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Do you think OPKs add stress to TTC ?

Forum Opinion Poll
Yes 18 52.94%
No 16 47.06%
 

OPK opinions & poll

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sleepie76
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OPK opinions & poll

I'm looking for everyone's opinions here if you don't mind Chat Icon

I've gotten pregnant twice just by doing the deed.

This month I think I'm out. I'm debating using OPK's next month, but dont want to stress myself out over TTC.


Anyway... do you think they add more stress ? or make it less stressful ?


TIA!

Posted 11/12/08 8:24 AM
 

pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe

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Stephanie

Re: OPK opinions & poll

for me, they absolutely add more stress Chat Icon

Posted 11/12/08 8:25 AM
 

chelle
It's a Good Life

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Isn't it obvious?

Re: OPK opinions & poll

I wouldn't say "stress" for me, but there's more pressure because you *know* when you're about to O and you are frantic trying BD at the right time...how many times....is the test right?....was that really a surge?...did you miss your window?

Ok....maybe a little stress Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

But it does kind of take the guessing out of when you are going to O, so you do have a better chance of getting pg, IMO.

But i've gotten PG both ways (opk, no opk) so it's hard to say.

Posted 11/12/08 8:28 AM
 

sleepie76
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Re: OPK opinions & poll

Posted by chelle

I wouldn't say "stress" for me, but there's more pressure because you *know* when you're about to O and you are frantic trying BD at the right time...how many times....is the test right?....was that really a surge?...did you miss your window?

Ok....maybe a little stress Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon




I got stressed just reading that. Chat Icon

That's what I'm afraid of. Stressing out the entire first half of the month waiting to see the O.

thank you for your reply!

Posted 11/12/08 8:35 AM
 

Jenhos
Maeve

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Re: OPK opinions & poll

I don't. If anything it makes me feel more in control.

Now waiting for the Chat Icon is stressful!!

Posted 11/12/08 8:48 AM
 

Linda1003
love my 2 boys

Member since 8/08

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Linda

Re: OPK opinions & poll

Posted by Jenhos

I don't. If anything it makes me feel more in control.

Now waiting for the Chat Icon is stressful!!



ITA.. If you are a control freak...like me,,it's less stress b/c Im in control of what and when we bd and I know for sure when I o...so control freaks...we like the OPK!!!Chat Icon

Posted 11/12/08 8:57 AM
 

shiv
Twinsanity!!

Member since 5/07

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Shiv

Re: OPK opinions & poll

Stressful for me! It means constantly testing every day for me. My cycles are very long, so I go through 40 internet tests before ovulation is detected! It's stressful and frustrating but the only way for me to know when i'm going to ovulate.
If i had a normal cycle and only had to use 10 tests, it would not be as bad.

Posted 11/12/08 9:45 AM
 

MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor

Member since 12/07

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Deanna

Re: OPK opinions & poll

not at all!!

i think its more stress free actually...

because you know after getting the positive and BDing the days that you are supposed to when you get the +... you know you did everything RIGHT!!
so in the 2WW, you dont have to "think " of when you mght have O'ed

Posted 11/12/08 1:49 PM
 

beachgirl
LIF Adult

Member since 7/05

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sara

Re: OPK opinions & poll

I think its better to use them as at least you know - for me I WANT and NEED to get pregnant ASAP as my dd is getting older as am IChat Icon . I didnt want to just cruise along and hope for the best as I know now how many factors are involved in getting pregnant.

Posted 11/12/08 2:04 PM
 

MRSBA
LIF Adult

Member since 9/08

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Re: OPK opinions & poll

In an ideal world - I would be patient and just see if things happen but in reality I like to plan, I like to understand how things work and so therefore I think OPK's help me. It gives me a sense of being able to help things if I BD at the right times....It still is taking me a while but I feel like I'm doing all I can.

Posted 11/12/08 2:20 PM
 

LiveAgain
Listen close....

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Re: OPK opinions & poll

I don't think that they add to the stress. It was stressful for me because my cycles are all over the place,I bought the cheap OPK's and I was nervous if I was reading it right.

Posted 11/12/08 6:00 PM
 

smdl
I love Gary too..on a plate!

Member since 5/06

32461 total posts

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me

Re: OPK opinions & poll

yes, it's a bit stressful to plan your TTC. BUT I would have no way of really knowing when I O so I would be even more frustrated without them.

Posted 11/12/08 6:13 PM
 

Diana1215
Living on a prayer!!!

Member since 10/05

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Diana

Re: OPK opinions & poll

TTC in general is stressful.

OPKs give me more control over something I really have no control over otherwise! I would have no clue when I O'd -- and would basically miss the mark every time.

Message edited 11/12/2008 6:43:16 PM.

Posted 11/12/08 6:42 PM
 

shelby34
Love being a twin mommy!

Member since 5/07

2934 total posts

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Michele

Re: OPK opinions & poll

I think they do add more stress for me because I am so focused on when I am O'ing and when we need to BD.
BUT, if I didn't have them, I would also be stressed with not knowing. It's a catch 22!

Posted 11/12/08 10:29 PM
 

stickydust
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Member since 4/06

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Re: OPK opinions & poll

Yup, I am a control freak in general so the OPKs give me a sense of control which makes me feel proactive and more at ease.

Posted 11/12/08 11:47 PM
 

jlrj1219
LIF Adolescent

Member since 3/08

702 total posts

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JLRJ1219

Re: OPK opinions & poll

I always feel let down when I don't get a smiley face. I try and try but it's like testing for PG! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/13/08 8:23 AM
 
 

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