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neener1211
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
Unacceptable. Do not go back.
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Posted 10/4/11 10:18 AM  |
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neener1211
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
Posted by MrsSx2
She said to me..."I just told a couple today that their baby has no brain, you need to focus on the health of your baby and not the gender".
I just had to add...that my first child didn't have a brain..they should have (and normally do) found out at 12 weeks, but didn't.
So please, go to another OB, because she should know that if she had done a sono for those other people, they may have known sooner.
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| Posted 10/4/11 10:22 AM |
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TessMike214
Gabriella Aubrey born 3/26!
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
crashing...I would definitely not go back, this woman obviously can't hide her personal business at work, she sounds unprofessional and rude!
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| Posted 10/4/11 11:40 AM |
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Lara&Aidansmommy
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
I really have no words. Expect that Im sorry you had a terrible experience. Please Please Please find another dr ASAP
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| Posted 10/4/11 12:45 PM |
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BigSmooch
LIF Adolescent
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
Switch doctors! Please! How could she not even mention the NT Scan to you? Some doctors don't do them in the office, like mine, but I was sent out for it and I see that doctor for my sonograms.
I don't care if she had a bad day, see someone else.
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| Posted 10/4/11 12:55 PM |
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MrsSx2
Finally a MOM!
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
Just a quick update.
I spoke to my RE and told her all about it. She was really apologetic for recommending this OB to me. She said that the OB is not normally like this, but understood my complaints and wont recommend her to her clients any more.
She recommended a new OB (who actually delivered my RE's kids). Hopefully this one will work out much better!
Also, scheduled my NT. Super nervous about that one!!
Thanks again for all the words of support ladies! i really appreciate it! 
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| Posted 10/4/11 1:20 PM |
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Lara&Aidansmommy
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
Posted by MrsSx2
Just a quick update.
I spoke to my RE and told her all about it. She was really apologetic for recommending this OB to me. She said that the OB is not normally like this, but understood my complaints and wont recommend her to her clients any more.
She recommended a new OB (who actually delivered my RE's kids). Hopefully this one will work out much better!
Also, scheduled my NT. Super nervous about that one!!
Thanks again for all the words of support ladies! i really appreciate it!
Oh so glad to read this update..And dont be nervous for your NT scan everything will be perfect
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| Posted 10/4/11 1:22 PM |
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MRsFaTThead
NY GIRL IN TEXAS
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WHO GIVES A POO WHO GIVES A FUDGE !!
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
Posted by MrsSx2
Just a quick update.
I spoke to my RE and told her all about it. She was really apologetic for recommending this OB to me. She said that the OB is not normally like this, but understood my complaints and wont recommend her to her clients any more.
She recommended a new OB (who actually delivered my RE's kids). Hopefully this one will work out much better!
Also, scheduled my NT. Super nervous about that one!!
Thanks again for all the words of support ladies! i really appreciate it!
thanks for the update
hope this works out for you mama
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| Posted 10/4/11 1:26 PM |
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prunepie
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jennifer
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
good update!!!
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| Posted 10/4/11 1:43 PM |
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wingsofsong
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
Thanks for the update! Glad you told your RE and got another recommendation!! 
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| Posted 10/4/11 1:47 PM |
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LaurenExp
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
I agree with just about everyone. You are going to be dealing with this office regularly, and when you're freaking out and when you need information. Doesn't sound like they are pleasant or accomodating. I would skip them and go elsewhere.
Sorry you had such a bad experience. It should NOT go this way. 
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| Posted 10/4/11 2:06 PM |
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babyberry
LIF Adult
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Ang
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
i'm having issues with my ob practice too but this ob sounds completely off her rocker!!! i'd def start looking for a new one.
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| Posted 10/4/11 2:24 PM |
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bellaro
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
OMG *** she is CRAZY.. YOu need to report he behavior.. she has no bed side manor OMG OMG her personal life should never reflect in the office OMG OMG I can't believe that you had to go through that..DO NOT GO BACK TO HER what was her name if you don't mine me asking??
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| Posted 10/4/11 2:50 PM |
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IAMMRSBROWN
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
Good. Glad you switched. Good luck with the new one and dont settle until youre 100% happy
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| Posted 10/4/11 2:51 PM |
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lynnd126
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
Imo the bad attitude and crazy sono policy have nothing to do with one another AND I think either is reason to find a new OB. I don't want to say something morbid like the dr. did but if there IS god forbid a problem u don't want to first find out at ur 20 week if it could have been seen sooner! I have never heard of such a sono policy!
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| Posted 10/4/11 5:39 PM |
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MrsSx2
Finally a MOM!
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
Posted by bellaro
OMG *** she is CRAZY.. YOu need to report he behavior.. she has no bed side manor OMG OMG her personal life should never reflect in the office OMG OMG I can't believe that you had to go through that..DO NOT GO BACK TO HER what was her name if you don't mine me asking??
She is an Ob here in Chicago. If this was a LI doctor, I'd happily give you all her name!
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| Posted 10/4/11 5:40 PM |
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LightUpOurLife
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
Great update!!!!
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| Posted 10/4/11 6:19 PM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
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Lisa
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
Glad you switched OB
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| Posted 10/4/11 8:23 PM |
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Bops
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
Crashing here , but seriously...RUN , don't walk and find yourself a new OB !
This should be the most amazing experience you will ever feel and this "doctor" is completely out of line
ETA- just read your update and am glad you switched !!!
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| Posted 10/4/11 8:58 PM |
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Momma2Be
Mommy of an angel
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Dina
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
This:
Posted by prunepie
DO NOT GO BACK AND TELL YOUR RE WHAT HAPPENED!!!!!!!!!
omg i dont care who died....she is nuts and rude and mean!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and this:
Posted by wingsofsong
And even if she was only this rude because of her grief, I would not want to have to see a doctor (especially for a pregnancy- such an exciting time- no less!) who is that emotionally and psychologically un-self aware to be able to keep themselves or check, or realize that they need more time off to grieve.
My advice? Find someone else ASAP!!!! Obviously she can't separate her personal issues from her professional life. What if she has another bad day the day you go into labor??? I don't mean to sound unsympathetic for her loss but I wouldn't trust someone like that delivering my baby.
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| Posted 10/4/11 9:12 PM |
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Noonie
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Dawn
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
So glad you are going to be seeing someone new. Let us know how it goes with them. Best of luck to you!! And congratulations!!!!!!!!
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| Posted 10/5/11 9:40 AM |
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readyforbaby
LIF Toddler
Member since 5/11 395 total posts
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DW
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
WOW! I'm sorry but no matter what someone is going through it doesn't give them to right to be nasty or "not in the mood".... I'm so sorry you are dealing with this.. I would mention it to your RE and perhaps look for a new doctor..
Good luck!
EDT: Just saw your update! Good luck with the new doctor!
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| Posted 10/5/11 9:56 AM |
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kahlua716
3 Girls for Me!
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Keri
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
Don't go back there!!
She sounds horrible
I'm sorry she ruined your first experience.
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| Posted 10/5/11 12:27 PM |
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Tinyswife
My family is complete
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Cathleen
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
stick with your gut. This is not right. Leave now. I keeped making excuses on why I was not happy at my OB at 37 weeks I had to find a new one and it was not easy. Please do what you already know is right and leave.
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| Posted 10/6/11 5:49 AM |
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Champ
2 little ladies
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Rose
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Re: Had a weird first appt with my OB...
i would not see then again!!
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