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BethanyLynn
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
Posted by nov04libride
We both answer each other's phones, or read texts as they come. No secrets. 
This. Nothing to hide.
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yelley
Fortunate
Member since 11/07 3037 total posts
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Danielle
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
Posted by DiamondGirl
No.
If a txt comes in and I am closer to the phone he will ask me to check it for him or something like that but I do not scroll through his messages and stuff.
If he hid the phone from me or made it like he did not want me to look at it I might be inclined to though.
Ditto.
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| Posted 5/10/11 10:04 AM |
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maybebaby
LIF Adult
Member since 11/05 6870 total posts
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Maureen
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
There is absolutely nothing to hide in our marriage so i never even really thought about it. I've read texts to him when they come through (after he asked me to) and I never think about it.
He also has me check his email once in a while for info he needs, I just never think about that stuff!
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| Posted 5/10/11 10:44 AM |
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Otherme
Square head cutie pants
Member since 3/06 6899 total posts
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
No
unless he's in the shower and a call or text comes in - i'll yell to him and he'll tell me to check it
same thing with me
we've nothing to hide from each other.. but i also would never snoop on him
just not in my nature and i'd be pretty pisssed if he did it to me
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| Posted 5/10/11 11:06 AM |
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EricaAlt
LIF Adult
Member since 7/08 22665 total posts
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Erica
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
Posted by nov04libride
We both answer each other's phones, or read texts as they come. No secrets.
Ditto
DH and I trust each other. I'm not hiding anything and neither is he. Usually only check it if it's going off and he's in another room. I just yell out there's a text from So and So and he asks what it says so then I read it.
He does the same for me
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| Posted 5/10/11 11:10 AM |
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brownie
Baby #1 is here!
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
Posted by EricaAlt
Posted by nov04libride
We both answer each other's phones, or read texts as they come. No secrets.
Ditto
DH and I trust each other. I'm not hiding anything and neither is he. Usually only check it if it's going off and he's in another room. I just yell out there's a text from So and So and he asks what it says so then I read it.
He does the same for me
same here
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| Posted 5/10/11 11:21 AM |
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maybesoon
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
Posted by nov04libride
We both answer each other's phones, or read texts as they come. No secrets.
same!
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| Posted 5/10/11 11:43 AM |
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VanderZwang
LIF Adolescent
Member since 2/11 740 total posts
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Gail
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
Posted by jerseypanda
I have never checked my DH cell phone. I have no reason to. I have my own phone to look at.
I don't think he would care because he has nothing to hide, just like I wouldn't care if he looked at my phone... we just don't do that.
Exactly this.
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| Posted 5/10/11 11:49 AM |
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caps612
In love with my little guys!!
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
no snooping... if one of us is in the shower or something and the other phone rings we will get it, but we don't read texts or anything. He goes on my phone for internet alot... and will tell me " you have a text" or something, but doesnt read it.
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| Posted 5/10/11 12:11 PM |
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JP826
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Member since 9/06 10903 total posts
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Me!! All about ME!
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
Posted by nov04libride
We both answer each other's phones, or read texts as they come. No secrets.
Same here.
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| Posted 5/10/11 12:16 PM |
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JenniferEver
The Disney Lady
Member since 5/05 18163 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
Yes, sometimes when I'm bored because I'm nosy!
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| Posted 5/10/11 12:26 PM |
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RocPin
Life's Beachy <3
Member since 2/08 6765 total posts
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Heather
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
It never even crosses my mind to but I would if it did. I have no reason to feel I need to.
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| Posted 5/10/11 12:26 PM |
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CrankyPants
I'm cranky
Member since 7/06 18178 total posts
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
Posted by GoldenRod
Posted by KittyGags
Posted by KittyKatCopper
No. We have an agreement...no snooping through phones or reading e-mails or it's grounds for divorce. THAT would be a breach of trust for us...to snoop. I have no desire to check his phone...just cause we're married doesn't mean we need to share ever single thing...but that's what works for us.
this.
Same here.
See, now this I think is an issue on par with feeling like you need to check. Why is there a need for such a clause?
Like I said, I don't check, I have no interest and no need. But if we told each other that we couldn't check, then I would wonder what that was about.
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| Posted 5/10/11 1:09 PM |
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MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....
Member since 12/09 8306 total posts
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Kerri
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
NO. I generally do not check his phone.
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FelAndJon
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Member since 6/05 10212 total posts
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Felice (aka LuckyBride2004)
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
Nope, no interest! He does answer my phone occasionally or check my emails and BBMs (new ones that have just "bing-ed", not randomly reading all my e-mails or anything like that). He knows it bothers me but I have no secrets so I'm not sure why it would! 
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
He doesn't have one, so no.
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| Posted 5/10/11 2:05 PM |
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HeyJude
LIF Adolescent
Member since 9/07 820 total posts
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Message edited 6/4/2012 10:10:18 AM.
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emilylives
biking
Member since 12/09 2163 total posts
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Emily
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
Almost never. although the other day his phone was on and opened to the main text message screen and I saw that everyone he was writing to was a number and not a name... then I realized that 90% of the text messages were my text messages w/ people because he's using my old phone and didn't replace the sim card. It was really strange.
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| Posted 5/10/11 3:04 PM |
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gporka23
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Member since 11/08 3783 total posts
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
99% of the time no...
but sometimes if I hear it go off (text or email) and im closer I will read it to him..he does the same with mine
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
Posted by nov04libride
We both answer each other's phones, or read texts as they come. No secrets.
This. I'm not nosy, and I completely trust him, but whoever it closest to the ringing phone picks it up and answers or texts back.
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BellaRock
I am all the Me I will ever Be
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
Yes I do. He has a cool phone so I like to mess with it. When I am bored I will read his emails or text. We have the same friends and most of the time he's already told me the short version of the text or email and I am just reading it to read it. He also gets emails about our DS baseball and boys scouts on his phone. Stuff that he reads and instantly forgets so I have to go and read it to make sure we do miss anything important.
I don't do it to spy on him or expect to catch him doing anything.
Message edited 5/10/2011 5:31:58 PM.
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Goldi0218
My miracles!
Member since 12/05 23902 total posts
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Leslie
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
No
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MissJones
I need a nap!
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
He usually tells me to answer it or delete his messages while he is driving b/c that's when he remembers to do it.
I have never snooped, though.
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| Posted 5/10/11 6:21 PM |
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CupcakeLady
LIF Toddler
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
Nope, not unless he asks me to. I have no reason to and no real interest in it, and I feel like we should each have some expectation to privacy. That being said, if he's in another room and the phone rings/he gets a text, I'll check to see who's calling and shout it out to him. If he's driving, I'll text for him if he needs me to, and the other way around. But neither of us go out of our way to look at the other's phone. It just seems odd to me.
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| Posted 5/10/11 6:24 PM |
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KittyKatCopper
missing my handsome boy
Member since 3/09 1579 total posts
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Kat - HamptonsBride (LIW)
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?
Posted by CrankyPants
See, now this I think is an issue on par with feeling like you need to check. Why is there a need for such a clause?
Like I said, I don't check, I have no interest and no need. But if we told each other that we couldn't check, then I would wonder what that was about.
we just have an agreement to respect each other's privacy when it comes to phones & emails.....and we agree we'd be really upset if that agreement was broken or trust was broken by snooping. Like I said, it works for us. Other people are different. My friends tell me things in confidence as do his. It's really a respect for their privacy as well. I know I wouldn't want my friend's DHs reading some of the stuff I text them.
I have a friend who's DH read thru all her e-mails...that infuriated me more than her that he snooped and read what I wrote to her.
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