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jade123
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hosting thanksgiving

I am hosting for first time. It'll be about 15 adults and 6 kids. I am thinking a buffet. Would you do paper or real plates and utensils??? If I did paper would do nicer plastic or thanksgiving theme but not sure...

Posted 10/4/16 7:02 PM
 
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2BadSoSad
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Re: hosting thanksgiving

We do the nicer disposable plates and silverware that from far away, you cant tell they are fake. Get them at Costco, there is enough dishes already after cooking thanksgiving.

Message edited 10/4/2016 7:20:24 PM.

Posted 10/4/16 7:19 PM
 

anonymoususer
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Re: hosting thanksgiving

For Christmas i put out Christmas themed cocktail napkins and fancy plastic appetizer plates, fancy plastic plates for dinner and Christmas themed paper plates and napkins for dessert We have like 30-40 people.

Do you have enough regular plates for everyone? If not I'd do fancy plastic. The ones that look real with the silver or gold trim

Can't wait for thanksgiving. I love allllll that food

Message edited 10/4/2016 7:26:02 PM.

Posted 10/4/16 7:25 PM
 

beachgirl
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sara

Re: hosting thanksgiving

Personally I hate paper plates - even the nice ones. For a special occasion like this I would use real plates.

Posted 10/4/16 7:46 PM
 

RainyDay
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Re: hosting thanksgiving

Posted by 2BadSoSad

We do the nicer disposable plates and silverware that from far away, you cant tell they are fake. Get them at Costco, there is enough dishes already after cooking thanksgiving.




This is exactly what my mom does every year. It's too many people to be bothered having to do dishes. Spend a little more on the decorative throw away stuff.

Posted 10/4/16 7:48 PM
 

Lara&Aidansmommy
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Re: hosting thanksgiving

We always do real. Except for bbqs in the summer

Posted 10/4/16 7:54 PM
 

PhyllisNJoe
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Re: hosting thanksgiving

For anything over 12, I use the disposable plates that look like China. It may even be chinette brand. White with silver rim. And the silver plastic utensils. Chinette plastic cups (not the ones with the rim. The plain nicer ones) Decorative napkins with napkin rings

Message edited 10/4/2016 8:01:16 PM.

Posted 10/4/16 8:00 PM
 

Bamama
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Re: hosting thanksgiving

When we don't use our china for thanksgiving, we use the Chinet dinner platters. So much bigger than a regular disposable plate! More room to fit all of those yummy sides!

Posted 10/4/16 8:26 PM
 

luvbuffet
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Re: hosting thanksgiving

Real plates for dinner and Paper plates for apps and dessert is a good compromise? I personally use real plates and I don't even have a dishwasher

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Posted 10/4/16 8:38 PM
 

gina409
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Re: hosting thanksgiving

Posted by 2BadSoSad

We do the nicer disposable plates and silverware that from far away, you cant tell they are fake. Get them at Costco, there is enough dishes already after cooking thanksgiving.



This

Posted 10/4/16 8:48 PM
 

schmora15
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hosting thanksgiving

I use the fancy disposable plates. We have a small kitchen and no dishwasher. It's such a space saver to be able to just toss them.

Posted 10/4/16 8:57 PM
 

jlm2008
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Re: hosting thanksgiving

Posted by beachgirl

Personally I hate paper plates - even the nice ones. For a special occasion like this I would use real plates.



This!!! To each their own. It's funny in my family 3 cousins each have a holiday. My mom only uses China/Silver for hers and her cousins only do paper/plastic and can't understand why she doesn't and always try to convince her to! To me it's a holiday and won't kill you to use the China. But I don't judge my family who don't. As long as the food is delish, anything is fine!!!

Posted 10/4/16 10:07 PM
 

LInMI
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Re: hosting thanksgiving

Personally... I would never host a holiday and use paper, but I know Costco sells a nice disposable plates around the holidays.

Posted 10/5/16 8:07 AM
 

ElizaRags35
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hosting thanksgiving

I would never host a holiday and use real plates and silverware. Helllll no. That's just way too many dishes. Paper and plastic all the way. I get themed ones for whatever holiday it is. Easy peasy.

I hate hosting holidays.

Message edited 10/5/2016 8:17:28 AM.

Posted 10/5/16 8:16 AM
 

Mags1227
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Re: hosting thanksgiving

Posted by luvbuffet

Real plates for dinner and Paper plates for apps and dessert is a good compromise? I personally use real plates and I don't even have a dishwasher

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This.
I'm pretty sure if I used paper plates both my mother and mother in law would walk out and never done back.b

I have a dishwasher but never use it. It takes three washes total to get everything clean, and I wouldn't have it any other way

Posted 10/5/16 10:25 AM
 

LuckyStar
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hosting thanksgiving

I was always such a stickler for "real" everything but as I get older I say fluck it and use the plastic. If people don't like it they can leave. More leftovers for you.

Posted 10/5/16 10:44 AM
 

Tulips915
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Re: hosting thanksgiving

Posted by 2BadSoSad

We do the nicer disposable plates and silverware that from far away, you cant tell they are fake. Get them at Costco, there is enough dishes already after cooking thanksgiving.


Same here. They are nice and the best part is... No cleanup! Chat Icon

Posted 10/5/16 11:09 AM
 

Jennifer
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Re: hosting thanksgiving

We always do real too.

I just like eating off of real plates. Can't explain it. Chat Icon

Posted 10/5/16 11:39 AM
 

bunnyluck
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hosting thanksgiving

Honestly, paper and plastic all the way for holidays. It's funny because in my husband's we never use paper or plastic except for holidays and big bbqs lol. It's just too much work and I also don't want a set big enough for all our guests so it would annoy me not to have everything matching.

Posted 10/5/16 11:51 AM
 

dianadrw
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Me

Re: hosting thanksgiving

I'd do the nicer disposable plates. I was in Christmas Tree Shop last week and they had those nicer disposable plates in a fall theme.

Posted 10/5/16 3:31 PM
 

SecretlyTTC14
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B

Re: hosting thanksgiving

Posted by Mags1227

Posted by luvbuffet

Real plates for dinner and Paper plates for apps and dessert is a good compromise? I personally use real plates and I don't even have a dishwasher

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This.
I'm pretty sure if I used paper plates both my mother and mother in law would walk out and never done back.b

I have a dishwasher but never use it. It takes three washes total to get everything clean, and I wouldn't have it any other way



Do you really have enough china for a huge group of people? I have enough settings for 24 and most people comment that they only have 8 or 12. When we have more than 24 people over, we use the nicer looking disposable plates because I refuse to decide who is good enough for a real plate and who gets disposable.

Side note: I think if anyone shunned me for using disposable plates for a huge group, I would just tell them to get the f out of my house Chat Icon Like eating off a real dish is more important then spending time with family and friends Chat Icon

Message edited 10/5/2016 3:43:31 PM.

Posted 10/5/16 3:42 PM
 

SecretlyTTC14
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Re: hosting thanksgiving

Posted by LuckyStar

I was always such a stickler for "real" everything but as I get older I say fluck it and use the plastic. If people don't like it they can leave. More leftovers for you.



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Posted 10/5/16 3:44 PM
 

JDubs
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Re: hosting thanksgiving

For me it depends how many people are coming. If more than 10 I would probably just do nice paper plates.

Posted 10/5/16 3:50 PM
 

M514
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hosting thanksgiving

I always use my china for holidays. Apps and main dinner on real plates. For dessert, I'll use themed paper plates, napkins and utensils. My china serves 12, so if I need more than that then I use my everyday dishes too.

Posted 10/5/16 5:32 PM
 

JennP
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Jenn

Re: hosting thanksgiving

I hosted for 11 years straight and always used nice themed paper plates but real silverware.

Posted 10/5/16 8:31 PM
 
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