*~*~*QOTD 9/1*~*~*

Let's talk about sex....... Not that kind of sex, sex of the baby!!!!!

Do you want find out before or do you want to be surprised???

I would definitely want to be surprised the first time around. I know it's so much easier when you know, but I love the idea of not knowing for the first child. I'm sure after the first one I'll want to know in the future though.

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I am way too neurotic to NOT find out the gender. I'm not a fan of surprises nor do I like to feel unprepared!

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We want to be surprised. But, I see this as something that will be harder for me to stick to, than DH.

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I'm an extremely impatient person, so it will kill me not to know. I'll find out, for sure. Plus, i'm not a fan of getting "netural" color things. I want to know if I should buy for a boy or girl, and I want to know how to do his/her room!

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I always said I wanted to be surprised.... DH on the other hand- total opposite (typical for our relationship lol)... But Ive recently changed my mind... I want to be able to set up and decorate a nursery geared towards a boy or girl... So I will def be finding out ASAP

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I found out witnumber 1, but may want to be surprised this time- though I doubt I'll be able to hold out!

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Posted by NextStopBabytown

I am way too neurotic to NOT find out the gender. I'm not a fan of surprises nor do I like to feel unprepared!

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ive always been pro finding out the sex

but friggin bearcat did a really good job not to long ago making me want to be team

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we definitely want to be surprised. I feel that there aren't many true surprises in life, and this is probably the greatest surprise you could ever have. Plus, I want my family to have the "it's a....." experience in the waiting room.

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def want to know the first time around --- maybe #2 can be a surprise.

I really hate surprises so don't know if I would be able to not find out.

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We still haven't decided yet but I think we're leaning towards a surprise.

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I always wanted to know but DH requested that we not find out. Since he has such limited interaction w/the baby b/f he/she is born, i figured I could compromise. Another other DC we are blessed w/, he will have to suck it up.

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I DON'T want to know-DH does. I figured IF he REALLY wants to find out and he can promise to keep it in i'd let him find out; but not tell me. Not sure how likely this is; i'd rather he didn't find out but we'll see when the time comes!

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We are gonna find out... we both joke that there are only 2 possibilities so it not really a "surprise" if we wait! Funny thing is we are still doing a neutral nursery cause godwilling, the same nursey will be used for other children

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We are going to try our best to stay team

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Posted by NextStopBabytown

I am way too neurotic to NOT find out the gender. I'm not a fan of surprises nor do I like to feel unprepared!

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I don't know yet

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Finding out ASAP

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Definitely surprised!

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we both want to find out

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I would go nuts if I didnt know! With #1 we both def. want to know but then on after it can be a surprise

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DH and I always said we wanted to be surprised. However, DH has recently changed his mind. He wants to find out and I don't!! I want him to come out of the delivery room with a goofy grin on his face and say " it's a..."
Also, I don't like when people start referring to my belly by his/her name. I'm such a blabber mouth, I would blab the sex and name! I can't keep a secret

I think I also want to be because I have my heart set on a Winnie the Pooh nursery.

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I always thought I wanted it to be a surprise til my sister got pregnant with my nieces. She found out the sex and from then on, they became real people to us with a name, a theme, etc. I def want to find out.

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Definitely will want to find out....I think 4 months is too long to wait

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Finding out definitely. I can't not know! But if we were to have more than one, I would try to make #2 a