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Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

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Linda1003
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Linda

Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

How did you quit and/or when are you planing on quitting? Im cutting down and going to get the patch soon and the lazer therapy.
Is the patch safe while TTC???Chat Icon

Posted 10/17/08 9:15 AM
 
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sweetdreamz1181
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Jackie

Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

i didnt quit before ttc because i became PG right away.. i stopped as soon as i got that plus sign on the pg test and i have to admidt it was hard but after the 1st week i was better.. when i had my mc i swore i wasnt going to start smoking again but i did and more than i smoked b4 but the last 2 months i have started to cut down and i am down to a few cigs a day so within the next few weeks i would like to be down to zero a day.. cold turkey just doesnt work for me so i felt the best way for me to quit was slowly

Posted 10/17/08 9:21 AM
 

Linda1003
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Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

Thanks for your reply. So you didn't use the patch? that's great!!! I hope im strong enough to quit clold turkey. Im going to a friend who does the lazer therapy too. We'll see!!

Posted 10/17/08 9:28 AM
 

sweetdreamz1181
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Jackie

Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

yea i wasnt into trying the patch

i had a friend that did something behind the ear and she never picked up a cig again is that the laser?

good luck to you!!

Posted 10/17/08 9:34 AM
 

Linda1003
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Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

Yeap that's the laser!!! I can't wait. I really hope it works!! I HATE BEING A SMOKER!!!Chat Icon

Posted 10/17/08 9:38 AM
 

NinaLemon
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Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

I had tried to use the patch in teh past and had a bad reaction to it, itmade my heart race and my muscle sore (whatever muscle was below where the patch was that day). I really have no idea if it is safe to use while TTC, I'd ask your Dr.

I quit before TTC, I honestly don't know how I did it, I was really afraid beforehand that I wouldn't be able to stop, but somehow I set my quit date as 2 weeks before O and i just stopped. Don't get me wrong, I still wanted to smoke, but somehow the want for a baby was strong enough to keep my cravings in check.

Good Luck! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

ETA: I also had the support of DH, he quit at the same time.

Message edited 10/17/2008 9:41:04 AM.

Posted 10/17/08 9:40 AM
 

jam11308

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Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

Good luck to both of you!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I never heard of the laser, but it sounds incredible! Good luck!

I quit cold turkey 3 1/2 years ago after smoking for 15 years (I started reallllly young). I had been cutting down a lot for about a year or two, but it was after a scary visit to a doctor that I gave it up completely. I left his office, lit up my last cig & that was it. Don't get me wrong, it wasn't easy & I did grub them on occassion after I quit, but I've managed to stay off of them so far. Even now, some days it's tough - after my m/c I almost picked it up again too...that was probably the hardest time I had, but I made it through. Quitting is probably going to be one of hardest things that you ever have to do, but it will be sooooo worth it so don't give up - you can do it. I wish you all the best Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/17/08 11:25 AM
 

munchkinfacemama
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Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

I smoke a half pack out of stress and I am TTC-i will be using Nicorette after. It is safe-just quit completely when u get the BFP

Posted 10/17/08 11:29 AM
 

malone130
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Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

I just quit cold turkey two months ago. I smoked a half a pack a day - I have never tried quiting before and I have been smoking since HS - 10 years. I never thought I could do it mostly because I really enjoyed smoking (as bad as that sounds). Anyway, I did quit and the first few weeks were hard. I still have my ups and downs and I feel like I will always have an urge once in a while. I also read the book "the easy way to quit smoking" I am not sure if it helped that much but I think it got me thinking about quiting and gave me the motivation.

Posted 10/17/08 11:43 AM
 

JennyPenny
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Jen

Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

How much is the laser thing? I would love to have DH do it..

Posted 10/17/08 2:15 PM
 

Linda1003
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Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

Posted by JennyPenny

How much is the laser thing? I would love to have DH do it..



$200 per session. Some people only need one session.

Posted 10/17/08 2:34 PM
 

Sunshyne
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Elissa

Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

It was pretty easy for me to quit.... a few days before I got my BFP, the mere smell of a cigarette UN-lit) made he nauseaus (i knew something was up). I haven't had as much as a puff since May '07.

Posted 10/17/08 2:59 PM
 

Linda1003
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Linda

Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

Posted by Sunshyne

It was pretty easy for me to quit.... a few days before I got my BFP, the mere smell of a cigarette UN-lit) made he nauseaus (i knew something was up). I haven't had as much as a puff since May '07.



OMG I hope that happens to me!!!

Posted 10/17/08 3:30 PM
 

ReiRei13
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Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

I quit a little over a year before trying and only because I wanted it out of the way and one less thing to worry about while TTC.

I'd DEF try to be done with it BEFORE conceiving if I were you....its pretty stressful on the body to quit and I wouldn't want any added stress put on my baby! JMOChat Icon

GOOD LUCK!!Chat Icon

Posted 10/17/08 4:19 PM
 

Diana712
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Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

Posted by Linda1003

Posted by JennyPenny

How much is the laser thing? I would love to have DH do it..



$200 per session. Some people only need one session.



Where is this??? my dh needs to go too!!

Posted 10/17/08 8:21 PM
 

snowflake08
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Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

I quit about a week before my BFP
I just had a feeling that it was my month and I quit cold turkey

Posted 10/17/08 8:30 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

I quit the day I got my BFP but then I started smoking again when my dd was about 6 months old (I had not smoked in like 15 months)

I am trying to quit AGAIN Chat Icon

Message edited 10/17/2008 9:22:27 PM.

Posted 10/17/08 9:22 PM
 

an9elic
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Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

i just quit a few days ago.. cold turkey.. its tough especially since DH smokes a lot.. but so far so good.. good luck Chat Icon

Posted 10/17/08 10:11 PM
 

sunflowerjesss
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Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

I quit Feb 2007 and got pregnant Oct 2007.

I had said for a while that I wanted to quit just never did. Then one day I woke up, threw out my cigarettes, and never looked back.

Posted 10/17/08 10:14 PM
 

autumn
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Lisa

Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

I have to say I tried to quit while TTC and it was hard. I quit for a month and when i found out I wasn't preggo again I lit right up and was so ****** because i wasn't. When I found out in July that I was pregnant I gave DH my ciggs to throw out and that was the last time I smoked a cigg. At first it was hard because the smell drove me nuts and I wanted it so bad and at work didn't help. BUt when the MS kicked in, I hated the smell and I still do. DH still smokes and is trying to stop.

I don't crave a cigg anymore and I really hope I stay that way after the baby. GLChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/17/08 11:54 PM
 

nferrandi
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Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

Posted by Mikismom

I quit the day I got my BFP but then I started smoking again when my dd was about 6 months old (I had not smoked in like 15 months)

I am trying to quit AGAIN Chat Icon



Me too. Chat Icon I have cut down, but I do still smoke. In honesty and fairness, I probably won't stop altogether until I get a BFP again. Chat Icon

Posted 10/18/08 1:08 PM
 

MrsBunnyBear
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Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

I "quit" "everyday" for years which means it didn't work right away and I would always smoke with the longest time not smoking being 3 days (rare) I would buy a pack a day as "my last pack" over and over again until one day i "quit" again and never started again so i don't know my exact quit date - its 3 years ago around the december holidays. so just keep 'quitting' and eventually u'll get sick of trying and just stick to it. also i ve heard that if you smoke ALOT in one day -like chain smoke like crazy to the point of making you sick it might be a way to start stopping for the first few days. and i have several friends who used medication and it helped so much- none went back. i forget what kind though but your doctor should know. ask your doctor about all methods to stop smoking and the risks of using them while ttc because i have no clue. good luck! i still want to smoke at times but it gets easier. change your schedule in any way possible. also you may want to change your smoking habits (where and when for a month before) so your regular routine wont involve smoking anymore for when you quit. and it helps if no one in your house smokes. <3

Posted 10/18/08 1:44 PM
 

when
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Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

I quit a few years ago. After years of smoking I just became completely disgusted.
The thing that finally did it was that I really started to feel it....I'd wake up in the night feeling it. THen, one day I was walking down the city street with a cigarette and a stranger looked at me smoking, and I could see by the expression on her face that she was disgusted....totally disgusted. I became embarrassed and ashamed of smoking.
all that, together, got me to quit.
WHen I would have cravings, I'd chew a peice of nicorette.

I never went on the whole nicorette plan, I just chewed a 2mg peice whenever I needed it and it worked.

Once you get through this....you'll feel SO GOOD.

Posted 10/18/08 2:10 PM
 

Blu-ize
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Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

I was a social smoker..but for many years.

I had my first blood hormone test back in May and it was so out of whack. The RE doc told me that I would have to do IVF with donor eggs because he didn't think my egg reserve would be good enough for it.

I quit right then and there because smoking can mess with your hormone levels in a big way.

I actually think, that plus some other things I did got my levels where they needed to be.

All it took was a doctor telling me I couldn't have a kid with my own genetic material. I will never forget that day.

I hope you don't find yourself ever in this position, but sometimes you have a wake up call and just are able to do it. Think about how much healthier you will be and how much better for your body it is to get off the nicotine.

Even now when I'm tempted (and I am for sure) I just remember that awful day.

I'll never go back to it.

Good luck!!

Posted 10/18/08 2:32 PM
 

WNA01
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Re: Are there any smokers or former smokers TTC??

Quitting is soo hard. i smoked for 17 years ( i started young) and quit 2 times in between for 3 -4 months. I finally quit for good in december 07. Cold turkey. Easy for me bc i had to get surgery and couldnt really go outside (no smoking in the house dh never smoked) so i just stopped smoking.
Ive had a probally 5 cigarettes since then - couldnt even smoke more than half wihtout feeling sick-.
Its hard, my determination was having a healthy baby!!!

Posted 10/19/08 9:42 AM
 
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