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AJsMommy122
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Need opinions please

What does everyone think of having an Engagement party 10 months before the wedding?

( Yes there will also be a shower probably 2 months before the wedding)

Posted 10/24/05 1:46 PM
 
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BabyAvocado
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Re: Need opinions please

It's a bit too close IMO. I would skip the e-party and have a co-ed shower instead.

Posted 10/24/05 1:48 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Need opinions please

IMO that is close...
If it were me i probably wouldn't bother having an engagement party

Posted 10/24/05 1:48 PM
 

DRMom
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Re: Need opinions please

I think that is fine. My sister is getting married in April and we had her e-party Sept. 10th at my house.

Posted 10/24/05 1:49 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Need opinions please

I consider most engagement parties to be fundraisers.

Message edited 1/8/2007 6:02:38 PM.

Posted 10/24/05 1:50 PM
 

Janice
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Re: Need opinions please

too close. that would be 3 cards in less than a year. Overkill

Posted 10/24/05 1:50 PM
 

Christine
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Re: Need opinions please

When did they get engaged?

Posted 10/24/05 1:51 PM
 

AJsMommy122
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Re: Need opinions please

Posted by Christine

When did they get engaged?



September and the Eparty will be December shower in Aug/Sept and Wedding in Oct

Posted 10/24/05 1:52 PM
 

Kate
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Re: Need opinions please

Tacky.

Posted 10/24/05 1:52 PM
 

Marcie
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Re: Need opinions please

I would say that it is a little too much in one year.

Posted 10/24/05 1:53 PM
 

missus-hbradio
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Re: Need opinions please

Posted by AJsMommy122

Posted by Christine

When did they get engaged?



September and the Eparty will be December shower in Aug/Sept and Wedding in Oct



Considering they just got engaged last month I dont think its that bad......but IMO I dont get e-parties. I never even heard of one til LIW.

Posted 10/24/05 1:55 PM
 

Christine
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Re: Need opinions please

Posted by AJsMommy122

Posted by Christine

When did they get engaged?



September and the Eparty will be December shower in Aug/Sept and Wedding in Oct



I don't think it's terrible then provided it's customary to have an e-party in her family.

One girl I knew had an e party 7 months after her engagement and 8 months prior to the wedding. I thought that was rude since she waited so long to have the e-party.

Posted 10/24/05 1:55 PM
 

AJsMommy122
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Re: Need opinions please

thanks Chat Icon

Posted 10/24/05 2:50 PM
 

Shelly
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Re: Need opinions please

too much. too soon.

Posted 10/24/05 2:54 PM
 

Bri
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Re: Need opinions please

I think it is too close also

Posted 10/24/05 3:54 PM
 

AnnBrunoXO
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Re: Need opinions please

It depends on the size of the engagement party. I think since the timing is so close - a small dinner with family is more appropriate as an engagement dinner then bridal shower then wedding.

3 events for one couple in less than a year is definitely overkill.

Posted 10/24/05 4:27 PM
 

AJsMommy122
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Re: Need opinions please

Posted by AnnBrunoXO

It depends on the size of the engagement party. I think since the timing is so close - a small dinner with family is more appropriate as an engagement dinner then bridal shower then wedding.

3 events for one couple in less than a year is definitely overkill.




Its going to be 75 people

Posted 10/24/05 4:51 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: Need opinions please

I think its too much too close.
I didnt have an engagement party. I had a shower and was perfectly happy.Chat Icon

Posted 10/24/05 4:52 PM
 

neenie

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Re: Need opinions please

our e-party was in june, and we got married in Feb. (so it was 8 months before). it didnt seem to make a difference to anyone (not that they said to our faces anyway Chat Icon ) But, our eparty was more of a back yard keg party than a formal affair Chat Icon

Posted 10/24/05 9:59 PM
 

mommy2Alex
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Re: Need opinions please

IMO I think it is too close, although I really don't believe in big formal engagement parties either.

Posted 10/24/05 10:01 PM
 

danielleandscott
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Re: Need opinions please

We didn't have one b/c we got engaged Augusy 9th and got married one year later on Aug. 14th. I thought it would be too much to ask of people. Those who wanted to gave us gifts anyway.

Posted 10/24/05 10:01 PM
 

Luvlylady
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Re: Need opinions please

Sooo much in soo little TimeChat Icon

Posted 10/24/05 10:22 PM
 

Diane
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Re: Need opinions please

I think it is too close too. I am not a big fan of engagement parties.

Posted 10/25/05 7:57 AM
 

btrflygrl
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Re: Need opinions please

we got engaged and planned the wedding for 8 months later....no e-party here!

Posted 10/25/05 8:59 AM
 

Jennifer
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Re: Need opinions please

I wouldn't have one.

Posted 10/25/05 9:45 AM
 
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