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LotsaLuv
Us

Member since 6/10

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F

MIL question..

I used to call her Mrs..... then we got married and now I use her first name. I grew up using my parents friends first names too, so it is not weird to me, Mrs..... was weider to me. i felt it was so formal

Message edited 5/2/2013 1:25:24 PM.

Posted 5/2/13 1:23 PM
 
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KwaaksNest
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Member since 6/10

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Name:
Samantha

MIL question..

My son calls my in laws Ma and Pa so thats what i call them now lol

Posted 5/2/13 1:24 PM
 

pnbplus1
Family

Member since 5/09

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Name:
Mommy

Re: MIL question..

I call her Mrs. XYZ. Culturally, I am still expected to call a woman older than myself Mrs XYZ. It's a sign of respect.

Posted 5/2/13 1:26 PM
 

scarletbegonia
Mr. Handsome

Member since 5/06

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Name:
V

Re: MIL question..

Either by her first name or "MeeMaw" which is what DS calls her.

Posted 5/2/13 1:35 PM
 

MrsPJB2007
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Member since 7/06

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Name:
MJ

MIL question..

As much as I love my MIL, I have only one mom and no one else will ever get that title.

My MIL is referred to by her first name.

Posted 5/2/13 1:36 PM
 

Bearcat
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Member since 6/10

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E

Re: MIL question..

Posted by NervousNell

Posted by Ellynrose

I avoid calling her anything lol



Ditto!



same

Posted 5/2/13 1:43 PM
 

kahlua716
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Member since 8/07

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Name:
Keri

Re: MIL question..

Her 1st name

Posted 5/2/13 1:50 PM
 

hopingforbaby
We made a wish & you came true

Member since 2/10

2695 total posts

Name:
Me

MIL question..

I avoided it but kind of got called out on it Chat Icon.. So now I say nonna when DS is around or I will say her name if it's unavoidable. There really should be a special name designation for MILS lto make situations like this less uncomfy! Chat Icon

Posted 5/2/13 1:56 PM
 

sleepie76
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Re: MIL question..

Posted by Linda1003

first name only. My mom passed away before I got married saw calling Anyone else mom.. is not an option for me.




same here.


I think she would like if I called her mom, but I dont.


Funny thing...I bought her a card last week with DH in the store. I filled it with the first name. I said to DH" thats kinda cold, that its from her son/wife & grandkids and addressed to her name, not mom or grandma, right ?"

So I wrote mom over Cora and cringed the entire time I did it LOL

Posted 5/2/13 2:08 PM
 

starlitdragon
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Member since 3/13

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MIL question..

I call her a five letter word that isn't kind and never to her face... Lol

In general I avoid calling her anything at all.

Posted 5/2/13 2:32 PM
 

Lara&Aidansmommy
For mom i miss u ETC ILOVEU

Member since 3/07

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ETC I LOVE YOU

Re: MIL question..

before kids i avoided calling her anything now that she is a grandmother her name is GAMMY. Yes T, if im talking to her on the phone i call her Gammy hahahhahahhah

Posted 5/2/13 2:34 PM
 

ourlivesstartnow2012
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Member since 6/12

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MIL question..

I call them by their first names. I just can't call them mom and dad. DH calls my parents "Mr. and Mrs. D" but that's because they told him "it's that or mom and dad". He won't call them mom and dad until I call his parents that to me is NOT AN OPTION!!!

Posted 5/2/13 2:34 PM
 

lorich
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Member since 6/05

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Grammie says "Lora Gina"

Re: MIL question..

Gamma...which is what DS calls her.
Before DS....it was "hey you".Chat Icon

Posted 5/2/13 2:36 PM
 

ThreeforTea
Girls just want to have fun..

Member since 5/12

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Name:
Mama

Re: MIL question..

Posted by Lara&Aidansmommy

Yes T, if im talking to her on the phone i call her Gammy hahahhahahhah



Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon love it!!!!!!

Posted 5/2/13 2:42 PM
 

Lara&Aidansmommy
For mom i miss u ETC ILOVEU

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ETC I LOVE YOU

Re: MIL question..

Posted by lorich

Gamma...which is what DS calls her.
Before DS....it was "hey you".Chat Icon




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fantastic!

Posted 5/2/13 2:46 PM
 

wo0shply
LIF Adult

Member since 11/08

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Name:
Tass

MIL question..

I call her by her first name

Posted 5/2/13 2:48 PM
 

Jax430
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Member since 5/05

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Name:
Jackie

Re: MIL question..

1st name

Posted 5/2/13 3:23 PM
 

nraboni
Uggh...

Member since 10/09

6905 total posts

Name:
Nicole

Re: MIL question..

I try to avoid calling her anything but when I do it is by her first name.

I would never call her Mom. I lost my mom so I don't feel comfortable calling someone else Mom. But even if my mom were still here she would be the only person that would ever receive that title from me.

Posted 5/2/13 3:29 PM
 

wingsofsong
My 3 little loves <3<3<3

Member since 1/09

7395 total posts

Name:
Maureen

MIL question..

I call both my ILs by their first names. It's what I called them when we were dating, so I just continued to do so after we got married. We've been married almost 5 years and I've just started to feel comfortable with it in the last year or so!

Posted 5/2/13 3:35 PM
 

ItsaJoya19
my cup runneth over

Member since 1/10

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Name:
E

Re: MIL question..

From before we were even engaged, my MIL told me to call her by her first name...so that's what I do.

Posted 5/2/13 3:50 PM
 

Jenn627
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Member since 5/08

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Name:
Jenn

Re: MIL question..

I call her mom

Posted 5/2/13 4:05 PM
 

dlj97
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Re: MIL question..

Posted by alli3131

Call her by her name. I only have one mom.



Agreed. And I don't feel awkward calling her by her name at all.

Posted 5/2/13 4:06 PM
 

RSquared0907
LIF Adolescent

Member since 4/12

712 total posts

Name:
RJ

MIL question..

I don't know why, but I'm just super uncomfortable calling her anything. I address my parents friends and my inlaws friends all by first name, DHs aunts and uncles as "aunt" and "uncle", but my calling my MIL anything has always just felt weird. I'm hoping that once DD starts calling her something, I can just steal that!

Posted 5/2/13 5:33 PM
 

jams92

Member since 1/12

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Name:

MIL question..

I call her by her first name...but Dh calls my mother "mom"

Posted 5/2/13 5:50 PM
 

BetterVersion
LIF Toddler

Member since 2/13

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Re: MIL question..

First name

Posted 5/2/13 6:07 PM
 
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