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Is this a weird gift to give?

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foreverinmyheart
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Is this a weird gift to give?

So my 5 year old son has two birthday parties to go to this weekend. They are both girls from his class. I don't know either of their Moms particularily well, just in passing.

I wanted to get something useful and different. I bought the cutest canvas bags in Target's dollar section and wrote their names on them with fabric paint. Then I bought each a nice beach towel and some cute kids sun glasses. All of that only came to $12.00 and I usually spend around $20 so I picked up a cute 2 piece bathing suit for each girl (not a bikini...shorts with a rashguard shirt)

But now I am thinking...is a bathing suit a little too personal to give to someone that you don't know too well? For some reason I feel weird about it and I can't figure out why. Of course I will give them a gift receipt but should I give them something else instead of the bathing suit? I am sure they have enough bubbles and water guns. What would you do?

Message edited 5/18/2011 8:45:12 AM.

Posted 5/18/11 8:44 AM
 
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LSP2005
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

I was all set to say no, but the bathing suit threw me off. I am going to saw yeah, weird gift. If it was a t-shirt and shorts I would have said wow how cool.

Posted 5/18/11 8:50 AM
 

JennZ
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

I would ditch the bathing suits and get some sun block, and maybe pail and shovels or something like that for the beach.

Posted 5/18/11 8:53 AM
 

Gertyrae
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

I don't think so at all...you got board shorts and a rash guard...I would LOVE that!
I don't especially think even a bathing suit would be odd. I personally, was truly appreciative of the suits DS got last year and hopefully will get this year.

Posted 5/18/11 8:53 AM
 

scarletbegonia
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

Posted by LSP2005

I was all set to say no, but the bathing suit threw me off. I am going to saw yeah, weird gift. If it was a t-shirt and shorts I would have said wow how cool.



I agree - sounded awesome until the bathing suit part. Can you do a cute cover-up maybe?


reminds me of the time my mom bought my DH (then just my boyfriend) a package of boxer briefs for Christmas and thought nothing of it. Chat Icon

Posted 5/18/11 8:54 AM
 

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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

Posted by scarletbegonia

Posted by LSP2005

I was all set to say no, but the bathing suit threw me off. I am going to saw yeah, weird gift. If it was a t-shirt and shorts I would have said wow how cool.



I agree - sounded awesome until the bathing suit part. Can you do a cute cover-up maybe?


reminds me of the time my mom bought my DH (then just my boyfriend) a package of boxer briefs for Christmas and thought nothing of it. Chat Icon




I just choked on my coffee Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/18/11 8:56 AM
 

scarletbegonia
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

Posted by JennZ

Posted by scarletbegonia

Posted by LSP2005

I was all set to say no, but the bathing suit threw me off. I am going to saw yeah, weird gift. If it was a t-shirt and shorts I would have said wow how cool.



I agree - sounded awesome until the bathing suit part. Can you do a cute cover-up maybe?


reminds me of the time my mom bought my DH (then just my boyfriend) a package of boxer briefs for Christmas and thought nothing of it. Chat Icon




I just choked on my coffee Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



OMG - Christmas morning we were all opening gifts - DH opens his gift and was like "Wow..... underwear....... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Thanks, Rita! I'll think of you every time I wear it. Chat Icon"

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Posted 5/18/11 8:58 AM
 

sasha96
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

see, i wouldn't think it was weird b/c it was part of a theme gift.

Posted 5/18/11 9:00 AM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

What exactly is weird about it??? Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I think it's an adorable themed gift. If someone gave me that same gift for my 2 1/2 yr. old DD I would be thrilled. I think it's adorable and I wouldn't hesitate to give the gift just exactly as it is. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/18/11 9:18 AM
 

Lucky
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

I think it's cute! It's not a bikini as you stated--that would be strange! Give the gift receipt and they can exchange it if they choose.

Posted 5/18/11 9:25 AM
 

jerseypanda
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

I would not find it weird at all.

Posted 5/18/11 9:27 AM
 

littlebeanz
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

Its not that weird, maybe a little but if you feel that way ditch the suit

Posted 5/18/11 9:47 AM
 

allIwant
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

Posted by Lucky

I think it's cute! It's not a bikini as you stated--that would be strange! Give the gift receipt and they can exchange it if they choose.



I agree!

Posted 5/18/11 9:50 AM
 

ali120206
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

I don't think it's weird - it's a theme gift.

Honestly - I think I would prefer that over sunscreen or beach toys. Not everyone uses the same type of sunscreen... He also has a ton of pails and shovels and he's only 17 months old.

Message edited 5/18/2011 9:55:06 AM.

Posted 5/18/11 9:54 AM
 

jam11308

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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

I don't think it's weird at all - especially since it's part of a theme gift! I think you've put together such a cute & thoughtful gift Chat Icon

Posted 5/18/11 9:57 AM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

Posted by sasha96

see, i wouldn't think it was weird b/c it was part of a theme gift.



Same here-I think that is an awesome gift.

Posted 5/18/11 9:59 AM
 

jambalady
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

Not at all. Especially since it is a theme gift.

My next door neighbor got my DD a bathing suit (regular, not rash guard or bikini) when she was born and I thought it was adorable!

Posted 5/18/11 10:13 AM
 

CaMacho
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

Not weird at all, very cute!

Posted 5/18/11 10:32 AM
 

Dani520
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

Definitely not weird at all! I would love to receive a gift like that!!

Posted 5/18/11 10:36 AM
 

JenBenMen
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

very cute--as long as not a bikini

Posted 5/18/11 10:37 AM
 

sj-girl
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

No, not at all. I think that bag and everything is a really cute idea and a great gift.

Posted 5/18/11 10:46 AM
 

neener1211
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

I think it is really cute!

Posted 5/18/11 10:47 AM
 

Wendy
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

I don't think it's weird at all (but I would include a gift receipt because I find sizing to be hit or miss on bathing suits).

Posted 5/18/11 10:47 AM
 

CathyB

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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

Guess I'm weird too then. My dd is giving a girl in her K class a bathing suit and beach coverup for a birthday gift this week. They have a pool so DD kept saying that's what she wanted to get. I included the gift receipt in case it's the wrong size, style, etc.

Posted 5/18/11 10:51 AM
 

babymakes3
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Re: Is this a weird gift to give?

Posted by Wendy

I don't think it's weird at all (but I would include a gift receipt because I find sizing to be hit or miss on bathing suits).



Same here.

If you are questioning it, I'd do like the other poster said and include toys or a cover up. Maybe a inflatable beach ball or water squirters.

Posted 5/18/11 10:55 AM
 
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