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Re: Really Depressed
Posted by MrsDrMatt
Posted by JennyPenny
I know you probably don't want to hear this- but maybe you should put off TTC for a couple of months.
Being stressed out will not be beneficial in getting your BFP. Perhaps you should have your job and living situations figured out before you continue TTC.
Of course it's a personal decision- you just seem ready to fall apart and that isn't healthy for you OR a potential baby.
This will sound harsh but I feel I must say it....
I agree 1000% with the quote above! You deserve to be as stress free as possible before brining a child into this world. Not knowing about jobs and living situations is a lot for you to handle. However, these two items are ESSENTIAL to raising a child.
Please note that sometimes we can't always immediately get what we want in life. Sometimes we have to put things off.
Good Luck whatever you decide. Your desire to be a mother is quiet evident! I hope your dreams come true and your stress level reduces, you deserve that as a person and as a future Mommy!
No, I appreciate the honesty. But the rheumy feels in my unique case, pregnancy might be a very positive thing. I am definitely understanding where you both are coming from. We do have the house and I just got two recruiters respond to me!
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Re: Really Depressed
Posted by munchkinfacemama
Posted by MrsDrMatt
Posted by JennyPenny
I know you probably don't want to hear this- but maybe you should put off TTC for a couple of months.
Being stressed out will not be beneficial in getting your BFP. Perhaps you should have your job and living situations figured out before you continue TTC.
Of course it's a personal decision- you just seem ready to fall apart and that isn't healthy for you OR a potential baby.
This will sound harsh but I feel I must say it....
I agree 1000% with the quote above! You deserve to be as stress free as possible before brining a child into this world. Not knowing about jobs and living situations is a lot for you to handle. However, these two items are ESSENTIAL to raising a child.
Please note that sometimes we can't always immediately get what we want in life. Sometimes we have to put things off.
Good Luck whatever you decide. Your desire to be a mother is quiet evident! I hope your dreams come true and your stress level reduces, you deserve that as a person and as a future Mommy!
No, I appreciate the honesty. But the rheumy feels in my unique case, pregnancy might be a very positive thing. I am definitely understanding where you both are coming from. We do have the house and I just got two recruiters respond to me!
Only a woman can understand the burning desire to become a mom. Again, good luck to you!
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Re: Really Depressed
I sent you FM! 
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Re: Really Depressed
Michelle,
So sorry for all your worries and troubles - I too have night where I lay awake with my head spinning from life...
It will get better!!!
Sending you TONS OF BABY DUST!!!
And LOTS AND LOTS OF HUGS!!!!
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oh Michelle im so sorry you're feeling so down!
lots of prayers for you!
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| Posted 1/29/09 5:40 PM |
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i'm so sorry you are having a hard time right now...I can tell you are a really strong person, but given what you are up against it's no wonder you are feeling down. Just try and keep your head up, times are rough for a lot of people right now, just know that better days are ahead! It sounds like you have a great DH so try and keep positive in knowing you have that relationship...near or far, he is there....and we are always here if you need to talk!
praying things get better for you!!
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Mich, u know I love you and althought I havent been around lately because of all the trauma going on in my family, always know I am here for you and prqaying for you. I know how hard this process is, much less with everything else you have been going through with your RA and living situation, etc... I am praying for u and I am here for u. xoxoxoxo
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Re: Really Depressed
Posted by CoutureMaMa
Mich, u know I love you and althought I havent been around lately because of all the trauma going on in my family, always know I am here for you and prqaying for you. I know how hard this process is, much less with everything else you have been going through with your RA and living situation, etc... I am praying for u and I am here for u. xoxoxoxo
Thank you sweetie-I am praying for you too!
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Re: Really Depressed
Posted by JennyPenny
I know you probably don't want to hear this- but maybe you should put off TTC for a couple of months.
Being stressed out will not be beneficial in getting your BFP. Perhaps you should have your job and living situations figured out before you continue TTC.
Of course it's a personal decision- you just seem ready to fall apart and that isn't healthy for you OR a potential baby.
I agree. Not forever, just a break for maybe 1 or 2 months. I know that probably sounds like forever, but it's really not. Give you time to figure out the housing/job situation.
You have soo many things on your plate, maybe if you take 1 off you will feel a little better. I just hate to think of you so sad over there.
I know a BFP would be great, but also think that if DH is in florida, you will be going to dr appts & sonograms by yourself. You will be going it alone for an unknown amount of time.
I wish you the best. hope you are feeling better today.
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Re: Really Depressed
Posted by sleepie76
Posted by JennyPenny
I know you probably don't want to hear this- but maybe you should put off TTC for a couple of months.
Being stressed out will not be beneficial in getting your BFP. Perhaps you should have your job and living situations figured out before you continue TTC.
Of course it's a personal decision- you just seem ready to fall apart and that isn't healthy for you OR a potential baby.
I agree. Not forever, just a break for maybe 1 or 2 months. I know that probably sounds like forever, but it's really not. Give you time to figure out the housing/job situation.
You have soo many things on your plate, maybe if you take 1 off you will feel a little better. I just hate to think of you so sad over there.
I know a BFP would be great, but also think that if DH is in florida, you will be going to dr appts & sonograms by yourself. You will be going it alone for an unknown amount of time.
I wish you the best. hope you are feeling better today.
Thanks-feeling much better! My doctor is going to sign me out on disability, which should make a HUGE difference in my life!
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