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JenandMikey
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so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
so i got a bfn this morning along with bfns the past few days which i know it was early every day i tested and i know some will say its still early now since af is due on friday and all
but i really dont think a bfp is in the cards this month and this makes me so
  
july i was so wrapped up in the logistics and finances of actually having a third and i stressed out, only to be out for the month and honestly with all the stress i was almost happy that i wasn't
but this month i was sooooooo on board for this and i wasnt stressed at all and i was honestly just excited about it all, and so knowing that this is another bfn month makes me just disappointed
mainly im so disappointed bc i know that im probably only trying for two more cycles and then im done with ttc-ing for personal reasons i gave myself a short window and i know i cant do the woulda coulda shoulda's of starting this ttc journey earlier to give myself longer but i guess #1 i got pregnant with both children on the second month so i didnt think it was going to take long=naive #2 i didnt REALLLY want this until just recently so i waited on trying
oh well if you got this far thank you for reading and sorry for my pity party especially when i know there are so many of you that went through/going through so much bigger and more
than this .....thanks for listening
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moonmist09
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so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
i'm sorry this is so difficult....sometimes, when you have an easier time conceiving your other DC, you expect it to go the same way this time around...however, please don't count yourself out just because (i think you mentioned in a previous post that you wanted to be done having kids by a certain age)you at a certain age, sometimes when you least expect things, they will happen ;0)
plus, you didn't get AF yet, so don't count yourself out...you could have a late implanter!
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Teachergal
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
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| Posted 9/5/12 6:13 PM |
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Lillies
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
We are both depressed today!!!
You never know what is in store for you. I hope this is your month!! You still have a few days so don't give up!
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| Posted 9/5/12 6:54 PM |
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maybebaby
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
You NEVER know!!!! I didn't get my BFP this time around until 16dpo!! and I knew exactly when i ovulated...
I am praying for you and hoping so badly you get a BFP!!!!!
 
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| Posted 9/5/12 7:32 PM |
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JenandMikey
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
Posted by moonmist09
i'm sorry this is so difficult....sometimes, when you have an easier time conceiving your other DC, you expect it to go the same way this time around...however, please don't count yourself out just because (i think you mentioned in a previous post that you wanted to be done having kids by a certain age)you at a certain age, sometimes when you least expect things, they will happen ;0)
plus, you didn't get AF yet, so don't count yourself out...you could have a late implanter!
thank you for this....you are so right on all accounts
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| Posted 9/5/12 8:09 PM |
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JenandMikey
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
Posted by Lillies
We are both depressed today!!!
You never know what is in store for you. I hope this is your month!! You still have a few days so don't give up!
i know i just saw your post!!! i feel like we have been on the same path of bad timing and disappoint these last two months lol
hugs right back ya
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| Posted 9/5/12 8:11 PM |
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JenandMikey
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
Posted by maybebaby
You NEVER know!!!! I didn't get my BFP this time around until 16dpo!! and I knew exactly when i ovulated...
I am praying for you and hoping so badly you get a BFP!!!!!
thank you so much.....you really are too sweet....im hoping i get your luck with a late bfp!!!!!!
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| Posted 9/5/12 8:12 PM |
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JenandMikey
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
you are truly very sweet....my pity party needs to stop, ive been feeling crappy all day....thanks for the very sweet comments and hugs.....i truly have loved this ttc board the most out of all my years on lif.....always so supportive
thank you again
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| Posted 9/5/12 8:14 PM |
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gina409
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
best of luck to all of you
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| Posted 9/5/12 8:17 PM |
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Bebelove
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
You are not out yet! But if you are, you still have some time! Try to take it easy, I know it's so hard. Hopefully your schedule will slow down a bit.
Convince yourself that this is no biggie and it WILL happen, things have a way of working out when you feel calm.
I'm like you with the time limit, but in order to relax a bit, I'm giving myself a few extra months  no harm in just a few more months.
I would start BD on cd 8 if you can. Have you tried preseed? That may help, I used it my other pregnancies.
Best of luck, I hope you get BFP
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JenandMikey
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
Posted by Bebelove
You are not out yet! But if you are, you still have some time! Try to take it easy, I know it's so hard. Hopefully your schedule will slow down a bit.
Convince yourself that this is no biggie and it WILL happen, things have a way of working out when you feel calm.
I'm like you with the time limit, but in order to relax a bit, I'm giving myself a few extra months no harm in just a few more months.
I would start BD on cd 8 if you can. Have you tried preseed? That may help, I used it my other pregnancies.
Best of luck, I hope you get BFP
you are totally right about calming down and then things work out .....and im actually saying that to myself.....and with this possible bfn month number 2 upon me i have already started to say "maybe ill give myself just a couple more months lol" too funny you said that.....and thats exactly what im going to do start on cd8 after af shows....i havent tried preseed but maybe ill look into it!.....thanks so much
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Tina1117
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
I'm right there with you. Both my boys were conceived the 1st month trying. This time around not so much. The last 2 months were BFN and this month I'm taking a break.
DH and I gave us until the end of the year to get pregnant. If it doesn't work then we said we can at least say we tried for #3.
May be a glass a wine at night to relax yourself may help. This is something I may be looking into next month  With all the daily stress and running around with the kids etc our bodies are obviously exhausted compared to when we were first TTC.
Best wishes and hopefully we'll journey over to the pregnancy board sooner than later.
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JenandMikey
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
Posted by Tina1117
I'm right there with you. Both my boys were conceived the 1st month trying. This time around not so much. The last 2 months were BFN and this month I'm taking a break.
DH and I gave us until the end of the year to get pregnant. If it doesn't work then we said we can at least say we tried for #3.
May be a glass a wine at night to relax yourself may help. This is something I may be looking into next month With all the daily stress and running around with the kids etc our bodies are obviously exhausted compared to when we were first TTC.
Best wishes and hopefully we'll journey over to the pregnancy board sooner than later.
i agree that the daily stress of the two dc is definitely exhausting our bodies!!!! well hopefully our stay is short and its nice to know there are so many of you girls that i can relate to and share in the ttc journey
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08BabySurprise
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
You are a mama to 2 gorgeous, active, girls that I am sure exhaust. You have a husband, and a home, finances, and the stresses of every day life. Just try to step back and don't look at the ENTIRE picture. Just focus on this one piece for now and try to not stress over it. You are putting a lot of pressure on yourself with the entire "I got pregnnat before on the second month." You know what? Given everything else in your life now, it may take some more time and that's ok!!! Just relax, have fun, and let it happen. AND YOU ARE NOT OUT YET!!! OK?? Sending you so much and even more 
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TessMike214
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TessMike214
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
Posted by 08BabySurprise
Just try to step back and don't look at the ENTIRE picture. Just focus on this one piece for now and try to not stress over it. You are putting a lot of pressure on yourself with the entire "I got pregnnat before on the second month." You know what? Given everything else in your life now, it may take some more time and that's ok!!! Just relax, have fun, and let it happen. AND YOU ARE NOT OUT YET!!! OK?? Sending you so much and even more
ITA! You put that very well!!
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Lillies
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
Anything new today for you?
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| Posted 9/6/12 8:34 PM |
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JenandMikey
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
Posted by Lillies
Anything new today for you?
bfn's all week.....today af is due to arrive, have no more hpts but most positive she's coming soon and I'm out.....any updates for you???
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| Posted 9/7/12 6:42 AM |
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Lillies
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
Posted by JenandMikey
Posted by Lillies
Anything new today for you?
bfn's all week.....today af is due to arrive, have no more hpts but most positive she's coming soon and I'm out.....any updates for you???
AF came this am 
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JenandMikey
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
Posted by Lillies
Posted by JenandMikey
Posted by Lillies
Anything new today for you?
bfn's all week.....today af is due to arrive, have no more hpts but most positive she's coming soon and I'm out.....any updates for you???
AF came this am
af came last night
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Lillies
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
I'm so sorry on to text month for us.
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| Posted 9/8/12 8:06 AM |
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Teachergal
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
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Posted by Lillies
Posted by JenandMikey
Posted by Lillies
Anything new today for you?
bfn's all week.....today af is due to arrive, have no more hpts but most positive she's coming soon and I'm out.....any updates for you???
AF came this am
af came last night
I'm so sorry!!!
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JenandMikey
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Re: so af is due on friday .....warning: pity party for 1
Posted by Lillies
I'm so sorry on to text month for us.
thank you yup onto to next month
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