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Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

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maybride2004
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Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

I know I still have a lot of time yet but was wondering this


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Posted 8/30/09 12:44 PM
 
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butterfly668
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

I'm not sure, i assume your mother or mother in law? I know my mother is throwing me mine- even though she won't tell me a thing Chat Icon

Posted 8/30/09 12:51 PM
 

CmC720
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

my mom threw mine and then my MIL split it with her. Chat Icon

Posted 8/30/09 1:09 PM
 

spooks
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

I say there's no rules - your mom, MIL, SIL, Sister, Friend, DH - whoever!

Posted 8/30/09 1:16 PM
 

lesliemike
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

Posted by spooks

I say there's no rules - your mom, MIL, SIL, Sister, Friend, DH - whoever!



I agree!

My mom and MIL are splitting mine, and I'm helping out where I can since my mom lives OOT.

Posted 8/30/09 1:21 PM
 

Jan1975
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

normally mothers or MIL...but I am helping my friends mom with hers...also, we threw a 2nd babyshower for my other friend.

Posted 8/30/09 1:46 PM
 

BAM 2009
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

My Mom and best friend are throwing mine...It has been a very bumpy road...

Posted 8/30/09 1:48 PM
 

LemonHead
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

My mom and friend who was my MOH are throwing mine. MIL is helping.

Posted 8/30/09 2:22 PM
 

SuperLRN
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

Posted by spooks

I say there's no rules - your mom, MIL, SIL, Sister, Friend, DH - whoever!



I agree. My aunt and grandmother are throwing mine.

Message edited 8/30/2009 2:45:24 PM.

Posted 8/30/09 2:45 PM
 

Lara&Aidansmommy
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

My mother has passed on Chat Icon so my sister is throwing it for me with the help from my dad and my milChat Icon

Posted 8/30/09 2:57 PM
 

Michelle1123
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

Generally the mother throws it, but i know my sister and m-i-l helped with mine.

Posted 8/30/09 3:00 PM
 

LifeIsGood77
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

Posted by spooks

I say there's no rules - your mom, MIL, SIL, Sister, Friend, DH - whoever!




ITA DH was trying to do it for me since my mom is out of state and can't afford it, but then my MIL took over!

Posted 8/30/09 3:12 PM
 

Carolyn
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

My mom is throwing it and paying for everything. My MIL and BF are helping her with invites, favors, etc.

Posted 8/30/09 3:18 PM
 

KrisT
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Kristin

Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

My mom is thowing mine and paying for it, and my sister is helping her. My MIL offered to help in any way she could.

Message edited 8/30/2009 4:36:21 PM.

Posted 8/30/09 4:36 PM
 

ali120206
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

Posted by CmC720

my mom threw mine and then my MIL split it with her. Chat Icon



That's how mine is going to be as well.

I've thrown showers for friends though - it depends on the situation.

Posted 8/30/09 5:47 PM
 

gck0708
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

A group of girlfriends thew mine when I was in the States last week (still have to post pics!). But my Mom lives out of the country (as do I) and I wasn't going to be anywhere near my inlaws, so thats just the way it worked out.

Posted 8/30/09 5:59 PM
 

conigs25
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

Posted by CmC720

my mom threw mine and then my MIL split it with her. Chat Icon



same here

Posted 8/30/09 6:50 PM
 

dawnygirl25
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

I would say "normally" the mother or MIL but as a few said above..definately no rules as to whom. My mother passed away (she was here for mine) so when my sister gets preggo..I will throw it.

Posted 8/30/09 9:09 PM
 

JennB
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

my mom is paying for most of mine and planning all of it (MIL says shes chipping in but we'll see what happens) and my DH is clueless so I told him to mkae sure he helps my mom, maybe do the favors or something. And im sure some of my friends will help with some things too. I dont think there's a clear rule on who is supposed to throw it

Posted 8/30/09 11:18 PM
 

MrsNicolaxoxo
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

I think that the traditional rules have changed (mother or sister etc) and anything goes! For example, my hubby basically threw my shower (he paid for it) then I planned everything! I took the initiative.

My bridal shower on the other hand was a total surprise. Once again, <3 hubby <3 booked the place set the party up and paid and my sil, mom and sister planned the little things.

Posted 8/30/09 11:28 PM
 

LulaBell
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J

Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

My mom and MIL split the cost but my sister did most of the planning.

Posted 8/31/09 7:08 AM
 

mnd721
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Debra

Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

mom paying for most and my sis is helping out.

Posted 8/31/09 8:07 AM
 

Shanti
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

My mom, sister, and MIL are planning and organizing - I think mom/MIL will split the costs

Posted 8/31/09 8:18 AM
 

oktom22
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Theresa

Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

I don't think there are any rules anymore, b/c everyone's situation is different.

My mom threw mine and MIL split the cost with her.

Posted 8/31/09 8:59 AM
 

MrsA714
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Re: Who's responsiible for throwing baby shower?

Posted by oktom22

I don't think there are any rules anymore, b/c everyone's situation is different.

My mom threw mine and MIL split the cost with her.



Same here.

Posted 8/31/09 9:07 AM
 
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