need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

its not that i don't trust him... i am just nosey ;) i just want to know if i am the only one.. does your husband get mad if you do?

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i do. but just being nosey not that i think i'm going to find anything bad or anything.

he gets annoyed sometimes but i tell him to shut it... i'm the wife. i'm in charge lol.

no but in all seriousness. i tell him that eventually i snoop through everything and if he doesn't want me to see something he should do a good job of hiding it.

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I have never checked my DH cell phone. I have no reason to. I have my own phone to look at.

I don't think he would care because he has nothing to hide, just like I wouldn't care if he looked at my phone... we just don't do that.

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We both answer each other's phones, or read texts as they come. No secrets.

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No. I trust him.

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Posted by nov04libride

We both answer each other's phones, or read texts as they come. No secrets.

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I havent checked it in years... but i have before mainly because i had a feeling he started gambling again and i was right!

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Once in awhile but not because I suspect him of anything.

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No.

If a txt comes in and I am closer to the phone he will ask me to check it for him or something like that but I do not scroll through his messages and stuff.

If he hid the phone from me or made it like he did not want me to look at it I might be inclined to though.

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Has never even crossed my mind and I have no reason to.

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No, I have no interest. I answer his phone if I am closer to it, but just to see what is going on, no.

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Once in a blue moon, just out of sheer nosiness.

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When I had a feeling I should, I did and I was right.

He doesn't even know how to use my phone so I doubt he checks it, but if he did there would be nothing out if the ordinary.

We don't answer each other's phones.

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Never. There are some pictures messages he gets that I don't want to see

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Yep - just cause I am nosey...I tell him when I do and he doesn't get upset, he can check mine at anytime he wants.

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No. We have an agreement...no snooping through phones or reading e-mails or it's grounds for divorce. THAT would be a breach of trust for us...to snoop. I have no desire to check his phone...just cause we're married doesn't mean we need to share ever single thing...but that's what works for us.

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I never have and honestly he gets no phone calls unless it is his mother. He does not text because he thinks it is a waste of money.

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I don't just grab his phone and search through it...but if a text comes through while he's in the shower I will get it and sometimes even write back. (But I sometimes forget to tell him HA) He does the same...we've got nothing to hide so all is good.

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When i first started dating him, yes i would peek every once in a while...but now - definitely not. I pretty much know 99% of the calls that come in on his phone so I just have no interest anymore.

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Nope, never. I have never even touched his cell phone, only when it was ringing and he asked me to get it since I was closer to it! I don't think he's ever looked at mine either, although since we have the same blackberry, he took mine to work one day not realizing he had mine.

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Only if I see he has a new text. I am totally nosy and he doesn't care at all, he has nothing to hide

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Usually only when he is driving, or occasionally if he took pictures he wants me to see. Our cell phones are fair game for each other, but we don't use them much so they are boring.

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Not to start looking for anything...but he just got a droid and my phone is ancient, so I like to play with it

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I think I may have once. I don't even know why.