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MikesWife
Wanting...........
Member since 1/06 6887 total posts
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Karen
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Re: He left me
I'm so sorry. What a horrible thing to do!!!! 
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Mere09
So Dam* Lucky
Member since 10/08 6368 total posts
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Re: He left me
Posted by davenjess
do you think this has ANYTHING to do with his mother and that whole situation????
This was the first thing I thought of as well...
I'm so sorry Jess. Things may seem hopeless now but I'm sure they will turn around for you one way or another. Just try and do your best to take care of yourself and baby in this difficult time.
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| Posted 1/29/09 8:37 AM |
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Viviana23
LIF Adolescent
Member since 8/08 725 total posts
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Viviana
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Re: He left me
I am sorry you are going through this. I was a single mother at the young age of 19; at that time I had the hopes of forming a family with DD’s father, but it didn’t happen and then he was always very inconsistent about his involvement with DD even though I never demanded financial support from him and only wanted my daughter to have a responsible father to show her love. Once she was a few years old, he got married and his involvement was even worse and barely bothered to see her. DD is now 12 - I met DH when my daughter was 3,we just got married a year and a half ago, not only has he been a wonderful step-father, to her for more than seven years but now he is in the process of legally adopting her. Will also like to add, that during my pregnancy I had moral and physical support from my mother who was always there for me. It was hard being a single parent for a while but it just means you have to be stronger and fight harder for your child happiness and future. I managed to work hard and also finish college during all this. You seem like a strong woman, and I’m sure you can do it but that said you will need the support of your family loved ones…I wish you the best, and we are also here for you.
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| Posted 1/29/09 8:38 AM |
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MsMBV
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Member since 5/05 28602 total posts
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Me
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Re: He left me
Jes you know you have a ton of friends here & IRL that will help, myself included. Please let me know if there is anything I can do...even if it seems minute or small.
Regarding the XBF...better to know now, wash your hands of him & concentrate on you and your baby. That is all that matters. I know that it might not be *ideal* to move back to LI, but maybe now is the time, even for a short while to sort things out & get back on your feet.
Try not to make any decision quickly....there is always time somewhere. Definitely think things through no matter what.
 
Call if you need me.
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| Posted 1/29/09 8:44 AM |
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asecretmommytobe09
My little pumpkin is here!!!!
Member since 10/08 3369 total posts
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Katie
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Re: He left me
im so sorry. what a jerk. Please FM me if you need anything.
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| Posted 1/29/09 8:46 AM |
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2BEANS
wow time is going fast.
Member since 9/07 16106 total posts
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Tina
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Re: He left me
Im sooo sorrry..
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| Posted 1/29/09 9:14 AM |
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HeathKernandez
Our Ron is an awesome Ron
Member since 4/07 9091 total posts
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baby fish mouth
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Re: He left me
Posted by Jesaroo
even if he DOES "come around" i dont want him to. i do not want contact with him. i dont want to put myself in the same situation yet again.
I know it's hard, but you have to remember.. he will ALWAYS be your child's father and unfortunately you might be *stuck* with him for the rest of your life. Try your hardest to be as cordial as possible because I cannot tell you how stressful it is for a baby to be around fighting. I made sure to keep what was going on btwn DS's father and me between US... Its amazing how babies can pick up tension.
Hang in there...
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| Posted 1/29/09 9:14 AM |
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DanandNette
Love my baby boy!
Member since 9/08 2830 total posts
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Jennette
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Re: He left me
I'm so sorry
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| Posted 1/29/09 9:21 AM |
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randella
Love my little man
Member since 8/05 16290 total posts
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Randi
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Re: He left me
What an arsehole. So sorry...
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| Posted 1/29/09 9:24 AM |
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babyonthebrain
Brotherly Love!
Member since 1/08 6209 total posts
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Rafaela
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Re: He left me
I'm so sorry you're going through this. Just know that you will have a little creature who will love you unconditionally. A lot of times also, as creepy as it may sound, men come around once the baby is here. Also if you have a son, there is a good chance that he will wanna be part of his life.
Hang in there and try and keep positive. You've created something wonderful!!!
XOXOXO
BOTB
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| Posted 1/29/09 9:35 AM |
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NoStressMom
My Heart and Soul
Member since 5/05 11122 total posts
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D
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Re: He left me
So sorry to hear this!!
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| Posted 1/29/09 9:36 AM |
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BabyAvocado
Happy New Year
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Re: He left me
What a POS. Way to man up. 
I'm so sorry Jes.
What others have said is true - better that you see this part of him now. Better that you know who he really is now. And like Shelley said - don't forget it when he tries to come back (he will).
Now it's time to focus on taking care of yourself and getting ready for taking care of your baby. You will be fine without him - more than fine - and you will be a good mother.
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| Posted 1/29/09 10:07 AM |
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lilith628
LIF Toddler
Member since 11/08 374 total posts
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Claire
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Re: He left me
I am so sorry 
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| Posted 1/29/09 10:54 AM |
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Re: He left me
Im so sorry....FM if you need to talk, what a piece of Sh*t
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| Posted 1/29/09 10:59 AM |
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mskimmy98
My twins are one!!!
Member since 5/05 2540 total posts
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Kimberly
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Re: He left me
OMG.. I am sooo sorry!!!!
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| Posted 1/29/09 10:59 AM |
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dooodles
When you wish upon a star
Member since 5/05 11997 total posts
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Because 2 people fell in love
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Re: He left me
Oh Jes, I am so sorry
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| Posted 1/29/09 11:03 AM |
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Bridex100
Two Under Two Mommy
Member since 3/08 10420 total posts
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Momx100
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Re: He left me
I am so sorry. What a jerk.
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| Posted 1/29/09 11:07 AM |
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NoahsArkTummy
LIF Adolescent
Member since 2/07 839 total posts
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CAMILLE
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Re: He left me
So many people said this but....."What a P.O.S!!"...... Keep yourself strong and positive for your little one.....as much of a P.O.S as he is..he gave you this little miracle inside....if he chooses to miss out he will regret it......if he doesn't regret it.....he has no heart!! Keep your spirits up and don't hesitate to vent on here! We are here for you
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| Posted 1/29/09 11:08 AM |
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carlowlou
loving my babies!
Member since 4/08 4594 total posts
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Jen
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Re: He left me
I'm so sorry you are going through this...
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| Posted 1/29/09 11:08 AM |
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kerrycec03
Mom of 2 beautiful boys!!
Member since 6/06 13519 total posts
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Kerry
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Re: He left me
I'm sorry you are going through this. You're fairly early on in your pregnancy. I think he may change his mind. Right now, just get things ready for you and your baby. Hang in there
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| Posted 1/29/09 11:11 AM |
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lkrpaul
Becoming a Big Brother!
Member since 5/07 2541 total posts
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Laura
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Re: He left me
OMG that's awful! I'm so sorry!!
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Re: He left me
Hi Jess- my heart breaks for you but as long as you make the right choices for yourself and this baby then I know only great things will hapen for you!!!!
There is so much help out there, you won't be alone.
This is something you CAN do and perhaps you can do it BETTER w/o him.
I've been down the same road and b/c of my choices I have a happy ending!!!
Things happen for a reason but things also happen b/c ofthe choices we make!!!
Be strong for yourself and this baby. This baby is going to change your life forever....for the better!!!!
Message edited 1/29/2009 12:07:15 PM.
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hannahsmom
Yummy yummy cookie...
Member since 10/08 2005 total posts
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Laura
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Re: He left me
Jess, I read this post this morning, and I honestly had no words. I am so extremely sorry you are going through this right now, but you have to think of yourself and your baby right now. I was married at a young age and separated soon after my DD was born. I was terrified about raising my DD on my own, but you know what, it made me the woman I am today. Stay strong.... and if you need me, please please don't hesitate to FM me.
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| Posted 1/29/09 12:39 PM |
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CaMacho
Sisters :)
Member since 7/06 15112 total posts
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Jess
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Re: He left me
Jes, i'm so sorry. You've been through a lot but you seem like such a strong girl and I wish you only the best!!!
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| Posted 1/29/09 12:56 PM |
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emomma17
All My Girls!
Member since 11/08 4392 total posts
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Mia
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Re: He left me
Jess I am so sorry for what you are going through, I was in shock just now reading your post. Try to stay strong for your baby and we are all here for you if you need to talk...
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