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nferrandi
too excited for words
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Nicole
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DH has me so aggrivated!
DS knows how upset I am that I got AF yesterday, for some reason I really did think I was preggo.  So I tell him how this really stinks for work and he starts to insinuate that maybe I should have pushed him more and gone off the pill earlier. Um, as it was, I felt like I was kind of pressuring him- though he fully admits that my pressuring him is the only way to get him to do things. He said that of course he wants another baby and I shold have taken the lead and gone off earlier.  He can be such a pain in my arse sometimes@!
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Linda1003
love my 2 boys
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Re: DH has me so aggrivated!
They can be such idiots sometimes.. they don't think before they speak.....grrrrr
Placing blame is the last thing you need right now.. Chalk it up to diarrhea of the mouth.
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| Posted 11/6/08 10:40 AM |
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maybeamommy
Blessed beyond belief
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Re: DH has me so aggrivated!
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| Posted 11/6/08 10:43 AM |
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Diana1215
Living on a prayer!!!
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Diana
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Re: DH has me so aggrivated!
Men REALLY don't think sometimes!
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| Posted 11/6/08 10:45 AM |
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nferrandi
too excited for words
Member since 10/05 18538 total posts
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Nicole
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Re: DH has me so aggrivated!
You know if I had pushed him and gone off the pill months earlier, I probably would have gotten pregnant right away and he would have had something to say then too.
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| Posted 11/6/08 10:51 AM |
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christy
Mommy of 2
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Christy
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Re: DH has me so aggrivated!
I know what you mean. After we had DD my husband said "We should have done this sooner, why did you let me wait so long"...now I am getting ready for another baby and he keeps saying, "not yet, I want more time with just DD"....
Are you serious!
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| Posted 11/6/08 11:05 AM |
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Ang-Rich
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Re: DH has me so aggrivated!
Men can be such different creatures...try to look past the words...could be some fear and regret on his own part behind them. Just easier to blame someone else. Not that it's fair.
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| Posted 11/6/08 11:20 AM |
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MetsGirl07
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Deanna
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Re: DH has me so aggrivated!
i know how difficult they can be sometimes... just know you are not alone
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| Posted 11/6/08 11:37 AM |
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lilyflower
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Re: DH has me so aggrivated!
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| Posted 11/6/08 8:00 PM |
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TCOMF09
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Laura
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Re: DH has me so aggrivated!
Posted by nferrandi
You know if I had pushed him and gone off the pill months earlier, I probably would have gotten pregnant right away and he would have had something to say then too.
Exactly!
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| Posted 11/6/08 8:03 PM |
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Re: DH has me so aggrivated!
Ugh
The other night DH said to me "I hope it happens soon - I'm no spring chicken, ya know" He tells me this NOW after I have been wanting to try for the past 2 years. 
Men.
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| Posted 11/6/08 8:07 PM |
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Teachergal
We made a snowman!
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Re: DH has me so aggrivated!
I'm sorry he said that to you!
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| Posted 11/7/08 6:27 AM |
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Jenhos
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Re: DH has me so aggrivated!
grrr....MEN. They really just don't get it!
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| Posted 11/7/08 8:14 AM |
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CrankyPants
I'm cranky
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Re: DH has me so aggrivated!
TTC is really stressful. The longer it takes the easier it is to point fingers, he has to remember that saying things like this are not helpful to the situation at hand. You can't go back in time an nag him-nor would you want to. None of that matters now anyway, you just have to focus on the present and try to be supportive of one and other so you can make a baby!
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| Posted 11/7/08 9:11 AM |
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