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do you look at spouses cell phone text messages/calls

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yes because your nosey 141 44.76%
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need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

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browneyedgirl
family is all that matters

Member since 6/06

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browneyes

Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

i'll read his texts because i'm nosey and he knows i'm doing it. it's never in secret. he has some stupid friends so i like to see what they're talking aboutChat Icon

i have no need to secretly check his phone

Posted 5/10/11 8:45 PM
 

mrsboss
my little love

Member since 12/09

5054 total posts

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Me

Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

We both leave our phones around, we are always snapping pics of DD, so we are always swapping and looking. there are no secrets. He can read mine, I can read his.

Posted 5/10/11 8:58 PM
 

sfp0701
Liam's Mommy!

Member since 1/07

9764 total posts

Name:
Tricia

Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Nope. But, If I ever felt the need to I wouldn't hesitate. So it's not like I don't eheck them because I feel like it would be a great invasion of his privacy. I go into his email for things (like shipping notices and stuff). I am his wife. There are to be no secrets and I would have no qualms about checking his stuff I had doubts. However, I think it would be a snooze fest, looking through his phone!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/10/11 10:41 PM
 

KartveliT
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Posted by jerseypanda

I have never checked my DH cell phone. I have no reason to. I have my own phone to look at.

I don't think he would care because he has nothing to hide, just like I wouldn't care if he looked at my phone... we just don't do that.

same.

Posted 5/11/11 8:23 AM
 

LINewbie
Tigger the the Rescue!

Member since 8/08

5647 total posts

Name:
LB

Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

I said no -never but I do if he asks me to, like if he's driving and getting texts. Ditto for him to me. I trust him - I would hate to be married to someone I didn't trust Chat Icon I don't think he'd stop me if I just grabbed his phone and started looking through it. But why would I invade his privacy like that?

Posted 5/11/11 1:03 PM
 

bayla
Love my two kiddos :)

Member since 8/06

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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

nope, but we also always have it out infront of each other, borrow each others if the other ones battery is dead. We are very open with all those things.
I have dated guys before my DH many years ago, where they would hide all that stuff and that made me sispicious. Son yes back in the day I have checked my ex boyfriends phones (found out one in particular was cheating on me with a bunch of other peopleChat Icon

Posted 5/11/11 3:50 PM
 

dctead
It's 5 o'clock somewhere!

Member since 11/10

2139 total posts

Name:
Emily

Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

No... and with DH - I'd never even think about needing to look (but had with ex's...)

we each have full access to each others phones ...constantly swapping them, leaving them laying around - so if I wanted to (or he did) it's there to do so...

Posted 5/11/11 4:01 PM
 

sweetie101
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Member since 5/08

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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Yea I good reason to.

Posted 5/11/11 4:07 PM
 

JoJo2010
Happy Family

Member since 8/09

6266 total posts

Name:
JO

Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

No never....never even thought about doing that.

Posted 5/11/11 4:37 PM
 

adn16
LIF Adult

Member since 5/10

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Name:
A

Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

nope..he wouldn't care if i did though lol

Posted 5/11/11 6:04 PM
 

BsMomma2014
Fly high little one

Member since 6/10

2662 total posts

Name:
nicole

Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Posted by nov04libride

We both answer each other's phones, or read texts as they come. No secrets. Chat Icon



I agree same with us

Posted 5/11/11 7:34 PM
 

VickiRG510
I'M A MOMMY!

Member since 3/09

1042 total posts

Name:
Vicki

Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Posted by cateyemm

Posted by nov04libride

We both answer each other's phones, or read texts as they come. No secrets. Chat Icon



yup



Same here. We are open with our phones. So all texts & calls can be read or answered by either one of us.

Posted 5/11/11 9:30 PM
 
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