last month TTC.

Posted by TessMike214

Thank you ladies so much!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
I don't think this month will be my month though. I tested early with a BFN, haven't tested since, but I don't have a good feeling...I don't think I am ready to throw the towel in though, I think I am having a change of heart! If it doesn't happen this month, I don't think that I am going on BCP after all.



Don't fill the bc the hormones will just complicate ttc when u decide to start again. Got my bfp the month I stopped stressing. Went for a massage, only temped during the week so I didn't have to wake myself up on weekends, bd every other day from cycle day 11 on no opk and wala bfp! Good luck!

Posted 11/23/12 10:22 PM
 

GlowSuarez
Baby Marz is here!

Member since 12/10

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G

Re: This will be our last month TTC.

good luck! hun wishing you all the best!! and lots ofChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/26/12 9:44 AM
 

TessMike214
Gabriella Aubrey born 3/26!

Member since 5/10

2440 total posts

Name:
Tess

Re: This will be our last month TTC.

Thank you so much everyone for your support & kind words. They mean the world to me & I can always count on you to pick me up & help me out!

I am out for this month, again. Chat Icon
But, I've had a change of heart and decided not to go on BCP. It would be silly of me to do so because we are married & we dream of more children. It is taking a lot longer than we thought, but we will not give up. I know that our time will come for another child. I will just try to take a step back, and not stress out the process as much as I have been. It's easier said than done. We are truly blessed to have our beautiful son, he is our world. I just have to find a way to ease my mind & heart, & let God decided when he wants to bless us again.
No BCP for me, but I think it's better if I don't add myself to anymore 2WW, because they stress me out!
Good luck to all of you ladies Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/26/12 11:10 AM
 

Lillies
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Re: This will be our last month TTC. *Update*

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Posted 11/26/12 12:13 PM
 
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