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UPDATED: I WENT TO THE HOUSE: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

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Serendipity
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UPDATED: I WENT TO THE HOUSE: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up


So I go to take DD for a walk this afternoon when we got a few breaks of sun.

Lately she walks holding my hand but today I decided I want her to try and nap so I put her in the stroller and we go on our walk.

We are about 2 blocks from my house and I check her she is just dozing off...perfect....

I am walking and all of a sudden a car full speed pulls out of a driveway hehind bushes as we are passing!!! I screamed!!

God was there with me bc how I got her out of harms way I willl never know. I somehow turned the stroller in the air and the car just grazed the edge of the stroller, never touched DD.


It was a teenage girl who said she never looked while pulling out of her driveway. she said she was looking downChat Icon She has a cell in her hand and I bet you she was texting!

I hardly yelled the way I would want to yell now. I was just sooo shooken up and grateful DD was 120% fine. I wish I yelled at her more. all I kept saying was how do you not look!!! I must have repeated myself 99 times! I was hysterical!! I was more hysertical than mad at that point.

What an afternoon and my DD gaurdian angel was with us for sureChat Icon


UPDATE Thursday afternoon
So All day I passed the house and no one was home. So I took one last try a little while ago and passed while DD and I were on our way home in the car. There was an older couple sitting on the porch and a bunch of kids playing (The girl's car wasnt there).
So I pulled in front and asked if they were the owners and indeed they said yes. The woman came ot the car and I explained what happed and she was so upset and apologetic. She wanted to know the color of the car and when I told her she said that is her granddaughter, apparently it is a 2 family house. She said the girls parents are on vacation right now (so I guess I was wrong of who that man was that came out, which explains why he didnt repsond the way a father should). She said she will absolutely speak with her granddaughter and she really couldnt have apologized more. She also said that those bushes are against town code (the bushes as I looked at them today line the driveway but now I see they dont belong to that house, they belong next door). again, that in no means is an excuse, and I did say that. She agreed, gave me right and really felt badChat Icon
So at least I got a little closure on this and again I am just so thankful things didnt turn out worseChat Icon

Thanks to all of you for all your responses and FMs!!!Chat Icon
I didnt sleep one second last night thinking of what could have been!Chat Icon

Message edited 5/19/2011 4:32:17 PM.

Posted 5/18/11 3:04 PM
 
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neener1211
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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

OMG I'm so glad both you and DD are ok!!!

Posted 5/18/11 3:06 PM
 

pickles16
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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

I would have loooost my sh!t!!!!! I would have asked to get her parents there immediatley..I'm sorry but that is NOT OK!!!!!!!

So glad everyone is ok!!!

Posted 5/18/11 3:07 PM
 

gporka23
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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

That is so scary!! So glad you are both ok and you were able to react as fast as you did!

I hope that girl also got the scare of her life (knowing the harm she could have caused) and will always look before pulling out from now on.

eta: I would have been a basket case myself but initially i am sure you are in such shock you dont know what to say.

Message edited 5/18/2011 3:09:05 PM.

Posted 5/18/11 3:08 PM
 

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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

Posted by pickles16

I would have loooost my sh!t!!!!! I would have asked to get her parents there immediatley..I'm sorry but that is NOT OK!!!!!!!

So glad everyone is ok!!!




ITA
Glad everyone is ok Chat Icon

Posted 5/18/11 3:09 PM
 

Linda1003
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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

Chat Icon hate people that dont pay attention when they drive!!!

thank goodness you are both ok>>>Chat Icon

Posted 5/18/11 3:09 PM
 

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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

OMG, that is so scary. So glad DD is okay. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/18/11 3:11 PM
 

Lucky
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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

OMG I am just relieved that your DD was not hurt. I know you wish you laced into the girl more but I am sure it scared the bejesus out of her....hopefully enough to be more careful.

Message edited 5/18/2011 3:12:29 PM.

Posted 5/18/11 3:12 PM
 

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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

Thank goodness you are and your DD are ok! That would have scared the crap out of me. Chat Icon

Posted 5/18/11 3:12 PM
 

Serendipity
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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

Posted by pickles16

I would have loooost my sh!t!!!!! I would have asked to get her parents there immediatley..I'm sorry but that is NOT OK!!!!!!!

So glad everyone is ok!!!



I lost my sh!t in a more hysterical sort of way. I mean I swear I was numb, my hands were shaken so bad it was unreal.

The father came out and asked what happened (it was about 5 min later) I told him and he just assured DD was fine. In hindsight I am not sure if he could have been more, but truthfully it is a blur to me bc I got soo upset.

Me, now I am ready to scream at her and the father, but then I was crying to hard..

Posted 5/18/11 3:12 PM
 

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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

OMG!! Scary...I too would have demanded her parents info.

Posted 5/18/11 3:13 PM
 

Serendipity
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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

Posted by Lucky

OMG I am just relieved that your DD was not hurt. I know you wish you laced into the girl more but I am sure it scared the bejesus out of her....hopefully enough to be more careful.



I really did scream at her just kinda in a crying way. NOW I want to scream in a YELLING way! I want to kick the C r a p out of her now...maybe I was pretty mean with her....I just dont know...I know I sound nuts, at that moment my mind was too much on my DD.

Posted 5/18/11 3:14 PM
 

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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

Thank god you and your DD are ok. I definitely would have asked to speak with her parents and/or would follow-up with them. They should know that their teenager is driving in such an unsafe manner.

Posted 5/18/11 3:15 PM
 

Serendipity
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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

Posted by codybear

Thank god you and your DD are ok. I definitely would have asked to speak with her parents and/or would follow-up with them. They should know that their teenager is driving in such an unsafe manner.




Her dad came out, otherwise that I would have done.

Posted 5/18/11 3:18 PM
 

FreeButterfly
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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

What did her dad say?

Technically, she hit you - file a police report. Did you really check out the stroller for any small stress fractures?

Posted 5/18/11 3:21 PM
 

NervousNell
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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

Posted by pickles16

I would have loooost my sh!t!!!!! I would have asked to get her parents there immediatley..I'm sorry but that is NOT OK!!!!!!!

So glad everyone is ok!!!



I think I would have PERSONALLY beaten the shyt out of that dumb b!tch.
HOLY crap!
Thank GOD your DD is ok.

Posted 5/18/11 3:24 PM
 

CaMacho
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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

Wow I can imagine how shaken up you were. Glad she is okay!!!!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/18/11 3:25 PM
 

Serendipity
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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

Posted by FreeButterfly

What did her dad say?

Technically, she hit you - file a police report. Did you really check out the stroller for any small stress fractures?



I looked and didnt see. At the moment all I cared about was DD so I didnt think of a police report bc she was fine.

But I underastand what you are saying.

Her dad...um...he was like what happened. he just asked if we were ok. I believe he should have been more sympathetic or upset, maybe he was...I was a lunatic so I cant say honestly. I know that s a bad answer.

Posted 5/18/11 3:25 PM
 

Serendipity
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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

Posted by NervousNell

Posted by pickles16

I would have loooost my sh!t!!!!! I would have asked to get her parents there immediatley..I'm sorry but that is NOT OK!!!!!!!

So glad everyone is ok!!!



I think I would have PERSONALLY beaten the shyt out of that dumb b!tch.
HOLY crap!
Thank GOD your DD is ok.



Yea truthfully now I say that and if someone told me this before it happened I would have had the same reaction, but I cant explain, when it happened I was more concerned with makign sure DD was ok, and in a bit of shock on what happened. Hard to describe.Chat Icon

Message edited 5/18/2011 3:29:00 PM.

Posted 5/18/11 3:28 PM
 

pickles16
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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

Posted by Serendipity

Posted by NervousNell

Posted by pickles16

I would have loooost my sh!t!!!!! I would have asked to get her parents there immediatley..I'm sorry but that is NOT OK!!!!!!!

So glad everyone is ok!!!



I think I would have PERSONALLY beaten the shyt out of that dumb b!tch.
HOLY crap!
Thank GOD your DD is ok.



Yea truthfully now I say that and if someone told me this before it happened I would have had the same reaction, but I cant explain, when it happened I was more concerned with makign sure DD was ok, and in a bit of shock on what happened. Hard to describe.Chat Icon



totally makes sense u always think what u could have said/done in hindsight and I think I would have been insanely shaken up too!!! Chat Icon

Posted 5/18/11 3:30 PM
 

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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Glad you are both okChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/18/11 3:32 PM
 

TripletMom
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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

OMG.... I am so glad you both are Ok...

Posted 5/18/11 3:33 PM
 

jambalady
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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

OMG, I would be shaking.

So glad you and your DD are ok. And thank goodness she was in that stroller!

Posted 5/18/11 3:34 PM
 

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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

Glad you are both ok Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I would've reacted like you!

Posted 5/18/11 3:35 PM
 

Serendipity
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Re: Scare of my life today!- All is fine but very shaken up

Posted by pickles16

Posted by Serendipity

Posted by NervousNell

Posted by pickles16

I would have loooost my sh!t!!!!! I would have asked to get her parents there immediatley..I'm sorry but that is NOT OK!!!!!!!

So glad everyone is ok!!!



I think I would have PERSONALLY beaten the shyt out of that dumb b!tch.
HOLY crap!
Thank GOD your DD is ok.



Yea truthfully now I say that and if someone told me this before it happened I would have had the same reaction, but I cant explain, when it happened I was more concerned with makign sure DD was ok, and in a bit of shock on what happened. Hard to describe.Chat Icon



totally makes sense u always think what u could have said/done in hindsight and I think I would have been insanely shaken up too!!! Chat Icon



My hysteric certainly made apoint.

Of course tho as I am screaming and crying at this girl DD is saying "hi" "hi" and waving at her!!!

Posted 5/18/11 3:36 PM
 
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