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The first cut is the deepest...

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Aries14
Can't plan life...

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The first cut is the deepest...

baby I know....

I'm out. AF arrived this morning. On to month 2!!! I am ok, I honestly didn't expect it to happen right away, I really didn't. I guess it is just a little upseting for the first time you POAS and actually WANT a positive and you get a negitive, lol. But my DH was really good and tried to make me feel better by saying that last month during our 'trying' period, it was the best time of his life because it brought us so much closer together. He said we will just have more time to enjoy "trying to make a baby"....lol. Baby dust to everyone else.... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/6/09 9:57 AM
 
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Linda1003
love my 2 boys

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Linda

Re: The first cut is the deepest...

Chat Icon Chat Icon good luck next month!!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/6/09 10:00 AM
 

lolipep
My prayers have been answered

Member since 10/08

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Lori

Re: The first cut is the deepest...

Chat Icon Chat Icon I'm sorryChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for next month

Posted 2/6/09 10:02 AM
 

ArmyOfBabies
Growing older but not up

Member since 7/07

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Jeri

Re: The first cut is the deepest...

Sorry AF showed.

Hope next month all your trying pays offChat Icon

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Posted 2/6/09 10:10 AM
 

munchkinfacemama
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Michelle

Re: The first cut is the deepest...

It really is hard the first month. I am sorry babe Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Good luck for next month! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/6/09 10:12 AM
 

Aries14
Can't plan life...

Member since 8/08

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Re: The first cut is the deepest...

Thank you ladies... I was pretty upset but I think I am feeling better now.

Posted 2/6/09 10:15 AM
 

Hopingtobepreggo09
LIF Infant

Member since 12/08

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Re: The first cut is the deepest...

I’m sorry. I know how you feel. It was our first month too and I didn’t expect to get pregnant first time but in a way I was..if that makes sense. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/6/09 10:18 AM
 

maybeamommy
Blessed beyond belief

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Re: The first cut is the deepest...

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Posted 2/6/09 10:29 AM
 

katiebug
I'll love you for always

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Katie

Re: The first cut is the deepest...

I am so sorry Krissy. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/6/09 10:43 AM
 

Aries14
Can't plan life...

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Re: The first cut is the deepest...

Posted by katiebug

I am so sorry Krissy. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



thanks... how are you holding up? Chat Icon

Posted 2/6/09 10:46 AM
 

katiebug
I'll love you for always

Member since 2/08

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Katie

Re: The first cut is the deepest...

Still no AF, still getting a BFN. My temp dropped a little today, so who knows. Maybe she is on her way. Honestly I am at a loss as to what is going on. This is the latest I have ever been in my life!

But if I get AF today or tomorrow, you and I will probably be cycle twins! Chat Icon

Posted 2/6/09 10:48 AM
 

diva7531
My Peanut

Member since 2/07

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Ryan 3 boys EDD 11/6!

Re: The first cut is the deepest...

So sorry! Chat Icon

Posted 2/6/09 11:01 AM
 

CoutureMaMa
nicholas is one!!

Member since 9/07

6081 total posts

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Michelle

Re: The first cut is the deepest...

Chat Icon what a wonderful DH!!! good luck and may you get your BFP soon!!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/6/09 11:23 AM
 

Makin-da-baby
Praying so hard this is it!!!

Member since 4/08

1391 total posts

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Undercover Lover

Re: The first cut is the deepest...

The first month was hard for me too. Things are so much better now and I am much more relaxed Chat Icon

Good luck on month #2!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/6/09 11:48 AM
 

jburke322
LIF Adolescent

Member since 3/08

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Jessica

Re: The first cut is the deepest...

The first month is def the hardest. It is my first month also. But good luck for next monthChat Icon

Posted 2/6/09 12:48 PM
 

MRSBA
LIF Adult

Member since 9/08

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Re: The first cut is the deepest...

Yeah, I remember that whole first month telling myself that I didn't expect it to happen but I really really hoped and my heart said it might. It was very sad.

Good luck to you for next month! Chat Icon

Posted 2/6/09 12:57 PM
 

sweetsmommy
LIF Infant

Member since 7/08

296 total posts

Name:
deb

Re: The first cut is the deepest...

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon good luck next month.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/6/09 1:12 PM
 

Aries14
Can't plan life...

Member since 8/08

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Re: The first cut is the deepest...

Thanks for all the hugs and well wishes...

It's so true that no matter how much you try to talk yourself into not getting upset if it isn't your month or it happening right away - when you POAS there is a glispe of hope that you will see two lines. Then you get a BFN but still something inside says "your not out yet, maybe you will be one of those people who test one day and get a BFP the next". So you have half a hope left... then AF shows. And we start the process all over again, lol Chat Icon

Posted 2/6/09 1:45 PM
 

snowbunny
LIF Infant

Member since 11/08

146 total posts

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Re: The first cut is the deepest...

I think once we get doctors involved in the process we all have a small piece of us that thinks we'll of course this will work I have people now!

Keep your spirits up

Posted 2/6/09 1:59 PM
 

ROMANCEnBABYDANCE
LIF Infant

Member since 11/08

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Re: The first cut is the deepest...

On to next month - at least we know we are cycle buddies! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/6/09 2:29 PM
 

CoutureMaMa
nicholas is one!!

Member since 9/07

6081 total posts

Name:
Michelle

Re: The first cut is the deepest...

Posted by Aries14

Thanks for all the hugs and well wishes...

It's so true that no matter how much you try to talk yourself into not getting upset if it isn't your month or it happening right away - when you POAS there is a glispe of hope that you will see two lines. Then you get a BFN but still something inside says "your not out yet, maybe you will be one of those people who test one day and get a BFP the next". So you have half a hope left... then AF shows. And we start the process all over again, lol Chat Icon



ITA. It is so hard... Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/6/09 2:44 PM
 

PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)

Member since 7/08

19084 total posts

Name:
Jib

Re: The first cut is the deepest...

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon That's a really sweet thing your DH said to you!

Posted 2/6/09 4:31 PM
 
 

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