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dcl08
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just venting
i cant stand peoples comments about enough time has passed why arent you pregnant yet  like i chose to keep trying for months? and someone else made a comment about your young you shouldtn have a problem getting pregnant
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Posted 3/30/10 8:23 PM  |
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MrsH2009
Thank you St. Gerard!
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Re: just venting
People can be such aholes!!!! Sorry you are going through this 
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| Posted 3/30/10 8:34 PM |
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MrsDeVito
Gio's gonna be a big brother!
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Christina
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Re: just venting
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| Posted 3/30/10 8:41 PM |
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BBmaking
LIF Adolescent
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Re: just venting
ugh! I know exactly what you mean. I am turning 29 in August this year and you have NO IDEA how many people (coworkers, family friends, etc) keeps on telling me that I shouldn't wait to have a child and if I wait too long, I may have trouble...blah blah blah!! I think that's just soooo rude and obnoxious!
I just learn to zone them out!
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| Posted 3/30/10 8:45 PM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Jen
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Re: just venting
That is the worst! I've been lucky b/c most of the people I know read my blog, and I am open about my struggles, but I will NEVER again wonder why people don't have babies or if there is a long space in between kids....you never know what's going on behind closed doors.
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| Posted 3/30/10 8:47 PM |
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Exarina
My Two Girls
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Lisa Marie
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Re: just venting
EF THEM ..when people say smart comments to me..I usually give a smart arse comment bak
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| Posted 3/30/10 8:48 PM |
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Miss2mrs
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Re: just venting
I so don't know what to say when people say things like to me. I just shrug it off and laugh half the time.
Things like this never used to upset me until we started ttc
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| Posted 3/30/10 8:48 PM |
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FlowerWife
Positive Vibrations...
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Re: just venting
omg at DH's mom's passover last night his uncle walks in, says hi to me, and follows that with "so are you pregnant yet?"
im at the point - 11 months of TTC - where Im way more :  than  at those comments...
although my comeback was "no, are you?"
 
that shut him up..
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| Posted 3/30/10 8:53 PM |
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TheDivineMrsM
2 girls 4 me!
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Re: just venting
OMG... someone actually asked you that?? That's awful.
What about saying something like "Well, we're having a lot of fun trying!" so they don't know they hurt you?
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| Posted 3/31/10 7:38 AM |
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FergieK
Loving my girls
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Re: just venting
it sux and people have no idea what they do when they say that to us
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| Posted 3/31/10 7:53 AM |
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bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!
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Re: just venting
I'm sorry!
I wish people would just be smart enough to know better, & NOT TO SAY ANYTHING!!
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| Posted 3/31/10 9:01 AM |
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dianadrw
LIF Adult
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Me
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Re: just venting
Posted by FlowerWife
omg at DH's mom's passover last night his uncle walks in, says hi to me, and follows that with "so are you pregnant yet?"
im at the point - 11 months of TTC - where Im way more : than at those comments...
although my comeback was "no, are you?"
that shut him up..
That just made me LOL. Good for you!
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| Posted 3/31/10 12:16 PM |
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MayBbaby21
Baby no. 3 coming soon!
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Re: just venting
It's such a misconception that people think just because you're "young," you won't have any issues. It really annoys me, too!
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| Posted 3/31/10 12:22 PM |
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curiousO
he is here.. thank you God
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Re: just venting
People have no limits and do not know when to stop. Ugh!!! I feel you
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| Posted 3/31/10 12:38 PM |
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Babyaholic
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Re: just venting
Posted by zoe282
That is the worst! I've been lucky b/c most of the people I know read my blog, and I am open about my struggles, but I will NEVER again wonder why people don't have babies or if there is a long space in between kids....you never know what's going on behind closed doors.
I have to agree with Jen - except, I don't have a blog. Trying since May of last year and going through 2 losses, I will NEVER question people about babies again. People need to learn to keep their mouths closed.
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| Posted 3/31/10 12:58 PM |
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JenMarie
One day at a time
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Re: just venting
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