| Posted By |
Message |
| Pages: [1] 2 3 |
popabubble
I need a clone
Member since 12/09 1143 total posts
Name:
Dianne
|
Overreacting or not?
Message edited 11/5/2016 3:01:40 PM.
|
Posted 11/4/16 8:48 AM  |
| |
|
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource |
NervousNell
Just another chapter in life..
Member since 11/09 54921 total posts
Name:
..being a mommy and being a wife!
|
Re: Overreacting or not?
It wouldn't bother me.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 8:49 AM |
| |
|
|
|
Re: Overreacting or not?
Did she know it was something that you wanted to share with them when they were older?
If not, you can't really get mad at her. It's fine to be upset about it, but I don't think anyone would think that it's something someone would be saving to share unless they were specifically told so.
If MIL knew this was something important to you, then of course that's pretty messed up.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 8:53 AM |
| |
|
StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!
Member since 6/10 21539 total posts
Name:
Stacey
|
Re: Overreacting or not?
Oh man, I'd be so disappointed. We just watched our wedding video last weekend with our 4 year old.
Sorry 
|
| Posted 11/4/16 8:54 AM |
| |
|
popabubble
I need a clone
Member since 12/09 1143 total posts
Name:
Dianne
|
Re: Overreacting or not?
Posted by LiveForMoments
Did she know it was something that you wanted to share with them when they were older?
If not, you can't really get mad at her. It's fine to be upset about it, but I don't think anyone would think that it's something someone would be saving to share unless they were specifically told so.
If MIL knew this was something important to you, then of course that's pretty messed up.
I've never specifically told her this. Just thought it was something that everyone would want to share with their children.. maybe it's not as common sense as I thought and I'm overreacting.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 8:56 AM |
| |
|
BabyBMakes3
LIF Adolescent
Member since 4/13 711 total posts
Name:
Laura
|
Re: Overreacting or not?
Posted by NervousNell
It wouldn't bother me.
This.
I'm sorry. 
|
| Posted 11/4/16 8:56 AM |
| |
|
NervousNell
Just another chapter in life..
Member since 11/09 54921 total posts
Name:
..being a mommy and being a wife!
|
Re: Overreacting or not?
Posted by popabubble
Posted by LiveForMoments
Did she know it was something that you wanted to share with them when they were older?
If not, you can't really get mad at her. It's fine to be upset about it, but I don't think anyone would think that it's something someone would be saving to share unless they were specifically told so.
If MIL knew this was something important to you, then of course that's pretty messed up.
I've never specifically told her this. Just thought it was something that everyone would want to share with their children.. maybe it's not as common sense as I thought and I'm overreacting.
To be honest, I never even thought of showing my wedding video to my DD. I don't think much about it ever.
If my mom showed it to her, I'd be like- oh that's cool I didn't even think of it!
|
| Posted 11/4/16 8:59 AM |
| |
|
PitterPatter11
Baby Boy is Here!
Member since 5/11 7634 total posts
Name:
Momma <3
|
Overreacting or not?
It wouldn't bother me either.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 9:01 AM |
| |
|
JDandMe
LIF Adult
Member since 9/10 996 total posts
Name:
|
Overreacting or not?
It wouldn't bother me.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 9:06 AM |
| |
|
LSP2005
Bunny kisses are so cute!
Member since 5/05 19461 total posts
Name:
L
|
Re: Overreacting or not?
It would not bother me. I've never even thought about showing it to them. They have seen the photo album with me.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 9:06 AM |
| |
|
JP826
=)
Member since 9/06 10903 total posts
Name:
Me!! All about ME!
|
Re: Overreacting or not?
It wouldn't bother me at all.
We have a huge wedding picture of us in our dining room and my 5 year old daughter always tells me that I looked like princess. My heart melts.
Message edited 11/4/2016 9:09:09 AM.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 9:07 AM |
| |
|
Hofstra26
Love to Bake!
Member since 7/06 27915 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Overreacting or not?
Posted by popabubble
Posted by LiveForMoments
Did she know it was something that you wanted to share with them when they were older?
If not, you can't really get mad at her. It's fine to be upset about it, but I don't think anyone would think that it's something someone would be saving to share unless they were specifically told so.
If MIL knew this was something important to you, then of course that's pretty messed up.
I've never specifically told her this. Just thought it was something that everyone would want to share with their children.. maybe it's not as common sense as I thought and I'm overreacting.
I understand why it's important to you however, if she didn't know that was something you were saving then you can't really fault her.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 9:09 AM |
| |
|
oneday
<3
Member since 5/05 4319 total posts
Name:
Pam
|
Re: Overreacting or not?
It probably would disappoint me - we did show our video to our son when he was around 4 I think- but I wouldn't be mad. I would think your MIL just never thought that it would be a big deal to you.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 9:13 AM |
| |
|
MyBabyG
LIF Adolescent
Member since 1/15 793 total posts
Name:
|
Overreacting or not?
Wouldn't bother me.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 9:13 AM |
| |
|
MsSissy
xoxoxo
Member since 3/07 39159 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Overreacting or not?
Posted by popabubble
Posted by LiveForMoments
Did she know it was something that you wanted to share with them when they were older?
If not, you can't really get mad at her. It's fine to be upset about it, but I don't think anyone would think that it's something someone would be saving to share unless they were specifically told so.
If MIL knew this was something important to you, then of course that's pretty messed up.
I've never specifically told her this. Just thought it was something that everyone would want to share with their children.. maybe it's not as common sense as I thought and I'm overreacting.
Maybe she thought you did already?
I'd be disappointed that but I couldn't be mad at her since she didn't know.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 9:15 AM |
| |
|
BriBri2u
L'amore vince sempre
Member since 5/05 9320 total posts
Name:
Mrs. B
|
Re: Overreacting or not?
It would not bother me.
There are pictures from our wedding day in our home, my mothers and my mother in laws. Plus, we showed DS some of it and he was bored after 5 minutes and wanted to watch Despicable Me.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 9:19 AM |
| |
|
LInMI
LIF Adult
Member since 7/10 1803 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Overreacting or not?
Did you tell your MIL not to show the video? Otherwise, I wouldn't be upset.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 9:20 AM |
| |
|
popabubble
I need a clone
Member since 12/09 1143 total posts
Name:
Dianne
|
Overreacting or not?
Thanks guys! I appreciate all of your input! I already told her I'm upset which I never do. I usually just let it fester or annoy DH with it. But, I guess I'll just try to let it go...I guess because it means so much to me, I just figured that it did to everyone and therefore would have been obvious to her.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 9:22 AM |
| |
|
racheK
Hudson's Momma
Member since 10/10 2853 total posts
Name:
Rachel
|
Overreacting or not?
I'd be disappointed. I'm looking forward to the day I can show my son our wedding video (he probably won't care) but I would definitely be sad if people watched it without me there.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 9:31 AM |
| |
|
Momma2015
Mommax2
Member since 12/12 6656 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Overreacting or not?
It wouldn't bother me.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 9:32 AM |
| |
|
DiamondGirl
You are my I love you
Member since 7/09 18802 total posts
Name:
DiamondMama
|
Overreacting or not?
Do you have issues w your in laws? in my experience when I dislike someone EVERYTHING they do bothers me lol
this wouldn't bother me
|
| Posted 11/4/16 9:47 AM |
| |
|
popabubble
I need a clone
Member since 12/09 1143 total posts
Name:
Dianne
|
Re: Overreacting or not?
Posted by DiamondGirl
Do you have issues w your in laws? in my experience when I dislike someone EVERYTHING they do bothers me lol
this wouldn't bother me
Hahaha... true.
But this would actually piss me off even if my mom did it.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 9:48 AM |
| |
|
OhMaybeBaby
LIF Infant
Member since 1/13 337 total posts
Name:
J
|
Re: Overreacting or not?
Posted by DiamondGirl
Do you have issues w your in laws? in my experience when I dislike someone EVERYTHING they do bothers me lol
this wouldn't bother me
ITA
|
| Posted 11/4/16 10:01 AM |
| |
|
alli3131
Peanut is here!!!!!!
Member since 5/09 18388 total posts
Name:
Allison
|
Overreacting or not?
wouldn't bother me but then again I am not even sure where my video is and never watched it myself.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 10:13 AM |
| |
|
drpepper318
MIR MIR MIR!
Member since 6/07 8274 total posts
Name:
me
|
Re: Overreacting or not?
I wouldn't be happy about it but also hard to get too mad if they didn't know you were saving it to show another time.
|
| Posted 11/4/16 10:34 AM |
| |
|
| Pages: [1] 2 3 |
