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Marcie
Complete Happiness :)
Member since 5/05 27789 total posts
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LOVE being a Mommy!
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Re: He left me
Oh Jess 
Please let us know if you need help with anything
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mrswask
Pookie Love
Member since 5/05 20229 total posts
Name:
Michal
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Re: He left me
Jes, I'm so sorry!! What an azz!!!
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| Posted 1/28/09 11:14 PM |
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hope42009
On a journey! :)
Member since 9/08 1274 total posts
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| Posted 1/28/09 11:20 PM |
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Disneygirl
Disney cruise bound!
Member since 5/05 8126 total posts
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D
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Re: He left me
I'm so sorry Jes.
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| Posted 1/28/09 11:58 PM |
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Moosey911
LIF Adolescent
Member since 5/05 771 total posts
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Nicki
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Re: He left me
You have FM! 
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| Posted 1/29/09 12:04 AM |
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FelAndJon
needs to update her avatar pic
Member since 6/05 10212 total posts
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Felice (aka LuckyBride2004)
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Re: He left me
I am so sorry you are going through this
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| Posted 1/29/09 12:37 AM |
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Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew
Member since 5/05 14266 total posts
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Jes
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Re: He left me
you know, im a fool.
he does this all the time.... whenever a stressful situation arises he runs away form it. he NEVER accepts his responsibilities or acts like an adult.
i truly thought things would be different and that he would do the right thing.
i had too much faith and hope in someone i shouldnt have.
even if he DOES "come around" i dont want him to. i do not want contact with him. i dont want to put myself in the same situation yet again.
i dont want to have a child and him do this to her. its not fair.
he seriously needs to grow up. he is a child. i pity him.
right now i have to figure out what is best for me and the baby.
i wish he would have done this sooner. he is selfish and pathetic.
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| Posted 1/29/09 1:16 AM |
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Jess!!! I am so sorry!!!!
First and foremost, try hard to keep your self calm and take care of that baby. Nothing happens by accident - everything is meant to be, and even if it meant this idiot was in your life so you can experience the greatest joy of being a mom, then maybe that's what the universe wanted to happen.
IMO, I think this guy is going to be a rollercoaster for the rest of your life. He is going to come in and out of your life because of your child. He will have moments of guilt, and moments of cowardice.
You should have something legally binding regarding child support, and minimal visitation - once a month for 30 minutes with you there, if need be.
Everyone here will help you with the emotional strains, and there are many gently used items available that women are always more than willing to share with you!
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| Posted 1/29/09 6:27 AM |
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Kissy331
My two miracles!
Member since 5/06 17826 total posts
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Kristen
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Re: He left me
I am so sorry that you have to go through this
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| Posted 1/29/09 6:36 AM |
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Teachergal
We made a snowman!
Member since 1/08 3239 total posts
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Re: He left me
Oh my goodness I am so so sorry.
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| Posted 1/29/09 6:55 AM |
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mikeswife06
Drama Momma
Member since 9/06 9947 total posts
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Anne
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Re: He left me
I am so sorry- I cannot believe this!
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| Posted 1/29/09 6:57 AM |
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05mommy09
Family of 5!
Member since 5/05 15364 total posts
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<3 Mommy <3
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Re: He left me
Ohhhh Jess, you have been through so much these past few months- I feel terrible for you.
Honestly... screw him...screw men... focus on rebuilding YOU and YOUR life as a mommy.
Once your beautiful little babe is here, all the pieces are going to fall into place... You can do this!!!
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| Posted 1/29/09 7:19 AM |
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TaraHutch
True beauty
Member since 10/07 9888 total posts
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Tara
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Re: He left me
I am so sorry. Hopefully this is momentary lapse of reason on his part!
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| Posted 1/29/09 7:30 AM |
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MrsBurtch525
Year for change!
Member since 1/09 6017 total posts
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Taryn
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Re: He left me
Wow, Im so sorry Jess!! Does that have anything to do with what happened with his mother??
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| Posted 1/29/09 7:34 AM |
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maybebaby
LIF Adult
Member since 11/05 6870 total posts
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Maureen
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Re: He left me
I'm so sorry
You have to be strong for yourself and this baby...it isn't fair that he is doing this to you both, but it sounds as if he's been a very immature person all along and can't own up to his responsibilities. What really upset me is that after he's seen your baby on ultrasound he says "if you keep it..". UGH. Nice guy.
Women are very strong, just remember that. My friend had her husband of one year tell her it was either her terminating the pregnancy or he was leaving her...her son is now about to turn 1 and she is with an incredible guy who loves her baby to pieces. She knew that if someone was giving her an ultimatum like that, they couldn't very well be a good person. Best thing she ever did!
Good luck with everything, it'll all work out....although I know it's hard right now.
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| Posted 1/29/09 7:45 AM |
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ARIELSMOM
Love my Babes
Member since 8/05 5889 total posts
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MEREDITH
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Re: He left me
im sorry this is happening to you
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| Posted 1/29/09 7:52 AM |
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Julianna07
LIF Infant
Member since 8/08 269 total posts
Name:
Jess
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Re: He left me
I am so sorry you are going through this. He seems like he has a lot of growing up to do. I'm glad you have your mom... take care of yourself and your baby.
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| Posted 1/29/09 7:55 AM |
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Smalls72
OMG, time is going way to fast
Member since 9/08 3797 total posts
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Bali
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Re: He left me
I'm so sorry to hear that . You seem like a smart strong person. I'm sure you will figure it all out. sending you lots of 
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| Posted 1/29/09 8:07 AM |
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thejohnsons
LIF Adolescent
Member since 11/06 848 total posts
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Jen
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Re: He left me
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| Posted 1/29/09 8:09 AM |
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FLaCaTaCa
Kelsey Elyse = Love
Member since 5/05 1855 total posts
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Stacy
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Re: He left me
I'm really sorry Jess. The girls above said it best...you and your baby don't need that. Do what is best for you and your baby! Let us know if we can help in any way.
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| Posted 1/29/09 8:14 AM |
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HillW9608
Hello Summer!
Member since 5/08 5916 total posts
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Hill
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Re: He left me
Im so sorry Jess.. if you need someone to talk to FM me anytime
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| Posted 1/29/09 8:15 AM |
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Shelly
She's 7!!!
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Re: He left me
I'm so sorry Jess. I read your other post about the step-mom, and I wonder if he was conveying his own feelings through the step mom. Basically, saying she said- but really expressing his own feelings.
I think you have the right idea. Whatever happens from here on in, you've seen this guy's true colors. Remember that when he tries to come back (and he will). Remember this.
As for what YOU should do, do whatever YOU think is right for yourself. We will all be here to support you no matter what.
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| Posted 1/29/09 8:21 AM |
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anewday
<3
Member since 9/08 1493 total posts
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Dawn
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Re: He left me
Im so sorry he is an azz!
Be strong! No matter what you will get through this
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| Posted 1/29/09 8:29 AM |
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alisonggg
Cutie
Member since 3/06 4749 total posts
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a
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Re: He left me
So sorry for what you are going through
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| Posted 1/29/09 8:31 AM |
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babyfever08
Love my babies!
Member since 11/08 3938 total posts
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Antonella
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Re: He left me
Im so sorry he did this to you and your little one. Take care of yourself and your baby.
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