QOTD 9.15.10

Besides our pact on the TTC board does anybody know how badly you want to concieve? This includes DH and does anybody know you chat on the boards?

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I think just DH knows and i've expressed it to SIL as well. I don't think any of my friends know about LIF...

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NO noone but you guys, my LIW girls and Shaun know how badly i want to have a baby...

one of my sisters, my mom and my bf know that i am ttc but they dont know how badly i want it lol

ETA: when every i talk about LIW i call it the wedding website... lol

one of my friends posted on LIF when her sister was ttc i dont think she posts here anymore... she is the only one that knows what LIW & LIF are about!

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a few girls that on on this board know who I am, and a few friends outside of LIW/LIF know....grrrr i hate the struggle

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No one knows about LIF...thats all I need

Everyone knows I want to have kids but I think I've played it up pretty well that we are not even thinking about trying right now

DH is very well aware how badly I wanna TTC. He is strong on waiting till after the New Year so I am willing to compromise. Even though I am ready NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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My mom knows that I'm off BC and that we have the attitude "if it happens, it happens" what she doesnt know is that we are going to try full on in November.

I mentioned it to my BFF b/c she's been asking. Other then that no one else really knows.

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noooone!! DH knows I would like to have a baby but that's it. I don't want the pressure from family. DH and I are the youngest on both sides so we're kinda "it" so they are pushing a lot. The last thing I need is for them to know we are TTC!

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my DH knows of course

my Mom sort of knows. she knows that we are thinking about trying soon and that i am coming off the pill. she gave me some good advice. she told me to just wing it in the beginning b/c it's not stressful that way and hopefully it will happen easily for us - she said that is how it happened for her. she said not to get crazy with the trying unless we have to...she also said it's best not to tell everyone that we are trying - which i agree with it - which is why i am here instead

my in-laws and SIL know that having a baby is something that we are thinking about. as far as us actually trying i'm not sure what they think we are doing but we did hint to my in-laws that we were thinking about trying soon last time they were here (b/c we want them to get a condo or know they have to rent a hotel when we have baby we are out of state and we don't want them "living with us" when the time comes so we are trying to prepare them for that in advance )...

my best friend knows that i am coming off the pill and that we are hoping something happens this year...

but other than that, i am keeping it to myself...

also only my DH and I know how badly we want it. even though my Mom and best friend know i don't think they realize the obsession LMAO

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Only a couple of friends, DH of course & you guys. Noone in my family knows. I dont want to have to deal with the extra pressure.

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well my DH and 1 good friend know how badly i want it. another couple knows we are trying but not to the extent we are. other than that it should be a shock to everyone when we announce it!

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I don't think anybody else besides you ladies and my friends who are on the boards know how badly I want it b/c you're the only ladies I can be my crazy obsessive TTCer to.

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Definitely not! When my mom and sister asked I gave them a very vague timeline. Other than that I just brush off the constant questions and comments.

As far as DH, I think he has a pretty good idea how bad I want this even though I try not to show it! I was surprised by how disappointed he was about the bfn's the past two months. I think if this drags on much longer hiding my feelings will be a lost cause.

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DH and my parents know. Surprisingly my coworker also knows, she recomended her daughter's RE, who I absolutley love. Some people know we are trying but do not know we are in dr's care.

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My friends know how much I want a child, not sure if they know how obsessed I am though. DH knows, in fact he thinks LIF is just about babies

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Well of course DH knows, he shares my want and need. And everyone else pretty much knows too. At first we tried to keep it between the two of us but with all the docotrs appointments with the IVF it was pretty hard. And yeah most people know I'm on LIF.

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My DH knows but doesnt want to discuss it too much b/c he doesnt want to jinx anything. My friends dont know! I discuss TTC with my mom too.

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We are not ttc until Dec/Jan

We have told everyone, and their mother

Whatever.....

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anybody who knows me know that a baby is really all i want....but as far a ttc, DH, and my best friend really are the only ones who know we are trying (a few girls on here too)

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Well, considering I was pregnant and lost the baby at 17.5wks, EVERYONE knows we are trying to have a baby again!! I also go through fertility treatments to get pregnant.

As far as chatting on the boards, I don't think people know.. Some people do- just don't know what site, etc

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Aside from DH...no one really. I mean, my mom and SIL are aware that I want a baby but they dont know how badly and that I am planning on TTC

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aside from DH I talk about it with one friend and have mentioned things loosely to 2 other friends.

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nope. i have mentioned to a few friends that we have stopped trying to prevent from getting preggers but i dont talk about actively trying.

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My mom ,and now my aunt b/c my mother told her so now I am waiting for the rest of the family to call