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jgl
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g

people are unreal

we live on a corner. The prev owner only put up a 4 foot picket fence on the sde/back of the house. off our side door is our yard and patio. We have not really been able to enjoy the space because we we have no privacy (we live across the street from a church so everyone going to mass stops to talk to us if we are gardening or something or walk past and stares into our yard). We also deal with people walking across our lawn.

So we finally decided to get a fence. The men come today and put up one section of 6 foot pvc fence. Right after the one section went up this old woman walks across our lawn up to DH who is standing outside and this is what goes down:

Old Lady: Is this fence staying? (no we are putting it up just for today)
DH: yes, and infact it is going down this way and into the back
Old Lady: Well then I cant see into your yard
DH: that is the point we have a 2 week old baby and my wife would like to be able to be outside with him without everyone looking in
Old Lady: well all that fence is going to restrict the air flow
DH: sorry to hear that
Old Lady: does the town allow this?
DH: yes it is


This was seriously the conversation.. ristrict airflow? is she kidding. BTW i have no idea who this lady is Im 99% sure she does not live on our block I think she is just a perishoner of the church.

people have nerve... Im sorry but we are entited to our privacy. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 6/12/2010 4:52:27 PM.

Posted 6/12/10 4:42 PM
 
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Re: people are unreal

its none of her business, but most towns do have restrictions about fence height on corner lots.

I know we can't put up more than a 4ft fence.

Posted 6/12/10 4:47 PM
 

jgl
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g

Re: people are unreal

Posted by -Lisa-

its none of her business, but most towns do have restrictions about fence height on corner lots.

I know we can't put up more than a 4ft fence.



yeah the 6ft is allowed, it was the fact that she was mad she couldnt see into our yard anymore. Chat Icon

Posted 6/12/10 4:52 PM
 

kris01
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Kris

Re: people are unreal

people are crazy!!!
Enjoy your new fence and your privacy!!

Posted 6/12/10 5:59 PM
 

Mrs213
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Re: people are unreal

sounds like a nutjob!!

Posted 6/12/10 6:17 PM
 

kgirl
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K

Re: people are unreal

You definitely needed to put the fence up!! What a looney tooney! Enjoy the privacy!

Posted 6/12/10 6:44 PM
 

julz33
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Re: people are unreal

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You should plant those tall arborvitaes too so the nosy people won't have a chance seeing over the fence

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Posted 6/12/10 7:28 PM
 

CAMCaps
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Re: people are unreal

People are ridiculous.

We are a corner lot as well and do not have a fence. Luckily, we have HUGE bushes which make it very difficult for people to see into our yard. The people across from us have no barrier, but I do not think they hang out in their backyard very often.

Posted 6/12/10 7:37 PM
 

browneyedgirl
family is all that matters

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browneyes

Re: people are unreal

they should put a 6ft fence around herChat Icon

i would love to get those big arborvitaes but there's no room for me to put them. i HATE that people can see into parts of my yard

Posted 6/12/10 8:26 PM
 

jen919ifer
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Jennifer

Re: people are unreal

Posted by julz33

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You should plant those tall arborvitaes too so the nosy people won't have a chance seeing over the fence

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We are actually getting these very soon because our neighbor has a deck that overlooks our fence and whenever we are in the backyard he thinks it's ok to have a 45 min convo instead of a hi & bye. When I am in my backyard I don't want to speak with my neighbors, that's why it's a backyard, and I certainly don't want them knowing what I am doing back there every time i'm back there.

Posted 6/13/10 9:04 AM
 

Bearcat
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Re: people are unreal

restrict airflow?! sounds like she has restricted airflow to her brain!!!!!

Posted 6/13/10 9:08 AM
 

Erica
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Re: people are unreal

I lived on a corner, near a church growing up. This happened to my parents when they first moved in. they are only allowed to have the 6 ft fence behind the house line, but they put a big (well now it's big) crab apple tree in the front corner with bushes and a flower bed around it. They said it stopped people.

Posted 6/13/10 9:19 AM
 

Goldi0218
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Re: people are unreal

I would have kicked her. Old lady or not. That's balls.

Posted 6/13/10 9:56 AM
 

LINewbie
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LB

Re: people are unreal

Wow..you guys must have a friendly "look" about you with all these people stopping to chat! Chat Icon

Build that fence high!! I hope it works!!

Posted 6/15/10 10:29 PM
 

SusiBee
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Re: people are unreal

Posted by Goldi0218

I would have kicked her. Old lady or not. That's balls.



Just the fact that she walked across the lawn would have me pizzed.

Posted 6/16/10 8:59 AM
 

Nifheim
allo

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Re: people are unreal

I know EXACTLY how you feel. All around us everything has these little 4ft fences and everyone can see everything. I don't understand why the hell you want to see us BBQ'ing and drinking beers or me gardening.

Posted 6/16/10 9:10 AM
 

Rachie
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Rachel

Re: people are unreal

Unreal people are -
we had the same issue with our neighbor right before we put the PVC fence in..

Posted 6/16/10 9:45 AM
 

Katareen
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Re: people are unreal

"Old Lady: Well then I cant see into your yard"

Is she kidding?????? Your DH was at least polite...mine would have said THAT'S THE IDEA!!!!!!! and walked away.

Posted 6/16/10 9:46 AM
 

Cpt2007
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Re: people are unreal

Chat Icon seriously?! how rude!!

Posted 6/16/10 9:56 AM
 

jam11308

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Re: people are unreal

Wow - that's some nerve! My jaw would have hit the floor Chat Icon

Posted 6/16/10 10:00 AM
 

CrankyPants
I'm cranky

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Mama Cranky

Re: people are unreal

Wow-that is crazy that she would think this would be any of her business. Or, that you should concern yourself with her ability to see into your yardChat Icon Chat Icon

On a side note, down here in NC, my whole neighborhood has split rail fencing-everyone can see everything. Took some getting used to, but I still plan to plant some privacy bushes-it's just too open.

Posted 6/16/10 11:22 AM
 

greenfreak
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greenfreak

Re: people are unreal

You should have said, "We're putting it up for people just like you." Chat Icon

Posted 6/16/10 11:49 AM
 

Nik211
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Re: people are unreal

WHAT?!?!?!??!

i can't take people!!!

Posted 6/16/10 12:47 PM
 

Pray4Baby2010
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MB

Re: people are unreal

I would say I am shocked but I could totally picture my grandma saying something like that to someone- old ladies think that age gives them license to say whatever thehell they want!

Posted 6/16/10 1:22 PM
 

dottiemchugh
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Re: people are unreal

She actually said she can't see into your yard????? what the efff is wrong with people???Chat Icon

Posted 6/16/10 1:54 PM
 
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