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Re: This will be our last month TTC. *Update*
Posted by TessMike214
Thank you so much everyone for your support & kind words. They mean the world to me & I can always count on you to pick me up & help me out!
I am out for this month, again. 
But, I've had a change of heart and decided not to go on BCP. It would be silly of me to do so because we are married & we dream of more children. It is taking a lot longer than we thought, but we will not give up. I know that our time will come for another child. I will just try to take a step back, and not stress out the process as much as I have been. It's easier said than done. We are truly blessed to have our beautiful son, he is our world. I just have to find a way to ease my mind & heart, & let God decided when he wants to bless us again.
No BCP for me, but I think it's better if I don't add myself to anymore 2WW, because they stress me out!
Good luck to all of you ladies 
I'm really glad you chose to not go back on BCP! I am going to send you FM now...
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Re: This will be our last month TTC. *Update*
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Re: This will be our last month TTC. *Update*
 I'm glad you aren't giving up. Best of luck to you!!
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| Posted 11/26/12 5:24 PM |
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Re: This will be our last month TTC. *Update*
Posted by TessMike214
Thank you so much everyone for your support & kind words. They mean the world to me & I can always count on you to pick me up & help me out!
I am out for this month, again.
But, I've had a change of heart and decided not to go on BCP. It would be silly of me to do so because we are married & we dream of more children. It is taking a lot longer than we thought, but we will not give up. I know that our time will come for another child. I will just try to take a step back, and not stress out the process as much as I have been. It's easier said than done. We are truly blessed to have our beautiful son, he is our world. I just have to find a way to ease my mind & heart, & let God decided when he wants to bless us again.
No BCP for me, but I think it's better if I don't add myself to anymore 2WW, because they stress me out!
Good luck to all of you ladies
The month you are not "focusing" on it; it WILL happen. Good Luck
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| Posted 11/26/12 9:44 PM |
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Ready2BeAMommy
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Re: This will be our last month TTC. *Update*
Im happy you had a change of heart!! TTC is definitely stressful but we can't make it get the best of us because it only makes the whole process that much worse. I definitely agree taking the more relaxed approach however! After my first month of TTC last month it was such a downer for me when I saw that BFN but this time around I said to myself I can't continue on stressing myself out like this and obssessing over every little symptom!!!! It was crazy, stressful and so unhealthy. So now I have a completely different attitude. I understand completely about what you said about the 2WW list. As a matter of fact I had to take a break from the boards, I still lurke every now and then and post here and there but I noticed that the boards were contributing to my obsessiveness, I found myself comparing myself to everyone else and it only made matters worse. I love you girls and all but I feel so less stressed this month lol! Good luck to you Tess and like you said it is completely up to God to decide when he will bless us. It will happen for sure, we just have to have patience and faith!! Good luck sweetie hang in there!! Xoxoxo...
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| Posted 11/27/12 10:11 AM |
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TessMike214
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Re: This will be our last month TTC. *Update*
Thanks ladies
& thank you Catherine for your kind words & encouragement. Hopefully, there will be BFPs in all of our futures!
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| Posted 11/28/12 5:56 PM |
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Re: This will be our last month TTC. *Update*
Posted by Ready2BeAMommy
Im happy you had a change of heart!! TTC is definitely stressful but we can't make it get the best of us because it only makes the whole process that much worse. I definitely agree taking the more relaxed approach however! After my first month of TTC last month it was such a downer for me when I saw that BFN but this time around I said to myself I can't continue on stressing myself out like this and obssessing over every little symptom!!!! It was crazy, stressful and so unhealthy. So now I have a completely different attitude. I understand completely about what you said about the 2WW list. As a matter of fact I had to take a break from the boards, I still lurke every now and then and post here and there but I noticed that the boards were contributing to my obsessiveness, I found myself comparing myself to everyone else and it only made matters worse. I love you girls and all but I feel so less stressed this month lol! Good luck to you Tess and like you said it is completely up to God to decide when he will bless us. It will happen for sure, we just have to have patience and faith!! Good luck sweetie hang in there!! Xoxoxo...
Do whatever makes you feel good. We are all on our own journey and people can only say what works/doesn't work for them. Just like with real-life friends, we have to take things with a grain of salt and remember that comparison is the thief of joy. But it is all a learning process. I'm glad to hear you are feeling good. I've been feeling good the last few days too. I'm sure it will be up and down. Good luck!
Tess -- best of luck! Keep the faith and stay strong.
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| Posted 11/28/12 7:33 PM |
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TessMike214
Gabriella Aubrey born 3/26!
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Re: This will be our last month TTC. *Update*
Posted by junecookie
Posted by Ready2BeAMommy
Im happy you had a change of heart!! TTC is definitely stressful but we can't make it get the best of us because it only makes the whole process that much worse. I definitely agree taking the more relaxed approach however! After my first month of TTC last month it was such a downer for me when I saw that BFN but this time around I said to myself I can't continue on stressing myself out like this and obssessing over every little symptom!!!! It was crazy, stressful and so unhealthy. So now I have a completely different attitude. I understand completely about what you said about the 2WW list. As a matter of fact I had to take a break from the boards, I still lurke every now and then and post here and there but I noticed that the boards were contributing to my obsessiveness, I found myself comparing myself to everyone else and it only made matters worse. I love you girls and all but I feel so less stressed this month lol! Good luck to you Tess and like you said it is completely up to God to decide when he will bless us. It will happen for sure, we just have to have patience and faith!! Good luck sweetie hang in there!! Xoxoxo...
Do whatever makes you feel good. We are all on our own journey and people can only say what works/doesn't work for them. Just like with real-life friends, we have to take things with a grain of salt and remember that comparison is the thief of joy. But it is all a learning process. I'm glad to hear you are feeling good. I've been feeling good the last few days too. I'm sure it will be up and down. Good luck!
Tess -- best of luck! Keep the faith and stay strong.
Thank you! Strength, faith, & hope! Best of luck to you too
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| Posted 11/29/12 6:08 PM |
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MST9106
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Re: This will be our last month TTC. *Update*
It took us almost 15 months to get preggo with #2 including one loss 3 months before I got pregnant. Dont lose hope but dont stress either! Relax, enjoy the holidays and use PreSeed! Good Luck! This seems to be a common course for a lot of women trying for #2. My little guy is going to be 4 months on the day I got my BFP 
Message edited 12/6/2012 12:38:51 PM.
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TessMike214
Gabriella Aubrey born 3/26!
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Re: This will be our last month TTC. *Update*
Posted by MST9106
It took us almost 15 months to get preggo with #2 including one loss 3 months before I got pregnant. Dont lose hope but dont stress either! Relax, enjoy the holidays and use PreSeed! Good Luck! This seems to be a common course for a lot of women trying for #2. My little guy is going to be 4 months on the day I got my BFP
Thank you, I appreciate the words of encouragement, and God bless you & your family!
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| Posted 12/6/12 8:35 PM |
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Re: This will be our last month TTC. *Update*
I understand.... We have a dd who is 2 1/2 n we r on our 8th month trying... I just dont get it!! Im tryin to b positive but it's hard
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