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CaMacho
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Name: Jess
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"You're so skinny, I hate you!"
I don't like when I hear people say this... and what the heck are you supposed to say to that?
Umm... thanks?
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Posted 5/4/07 3:16 PM |
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LFitzy79
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Name: Lauren
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
You could always respond with "I hate you more!"
Message edited 5/4/2007 3:18:51 PM.
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Posted 5/4/07 3:18 PM |
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Bellaocchi
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
That's not a very nice comment. Who ever says this is jealous of you obviously.
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Posted 5/4/07 3:18 PM |
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eroxgirl
My Loves

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Name: Rebecca
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
You say "I'm not the enemy, but those twinkies are."
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Posted 5/4/07 3:18 PM |
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Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st

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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
How about "You're so rude, I hate you back."
That's not nice to say all.
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Posted 5/4/07 3:18 PM |
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Sweets13
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
"I'm lucky..I know"
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Posted 5/4/07 3:19 PM |
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aliwnec10
mom of 3 boys

Member since 4/06 11426 total posts
Name: Ali
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
i don't think it's meant to be mean or insulting. I take it as a compliment!
I get that too, especially since i eat like a horse and i usually say thanks. Like you said, what else can you say?
I either say thanks or it's in my genes!
Message edited 5/4/2007 3:21:10 PM.
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Posted 5/4/07 3:20 PM |
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Stacey1403
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
Well I love you fat azz?
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Posted 5/4/07 3:24 PM |
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angnick
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Name: Angela
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
i take it as a compliment too. or i say, oh shut up, so are you! LOL
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Posted 5/4/07 3:26 PM |
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anonttcer
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
I get that all the time. It used to bother me when I was younger... because back then I was so self conscious about being skinny. Now that I'm older I LOVE it. It's a compliment. Though people don't know how to keep their mouths shut. Would you ever say to someone- oh my God you are SO fat?? So why is it ok to say things about thin people??
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Posted 5/4/07 3:29 PM |
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antoinette
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
I know I get this alot and Im not sure what to say....um thanks
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Posted 5/4/07 3:32 PM |
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oops123
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Name: michelle
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
maybe something like"Try taping your mouth shut and you could be too"
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Posted 5/4/07 3:36 PM |
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alisonggg
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
i get that too...i find it really annoying... i usally say thanks but inside
Message edited 5/4/2007 3:38:29 PM.
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Posted 5/4/07 3:38 PM |
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Ritse
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
This happened to me and I guarantee you it might work for you.
I used to always say to my sister..."why are you so skinny?'...well one day she shot back with "why are you so fat?". I was so embarrassed, I have never said that to her since!
We big people (most anyway) always assume that skinny people don't mind weight/size comments.
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Posted 5/4/07 3:40 PM |
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CaMacho
Sisters :)

Member since 7/06 15112 total posts
Name: Jess
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
Posted by oopsididitagain
maybe something like"Try taping your mouth shut and you could be too"
LOL
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Posted 5/4/07 3:41 PM |
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kerrycec03
Mom of 2 beautiful boys!!

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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
I guess its hard to sympathize as being on the other side of things. It drives me nuts when people who are skinny say "do I look fat, do I need to eat that, etc".
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Posted 5/4/07 3:41 PM |
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CaMacho
Sisters :)

Member since 7/06 15112 total posts
Name: Jess
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
Posted by anonttcer
Would you ever say to someone- oh my God you are SO fat?? So why is it ok to say things about thin people??
Exactly... I mean I know they probably mean it as a compliment, but it really puts me on the spot b/c I can't say the same thing back.
Oh and another thing I get sometimes is "Yea I used to be like you, wait till you pop out a few kids." ***???!!
ETA: Since when does W.T.F get starred out???
Message edited 5/4/2007 3:43:52 PM.
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Posted 5/4/07 3:42 PM |
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aliwnec10
mom of 3 boys

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Name: Ali
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
see i don't understand what the big deal is about this comment?
I have never been insulted by this or even questioned it...
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Posted 5/4/07 3:43 PM |
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aliwnec10
mom of 3 boys

Member since 4/06 11426 total posts
Name: Ali
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
Posted by CaMacho
Posted by anonttcer
Would you ever say to someone- oh my God you are SO fat?? So why is it ok to say things about thin people??
Exactly... I mean I know they probably mean it as a compliment, but it really puts me on the spot b/c I can't say the same thing back.
Oh and another thing I get sometimes is "Yea I used to be like you, wait till you pop out a few kids." ***???!!
see i get... "what until you turn 30 and the weight piles on!"
I will say this comment bothers me because "just because it happened to you doesn't mean it will happen to me!"
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Posted 5/4/07 3:44 PM |
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MarathonKnitter
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
it's very rude because you don't know why that person is skinny. i work with people who are trying everything they know to gain weight. so it won't always be taken as a compliment
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Posted 5/4/07 3:44 PM |
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Anniegrl
I'm two!

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Name: Ann
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
I HATE when people call me skinny. There's a difference between skinny and thin. I prefer thin. I'm not skin and bones. I work hard to NOT look skinny by eating right and lifting weights. So after doing all that work, it's insulting when people refer to me as skinny.
I try to not let it bother me though, because I know they're trying to compliment me.....
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Posted 5/4/07 3:46 PM |
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CaMacho
Sisters :)

Member since 7/06 15112 total posts
Name: Jess
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
Posted by aliwnec10
see i don't understand what the big deal is about this comment?
I have never been insulted by this or even questioned it...
I'm not insulted by it, but there is a nicer way to give a compliment.
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Posted 5/4/07 3:46 PM |
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maybebaby
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Name: Maureen
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
I think that comment is VERY different from saying "you're so fat, i hate you!".
The reason why is b/c the person is saying it b/c they are jealous or just being complimentary! I don't think they mean anything negative by it, even if it may be an awkward comment since you can't respond back.
When i lost weight years ago, people would say "OMG you got so skinny, you look so good!". It was to me kind of like saying "before you were fat and unattractive but now, wow!". Lol.
There are so many ways to interpret things I guess. Consider it a compliment in the end
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KGools
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
Posted by aliwnec10
see i don't understand what the big deal is about this comment?
I have never been insulted by this or even questioned it...
It's backhanded. Why is it ok for someone to say "You're so skinny, I hate you" but not "You're so fat, I hate you". The person giving the "compliment" could've just said, "Wow, you've got a great figure" or even "Wow, I'd kill to have your figure". But to throw in the "I hate you" part is kind of mean and twisted.
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Posted 5/4/07 3:49 PM |
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aliwnec10
mom of 3 boys

Member since 4/06 11426 total posts
Name: Ali
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Re: "You're so skinny, I hate you!"
Posted by CoopersMom01
Posted by aliwnec10
see i don't understand what the big deal is about this comment?
I have never been insulted by this or even questioned it...
It's backhanded. Why is it ok for someone to say "You're so skinny, I hate you" but not "You're so fat, I hate you". The person giving the "compliment" could've just said, "Wow, you've got a great figure" or even "Wow, I'd kill to have your figure". But to throw in the "I hate you" part is kind of mean and twisted.
It's not mean and twisted... they're kidding around.
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