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ssbride05
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Name: Jennifer
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need some hugs..
I posted last week about how my DH and I have decided to move to CT... well, my family isn;t really supporting us in this move, his family sort of, but I am feeling so alone right now...
TIA
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Posted 4/9/06 9:21 AM |
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MommyofG
just the girls

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Name: Janice
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Re: need some hugs..
This is really hard but in the end you have to know this is the right move for you and your DH and the family you will have together. And CT is not that far either to visit. good luck
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Posted 4/9/06 9:23 AM |
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Redhead
You Live, You Learn

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Name: Jennifer
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Re: need some hugs..
Posted by ssbride05
I posted last week about how my DH and I have decided to move to CT... well, my family isn;t really supporting us in this move, his family sort of, but I am feeling so alone right now...
TIA
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Posted 4/9/06 9:26 AM |
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TheInfamousOTG
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Posted 4/9/06 9:27 AM |
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Bri
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Posted 4/9/06 9:27 AM |
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dooodles
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Posted 4/9/06 9:28 AM |
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Shanti
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Re: need some hugs..
I am so sorry to hear this. You have to do what is right for you, and CT is really not that far away. I hope your family comes around
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Posted 4/9/06 9:32 AM |
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Moehick
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Posted 4/9/06 9:34 AM |
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Karen
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Name: Karen
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Re: need some hugs..
I would just give your family some time! Deep down they want what is best for you guys, but something like a move is hard on everyone.
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Posted 4/9/06 9:55 AM |
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MrsS2005
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Name: B
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Re: need some hugs..
DH and I live in CT, and it really isn't that far away. We see my parents (on LI) about as often as we see DH's family (in CT). We actually live closer to my parents than his family. I really like living in CT. Most parents don't like when their kids move away, but you have to do what's best for you and your DH.
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Posted 4/9/06 10:07 AM |
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ssbride05
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Name: Jennifer
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Re: need some hugs..
Thanks SOOO much everyone! I really appreciate your support!! It really means a lot!!
You guys are the best!
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Posted 4/9/06 10:10 AM |
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dandr10199
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Name: Dina
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Posted 4/9/06 10:11 AM |
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bklyngirl
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Member since 6/05 15758 total posts
Name: Gail
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Re: need some hugs..
u need to do what's right for u, dh and the family you'll want to raise in the future. the families will come around
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Posted 4/9/06 10:45 AM |
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baghag
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Posted 4/9/06 10:52 AM |
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boosh1002
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Posted 4/9/06 10:55 AM |
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PiyoPika566
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Posted 4/9/06 11:00 AM |
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MelToddJulia
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Posted 4/9/06 11:04 AM |
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neenie

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Posted 4/9/06 11:07 AM |
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Re: need some hugs..
DH and I went through something similar last year, when we left Queens for Putnam county. While it's not that far, my mom's only able to drive short distances and she was really upset. The bottom line was that living on LI wasn't going to work for us for a few reasons. She understands, but doesn't like it. Hang in there!
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Posted 4/9/06 11:10 AM |
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Posted 4/9/06 11:13 AM |
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mrsmck
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Name: Donna
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Re: need some hugs..
Ct isn't that far away!!! Your family will come around.....they just need some time.
You have to do what's right for you!!!
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Posted 4/9/06 11:16 AM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: need some hugs..
Distances are only long when you don't drive them regularly. We used to drive to VT (8 hrs) every weekend to go snowboarding. If visiting becomes a regular thing, the distance grows shorter.
I'm sure if they realized that they missing someone & not wanting them to leave was coming off as not supportive, they would feel bad about it.
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Posted 4/9/06 11:53 AM |
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nancygrace
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Posted 4/9/06 11:53 AM |
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oakslady
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Re: need some hugs..
Posted by MrsS2005
DH and I live in CT, and it really isn't that far away. We see my parents (on LI) about as often as we see DH's family (in CT). We actually live closer to my parents than his family. I really like living in CT. Most parents don't like when their kids move away, but you have to do what's best for you and your DH.
ditto- we are looking out of state now too. your family will come around.
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Posted 4/10/06 7:06 AM |
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ssbride05
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Member since 5/05 2654 total posts
Name: Jennifer
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Re: need some hugs..
Posted by oakslady
Posted by MrsS2005
DH and I live in CT, and it really isn't that far away. We see my parents (on LI) about as often as we see DH's family (in CT). We actually live closer to my parents than his family. I really like living in CT. Most parents don't like when their kids move away, but you have to do what's best for you and your DH.
ditto- we are looking out of state now too. your family will come around.
Thanks again everyone!! -Good luck with your search!!
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