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MrsDeVito
Gio's gonna be a big brother!
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Am I the last one left???
I feel like I'm the last one left without a BFP from around the time I joined this site. The year mark of TTC is just around the corner. I never thought I would still be here.
I'll stop whining now.
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Re: Am I the last one left???
No worries Christina, I'm STILL HERE! We hit the year mark on Monday....12 months/13 cycles. Maybe this will be lucky month 13?? 
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| Posted 8/4/10 7:12 PM |
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MrsDeVito
Gio's gonna be a big brother!
Member since 7/09 4671 total posts
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Christina
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Re: Am I the last one left???
Posted by WishingforBaby
No worries Christina, I'm STILL HERE! We hit the year mark on Monday....12 months/13 cycles. Maybe this will be lucky month 13??
Thanks but I wish you didn't have to still be here either! We're about to hit 11 months next week.
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| Posted 8/4/10 7:14 PM |
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FlowerWife
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Re: Am I the last one left???
i was thinking about this too. i think i might officially be the great grandmother of this board. august is month 16  
although i did get pregnant twice in that time, they just both ended quickly and poorly..
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| Posted 8/4/10 7:16 PM |
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Shelleybean11
Mommy of 2!
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Re: Am I the last one left???
I'm so sorry you have all been here for so long It really isn't fair sometimes. I can't imagine how hard it is to keep seeing the revolving door of TTCers on this board. I have only been here a couple of months and I am getting depressed! I hope you all get your BFP's very very soon!
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| Posted 8/4/10 7:19 PM |
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FlowerWife
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Re: Am I the last one left???
Posted by Shelleybean11
I'm so sorry you have all been here for so long It really isn't fair sometimes. I can't imagine how hard it is to keep seeing the revolving door of TTCers on this board. I have only been here a couple of months and I am getting depressed! I hope you all get your BFP's very very soon!
yes the revolving door on this board is so bad that i dont come here that much anymore. feel more comfortable on the infertility board. i still post when i can be helpful to someone, or cheer them on, but otherwise its hard to see people come here and get a BFP in five minutes after  once not even knowing when they ovulate. i am thrilled that others dont have to think about it like i do, but im ashamed to say i am also insanely jealous 
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| Posted 8/4/10 7:23 PM |
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RocPin
Life's Beachy <3
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Re: Am I the last one left???
Posted by FlowerWife
Posted by Shelleybean11
I'm so sorry you have all been here for so long It really isn't fair sometimes. I can't imagine how hard it is to keep seeing the revolving door of TTCers on this board. I have only been here a couple of months and I am getting depressed! I hope you all get your BFP's very very soon!
yes the revolving door on this board is so bad that i dont come here that much anymore. feel more comfortable on the infertility board. i still post when i can be helpful to someone, or cheer them on, but otherwise its hard to see people come here and get a BFP in five minutes after once not even knowing when they ovulate. i am thrilled that others dont have to think about it like i do, but im ashamed to say i am also insanely jealous
Your feelings are completely valid 
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| Posted 8/4/10 7:27 PM |
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MrsDeVito
Gio's gonna be a big brother!
Member since 7/09 4671 total posts
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Christina
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Re: Am I the last one left???
Posted by FlowerWife
Posted by Shelleybean11
I'm so sorry you have all been here for so long It really isn't fair sometimes. I can't imagine how hard it is to keep seeing the revolving door of TTCers on this board. I have only been here a couple of months and I am getting depressed! I hope you all get your BFP's very very soon!
yes the revolving door on this board is so bad that i dont come here that much anymore. feel more comfortable on the infertility board. i still post when i can be helpful to someone, or cheer them on, but otherwise its hard to see people come here and get a BFP in five minutes after once not even knowing when they ovulate. i am thrilled that others dont have to think about it like i do, but im ashamed to say i am also insanely jealous
I feel the same way. I've stopped opening certain posts cause I just know they are going to be a BFP announcement. Like you said, I am so happy for everyone who gets pregnant and I would never wish the pain I feel on anyone else, I just cannot NOT be jealous.
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| Posted 8/4/10 7:28 PM |
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MrsDeVito
Gio's gonna be a big brother!
Member since 7/09 4671 total posts
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Christina
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Re: Am I the last one left???
Posted by Shelleybean11
I'm so sorry you have all been here for so long It really isn't fair sometimes. I can't imagine how hard it is to keep seeing the revolving door of TTCers on this board. I have only been here a couple of months and I am getting depressed! I hope you all get your BFP's very very soon!
Thank you
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| Posted 8/4/10 7:29 PM |
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Re: Am I the last one left???
Posted by FlowerWife
yes the revolving door on this board is so bad that i dont come here that much anymore. feel more comfortable on the infertility board. i still post when i can be helpful to someone, or cheer them on, but otherwise its hard to see people come here and get a BFP in five minutes after once not even knowing when they ovulate. i am thrilled that others dont have to think about it like i do, but im ashamed to say i am also insanely jealous
ITA. The revolving door lately has been hard to take. Especially as we pass the year mark.
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| Posted 8/4/10 7:32 PM |
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mimid15
LIF Infant
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Re: Am I the last one left???
Im still here unfortunatley....just hit the 11 month mark!...and Im no spring chicken!
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| Posted 8/4/10 7:34 PM |
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Re: Am I the last one left???
MrsDevito and FlowerWife...you have no idea how much I hope all the time that I will open a BFP post for you ladies.
Our day will come...
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| Posted 8/4/10 7:34 PM |
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ns1011
I'm wide awake
Member since 4/09 2697 total posts
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Re: Am I the last one left???
I'm still here too .
I don't post on here that much anymore because like you, I feel like everyone I am familiar with has left or moved over to IF.
Don't get me wrong, i'm happy for all who get their BFP's but it's getting harder and harder to sympathize for the new TTCers who complain after 1-2 months of TTC with no luck (no offense). I'm past my 1 year mark with no explanation as to why it hasn't happened and I am just so heartbroken over it.
Lately, I have been lurking ont he IF board and I check in on here every now and then to see if there is anywhere that my experience can be useful. Mostly though, I try to stay away, because I always end up in tears.
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| Posted 8/4/10 7:35 PM |
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ns1011
I'm wide awake
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Re: Am I the last one left???
Posted by WishingforBaby
MrsDevito and FlowerWife...you have no idea how much I hope all the time that I will open a BFP post for you ladies.
Our day will come...
ITA - I am definitely one of your biggest fans 
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| Posted 8/4/10 7:36 PM |
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mimid15
LIF Infant
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Re: Am I the last one left???
Posted by MrsDeVito
Posted by FlowerWife
Posted by Shelleybean11
I'm so sorry you have all been here for so long It really isn't fair sometimes. I can't imagine how hard it is to keep seeing the revolving door of TTCers on this board. I have only been here a couple of months and I am getting depressed! I hope you all get your BFP's very very soon!
yes the revolving door on this board is so bad that i dont come here that much anymore. feel more comfortable on the infertility board. i still post when i can be helpful to someone, or cheer them on, but otherwise its hard to see people come here and get a BFP in five minutes after once not even knowing when they ovulate. i am thrilled that others dont have to think about it like i do, but im ashamed to say i am also insanely jealous
I feel the same way. I've stopped opening certain posts cause I just know they are going to be a BFP announcement. Like you said, I am so happy for everyone who gets pregnant and I would never wish the pain I feel on anyone else, I just cannot NOT be jealous.
I could have written both of these posts EXACTLY!!
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| Posted 8/4/10 7:36 PM |
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MrsDeVito
Gio's gonna be a big brother!
Member since 7/09 4671 total posts
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Christina
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Re: Am I the last one left???
Posted by WishingforBaby
MrsDevito and FlowerWife...you have no idea how much I hope all the time that I will open a BFP post for you ladies.
Our day will come...
Thank you so much, I feel the same way about the "veterans" of the board.
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| Posted 8/4/10 7:38 PM |
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MrsDeVito
Gio's gonna be a big brother!
Member since 7/09 4671 total posts
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Christina
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Re: Am I the last one left???
Posted by ns1011
Posted by WishingforBaby
MrsDevito and FlowerWife...you have no idea how much I hope all the time that I will open a BFP post for you ladies.
Our day will come...
ITA - I am definitely one of your biggest fans
Thank you
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| Posted 8/4/10 7:39 PM |
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FlowerWife
Positive Vibrations...
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Re: Am I the last one left???
Posted by MrsDeVito
Posted by ns1011
Posted by WishingforBaby
MrsDevito and FlowerWife...you have no idea how much I hope all the time that I will open a BFP post for you ladies.
Our day will come...
ITA - I am definitely one of your biggest fans
Thank you
same here for all of you!!
MrsDevito i was rooting so hard for you during your IVF cycle!!
i am so scared that the next time i get to post a BFP it will be over in a few days again..
sometimes though you just have to keep on keepin' on.. you gotta psyche yourself up for each cycle. and it gets harder and harder to do that each time. this cycle i am in now (CD8, day 3 of stims) was the hardest so far, i didnt feel positive again from the negative HPT at 12DPO until like CD4 which was a total of like 9 days or so. but i really believe that having a positive outlook helps. i havent proved it yet, but i will one day!! extra for all of us super seniors!!
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AnxiousPants
LIF Adolescent
Member since 10/09 864 total posts
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Re: Am I the last one left???
Posted by MrsDeVito
Posted by FlowerWife
yes the revolving door on this board is so bad that i dont come here that much anymore. feel more comfortable on the infertility board. i still post when i can be helpful to someone, or cheer them on, but otherwise its hard to see people come here and get a BFP in five minutes after once not even knowing when they ovulate. i am thrilled that others dont have to think about it like i do, but im ashamed to say i am also insanely jealous
I feel the same way. I've stopped opening certain posts cause I just know they are going to be a BFP announcement. Like you said, I am so happy for everyone who gets pregnant and I would never wish the pain I feel on anyone else, I just cannot NOT be jealous.
I could have written these exact posts word for word.
Never in a million years could have imagined how hard this would be.
Its even gotten to the point where as much as I want to answer newbie's posts, sometimes I just don't have the energy when the answers have been posted on this board so many times in the past. I feel terrible to say that, but its the honest truth.
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| Posted 8/4/10 8:07 PM |
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keepingsecrets
ridiculously blessed!!
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Re: Am I the last one left???
i'm still here too  i've been on this site since end of 08 (started under my "real" name) and we've been ttc for about 13 months. now we are on a break since i just had the ectopic but i'm still here nonetheless and still wanting to be a mommy more than anything. i never really posted that much before but i really don't post that much now b/c i feel like i don't fit anywhere i'm not ttc technically right now so i feel like i don't fit here and i don't have a fertility problem per se (just two losses) so i have nowhere to go. i lurk a lot but it does sting when i see all the BFP's from girls who've been here such a short time. its not that i'm not happy for every single girl who gets to be a mommy, i just wish it were me too i totally understand how you feel!
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starlight
LIF Infant
Member since 9/09 83 total posts
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Re: Am I the last one left???
first off your not whinning! and i have been trying for about 5 years now! We will both get our BFP soon!!! Don't give up hope!!!
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| Posted 8/4/10 8:50 PM |
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AnxiousPants
LIF Adolescent
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Re: Am I the last one left???
Posted by WishingforBaby
ITA. The revolving door lately has been hard to take. Especially as we pass the year mark.
And that revolving door seems to be spinning faster than ever lately. There have been a TON of super quick BFPs in the last 2 months.
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| Posted 8/4/10 8:56 PM |
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Coosie
So in love with my little boy!
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Re: Am I the last one left???
No, honey, I'm still here with you. Just been quite lately as we're dealing with getting things fixed. It'll be a year in October since we officially started. And DH's meds aren't really supposed to really kick in until Oct-Nov anyway so we don't have much of a chance until then anyway (plus, I'm back on BCP to re-regulate me while DH fixes him). It's looking like it will be over a year TTC as well for us.
Positive thoughts!!! And lots of too!!
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| Posted 8/4/10 9:04 PM |
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mrsyoungmommy
can't wait to meet Sophia!
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Danielle
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Re: Am I the last one left???
ladies, i am so very sorry that anyone needs to go through this, especially any of you ladies.
i pray that all of you get your BFPs very soon.
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MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....
Member since 12/09 8306 total posts
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Re: Am I the last one left???
I'm still here. I started on the pregnancy board too... and then came to TTC.... talk about backwards. 
still trying away...
we are doing deanna's plan so far this month. I'm on CD 14 I and we have 3 completed!! we started on cd 10 instead of 8. he wanted to add some days in there too so instead of every other day... some will be everyday.
i feel your pain though. and i can't help but agree with you on what you said about the BFP posts. i've actually been trying to stay away from the boards. I'm trying to not think about it all... and just clear my mind of it.
my due date is this weekend.
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