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ThreeforTea
Girls just want to have fun..

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Mama

MIL question..

discussing this at work. Do you call your MIL by her first name or mom/ma? I never know what to call her so I avoid it at all costs! Chat Icon

Posted 5/2/13 12:10 PM
 
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mommyago
♥ Lucas and Layla

Member since 8/08

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Name:
Jenise

Re: MIL question..

now that i have kids "grammy" lol otherwise i avoid it also haha

Posted 5/2/13 12:12 PM
 

ABCiverson
<3 my family

Member since 1/06

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Name:
Amanda

Re: MIL question..

Been married 9 years. I call her by her first name. It's still weird calling her by her first name so I try avoid saying itChat Icon I never could see myself calling her mom.

Posted 5/2/13 12:13 PM
 

VeeJay
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Re: MIL question..

I call her mom. For a long time after we were married I still called her Mrs. M.

Posted 5/2/13 12:15 PM
 

ThreeforTea
Girls just want to have fun..

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Mama

Re: MIL question..

Posted by mommyago

now that i have kids "grammy" lol otherwise i avoid it also haha



so if you call her on the phone..you say Hi Grammy! lol

Posted 5/2/13 12:17 PM
 

Ellynrose
LIF Adult

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MIL question..

I avoid calling her anything lol

Posted 5/2/13 12:18 PM
 

pinky
Twin Moms Do Everything Twice

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Re: MIL question..

first name

Posted 5/2/13 12:20 PM
 

DSLaff
Team One of Each

Member since 10/09

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Name:
Dana

Re: MIL question..

Posted by mommyago

now that i have kids "grammy" lol otherwise i avoid it also haha



me too!!! i have never ever addressed my in laws until they were pop pop and nana Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/2/13 12:26 PM
 

BriBri2u
L'amore vince sempre

Member since 5/05

9320 total posts

Name:
Mrs. B

MIL question..

I call her by her first name.

It's been 10 years and I still feel funny calling her by her name...which is weird because we have a great relationship.

Posted 5/2/13 12:31 PM
 

mommyago
♥ Lucas and Layla

Member since 8/08

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Name:
Jenise

Re: MIL question..

Posted by forevermylilgirls

Posted by mommyago

now that i have kids "grammy" lol otherwise i avoid it also haha



so if you call her on the phone..you say Hi Grammy! lol



thankfully because of caller id i just say hey... haha

Posted 5/2/13 12:37 PM
 

Loveme
LIF Adult

Member since 6/11

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Name:
Me

MIL question..

I call her mom and I cringe on the inside when I do it!!! Lol
I avoid it at all costs!! Glad I'm not the only one too :)

Posted 5/2/13 12:40 PM
 

GioiaMia
Let's Go Rangers!

Member since 1/07

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MIL question..

I call them Nanny and Poppa now! LOL yesterday was FIL's birthday and I was like Happy Birthday Poppa!!!
LMAO

Posted 5/2/13 12:40 PM
 

Linda1003
love my 2 boys

Member since 8/08

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Name:
Linda

Re: MIL question..

first name only. My mom passed away before I got married saw calling Anyone else mom.. is not an option for me.

Posted 5/2/13 12:41 PM
 

NervousNell
Just another chapter in life..

Member since 11/09

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..being a mommy and being a wife!

Re: MIL question..

Posted by Ellynrose

I avoid calling her anything lol



Ditto!

Posted 5/2/13 12:43 PM
 

jam11308

Member since 11/07

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MIL question..

I either call her "Grammy" or by her first name, but she's my dh's stepmom and he also calls her by her first name (his mom passed away). I do call my FIL dad.

Posted 5/2/13 12:54 PM
 

Xelindrya
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Member since 8/05

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Name:
Veronica

Re: MIL question..

Before AJ I just avoided it as much as possible. She’s Chinese so her first name that she chooses to go by is “FUN” which is just strange to me. Hey Fun, how are you? Fun, can you had me a knife?

Just awkward. I understand it’s a popular name and not strange to her at all but its odd for me. So I just avoid it.

Now with AJ, and now that she’s old enough to talk and we live so far away, we just refer to her as grandma. She won’t call me on my phone and if I get her by accident (we have google voice) then she’ll actually say “this is Jimmy’s mom” haha.

We both avoid each other’s names as much as possible. Both of us know it and both of us seem to be ok with it.

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oh and she'll tell AJ the same thing I do.. 'lets go find mama' and that's my sign that she needs my attention (she being my MIL, not AJ). LOL I trust her that she can take care of AJ without my intervention and when I do the same "lets so see what Grandma's doing" she knows I can see fine, but wanted her attention.Chat Icon

Posted 5/2/13 1:00 PM
 

alli3131
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Member since 5/09

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Name:
Allison

MIL question..

Call her by her name. I only have one mom.

Posted 5/2/13 1:03 PM
 

neener1211
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Name:
J

Re: MIL question..

mom- but still feels weird

Posted 5/2/13 1:05 PM
 

Sparrow
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Re: MIL question..

I'm in the 'don't call her anything' boat. Both her name and mom feel super awkward to say. I wish they'd come up with a term to call a MIL.

Posted 5/2/13 1:05 PM
 

Tiggeruth
I am a mom :-)

Member since 6/06

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Name:
Heidi

Re: MIL question..

I call her by her first name.

Posted 5/2/13 1:06 PM
 

Mariabella
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Member since 4/10

951 total posts

Name:
Mama

Re: MIL question..

Posted by forevermylilgirls

discussing this at work. Do you call your MIL by her first name or mom/ma? I never know what to call her so I avoid it at all costs! Chat Icon



LOL this is exactly me! Sorry I am no help. But now that we have kids I will say grandma when I am with them. I am just not comfortable calling anyone other than my mom, mom.

Posted 5/2/13 1:07 PM
 

DiamondGirl
You are my I love you

Member since 7/09

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Name:
DiamondMama

Re: MIL question..

I call her by her first name or nana/nanny if I am with DS.

Posted 5/2/13 1:12 PM
 

Kitten1929
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Re: MIL question..

I call her by her first name, but I wouldn't at all be opposed to calling her mom. I love her sooo much. My mom called her MIL "mom." I think it's just an old tradition.

Posted 5/2/13 1:19 PM
 

Strawberry2468
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Member since 3/09

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Name:
Christine

Re: MIL question..

By her first name.

Posted 5/2/13 1:21 PM
 

Pray4Baby2010
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Member since 10/09

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Name:
MB

Re: MIL question..

I call her mom when I remember to, otherwise her first name

Posted 5/2/13 1:22 PM
 
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