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When out with friends...

Forum Opinion Poll
Split the check 52 82.54%
See what everyone owes to the penny 3 4.76%
Estimate what I owe based on drinks, food, etc 6 9.52%
Just throw $$ on the table I don't care 2 3.17%
My friends pay 0 0.00%
I always pay 0 0.00%
 

So when your out to dinner with friends...

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Moehick
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So when your out to dinner with friends...

Do you split the check or see what everyone exactly owes?

Posted 10/13/05 8:28 PM
 

Janice
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Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

I think the check should be split, but there always seems to be a stick in the mud who counts drinks.

Posted 10/13/05 8:29 PM
 

Redhead
You Live, You Learn

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Jennifer

Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

Usually just split the check

but more lately..one person pays one time and the other pays the next

Posted 10/13/05 8:30 PM
 

missus-hbradio
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Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

Posted by Janice

I think the check should be split, but there always seems to be a stick in the mud who counts drinks.



Ive had the same experiences.

Posted 10/13/05 8:30 PM
 

FireIslandLove

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Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

Split the check.

Posted 10/13/05 8:30 PM
 

mommy2Alex
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Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

Posted by Janice

I think the check should be split, but there always seems to be a stick in the mud who counts drinks.



I agree, I really don't like to go out with people who say well I had this and you had that. The check should be split. When I was preggo and not drinking I never said, well I didn't have any wine.

Posted 10/13/05 8:31 PM
 

Janice
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Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

Posted by missus-hbradio

Posted by Janice

I think the check should be split, but there always seems to be a stick in the mud who counts drinks.



Ive had the same experiences.



I hate that, nothing ruins a great night then ending it with counting the absolute and crans and calling someone out.Chat Icon

Posted 10/13/05 8:31 PM
 

Janice
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Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

Posted by mommy2Alex

Posted by Janice

I think the check should be split, but there always seems to be a stick in the mud who counts drinks.



I agree, I really don't like to go out with people who say well I had this and you had that. The check should be split. When I was preggo and not drinking I never said, well I didn't have any wine.



If I am the driver, I never say hey wait a minute. I am usually glad to have drinking company, it means we probably had a great time

Posted 10/13/05 8:32 PM
 

Moehick
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Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

I also always just split the check no matter who has what

Posted 10/13/05 8:43 PM
 

Bri
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Brianne

Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

We like to split, while some people we are friends with like to go down to the penny. Normally when we split we get Sc***ed because they order apps. and drinks and we ended paying a lot more than we "should"

Posted 10/13/05 8:48 PM
 

MrsProfessor
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Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

Usually split- I always look at it like paying for the experience, not the food, plus most of my friends and I are not huge drinkers. I did get aggravated, though, when we'd give cash to one friend, who'd then put the whole thing on Discover for the cash back. Of course it wasn't much, it was just the principle.

Posted 10/13/05 8:48 PM
 

Kate
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Kate

Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

We split the check, but if I've had some drinks and my friends were not drinking, I offer to pay more. They usually refuse, so I try to put more in for the tip.

Posted 10/13/05 8:49 PM
 

AJsMommy122
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Maxine

Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

Usually split but sometimes we pay for everything and the next time they pay, etc.

Posted 10/13/05 8:50 PM
 

Shelly
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Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

If everyone had a meal- we usually split it. If not- then we estimate.

Posted 10/13/05 8:56 PM
 

LBG30
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Noelle

Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

My friends and I always split the bill. I think its a little strange to tally up to what each person ate.

Posted 10/13/05 8:57 PM
 

neenie

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Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

Split. But DH and i will usually throw in more because we'll have a few drinks, and the others don't.

Posted 10/13/05 9:00 PM
 

Tanaholic
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Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

We always just split the bill, never would even think to do it any other way!

Posted 10/13/05 9:02 PM
 

Mrs-Boop
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Jaime

Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

OMG, funny story.... DH and I and about 8 of our friends went out to dinner, well, two of them, boyfriend and girlfriend, ordered water, to save money..ok, whatever. Come to the check...they looked over the check and everyone decided to split it ...except them. They offered up $12 for both of them and that was it no tip. The whole bill, for 10 people was only $167. Now, they sat there and itemized what they got, which actually came to more than $12, but no one wanted to make a scene in the restaurant. Needless to say, nobody has ever gone out to dinner with them.

Oh, wait..DH and I gave them a second chance. We went to Fridays with them and they whipped out coupons. We were sooo embarrassed. And they were still shocked and complaining when the bill for 4 people was $40.

Ok, now we have never gone out with them again!!

Posted 10/13/05 9:03 PM
 

saraH
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Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

Posted by neeniebean86

Split. But DH and i will usually throw in more because we'll have a few drinks, and the others don't.



same here.....

Posted 10/13/05 9:07 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

usually just split it.

Posted 10/13/05 9:39 PM
 

Christine
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Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

We split...there is nothing more uncomfortable for me then to have people adding up what they had and how much it costs.

I figure in the end it will all balance out...I might have an extra drink one night and someone will get dessert another time...it doesn't matter to me.

Posted 10/13/05 9:45 PM
 

dm24angel
Happiness

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Donna

Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

We just split it, sometimes if one of us knows we had say 3 drinks and one person had water, we pay more for our drinks...Normally when I go out with the girls we order all the same thing anyway...LOL

Posted 10/13/05 9:52 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

We split the check but if DH drank more we insist on throwing in extra $. We would never expect anyone else to chip in more than the split.

Posted 10/13/05 9:56 PM
 

Jennifer
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Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

Divide it up so it is equal. Unless there is someone who just orders like an appetizer and not a huge dinner.

Posted 10/13/05 10:01 PM
 

Jenziba
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Jennifer

Re: So when your out to dinner with friends...

Split the check.

Posted 10/13/05 10:19 PM
 
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