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Jesaroo
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the discussion formerly known as "NVM"

offensive versus not offensive.....

Message edited 10/4/2007 12:12:32 PM.

Posted 10/4/07 11:41 AM
 
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Re: well i was going to edit out the link and POOF

why the Chat Icon ??

really jess, what did you expect?

Posted 10/4/07 11:42 AM
 

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Re: well i was going to edit out the link and POOF

its just funny it got reported so quickly, i was going to edit out the url.


i honestly didnt thin it was that bad, but iwas going to delete the link out of respect to others.

i have seen FAR worse on this site that has been kept up.

not a big deal, although i do think it is slightly prejudiced. (because it is a gay guy)

Posted 10/4/07 11:45 AM
 

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Why are you assuming that it got deleted because it was a gay guy maybe because it was a burning cross representing the clan and utter hatred?

Posted 10/4/07 11:48 AM
 

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Message edited 11/11/2011 9:34:09 PM.

Posted 10/4/07 11:49 AM
 

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Posted by imthekevinofcindyandkevin

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Why are you assuming that it got deleted because it was a gay guy maybe because it was a burning cross representing the clan and utter hatred?



i think you hit it right on the head



The guy singing was black!!!!!

Posted 10/4/07 11:50 AM
 

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Posted by imthekevinofcindyandkevin

Posted by DebG

Why are you assuming that it got deleted because it was a gay guy maybe because it was a burning cross representing the clan and utter hatred?



i think you hit it right on the head



The guy singing was black!!!!!

SO? Just because the guy was black DOES NOT change what a burning cross means to others. When a black man calls a black man the "N" word does that mean others within listening distance (no matter what their color) can't be offended by the word? No, it does not.

Posted 10/4/07 11:51 AM
 

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Posted 10/4/07 11:52 AM
 

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Is this offensive then?

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Madonna: Like a prayer (1989)

Posted 10/4/07 11:52 AM
 

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someone has taking their drama pills this week

Posted 10/4/07 11:54 AM
 

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Re: nvm

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Is this offensive then?



Madonna: Like a prayer (1989)




to some it may very well be.

Message edited 10/4/2007 12:02:33 PM.

Posted 10/4/07 11:54 AM
 

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Re: nvm

Posted by dita

Is this offensive then?

Madonna: Like a prayer (1989)



I've always thought that video was offensive.

Message edited 10/4/2007 12:03:03 PM.

Posted 10/4/07 11:54 AM
 

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Posted by dita

Is this offensive then?

Madonna: Like a prayer (1989)

Yes, Yes it is. If you remember, when that video first came out it was HIGHLY controversial and MANY people were offended by it.

White or black it doesn't make it any better.
A burning cross represents what it represents no matter who is authorizing it's use

Message edited 10/4/2007 11:59:10 AM.

Posted 10/4/07 11:54 AM
 

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Re: nvm

Posted by DebG

Posted by dita

Posted by imthekevinofcindyandkevin

Posted by DebG

Why are you assuming that it got deleted because it was a gay guy maybe because it was a burning cross representing the clan and utter hatred?



i think you hit it right on the head



The guy singing was black!!!!!



SO? Just because the guy was black DOES NOT change what a burning cross means to others. When a black man calls a black man the "N" word does that mean others within listening distance (no matter what their color) can't be offended by the word? No, it does not.




ITA! EXCELLENT point!

Posted 10/4/07 11:54 AM
 

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Re: nvm

ill have to watch it again, i dont remember the cross in the begining burning?

and even though, the guy WAS black,so that wouldnt make much sense.

i honestly think it was just cheesy graphics

Posted 10/4/07 11:55 AM
 

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Message edited 11/11/2011 9:35:05 PM.

Posted 10/4/07 11:55 AM
 

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The cross burning was the opening AND the closing of this video

Posted 10/4/07 11:55 AM
 

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Re: nvm

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someone has taking their drama pills this week


to be quite honest, do you think a comment like this would put drama to an end?

i edited out the rolling eyes icon as not to offend and to nip any drama in the bud before it actually began.

ithink we are just having a discussion here about why something would be deleted.

no one is arguing here.

Posted 10/4/07 11:56 AM
 

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I can't believe how easily offended people are.

Posted 10/4/07 11:56 AM
 

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I do hope the madonna picture with the cross burning will be deleted out of this thread, otherwise I fear that a good debate will be pulled because of it.

Posted 10/4/07 11:57 AM
 

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Posted 10/4/07 11:57 AM
 

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Posted by dita

I can't believe how easily offended people are.

Seriously? If it was a swastika would that make it different?
It's a symbol of hatred and death (and not death in polite ways either) Can you please explain to me how this symbol is NOT offensive?

Posted 10/4/07 11:58 AM
 

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Re: nvm

Posted by dita

I can't believe how easily offended people are.




you're actually surprised that people are offended by a burning cross????? Chat Icon

Posted 10/4/07 11:59 AM
 

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Re: nvm

the way i see it:

-the ppl who do not find a burning cross will feel "i cant believe how easily offended some people get"

-the ppl who do find the burning cross offensive will think "how can these people not get offended by it"

Posted 10/4/07 12:00 PM
 

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Re: nvm

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someone has taking their drama pills this week


to be quite honest, do you think a comment like this would put drama to an end?

i edited out the rolling eyes icon as not to offend and to nip any drama in the bud before it actually began.

ithink we are just having a discussion here about why something would be deleted.

no one is arguing here.



but you keep posting things that clearly will cause drama this week. I.E. announcing that you were going out to the store and taking your dog after ALL the hullabaloo the day before.

Posted 10/4/07 12:01 PM
 
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