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need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

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Meggo613
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need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

so we bought a legal 2 family with the hopes of my sil renting the apartment... needless to say it fell through and were stuck with no renter and are boarderline desperaite... we thought we'd get alot of hits on it and we didnt.

so we called our REA who happens to be my dh's cousin.. and she said to list it on MLS that way we can get credit check and background checks...

now im oblivious to this whole process ive never even rente an apartment before.. but now shes saying that we cannot determine who lives in the apartment. even if we dont like the people we dont have a choice thats part of what goes on once you list it... while im completely unhappy with that we just really dont have a choice and dh doesnt think putting in on craigs list is an option neither do i.

UGGGGGGH THIS REALLLY STINKS!!!!

ANyone know someone looking for a 2 bedroom apartment?!Chat Icon

Posted 6/18/10 4:20 PM
 
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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

Where and how much?

Posted 6/18/10 4:21 PM
 

bicosi
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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

I have a broker that I can refer you to? He's gotten tenants for my LI house for the past 5 years. He's excellent and you don't have to give him a penny, no contract and you don't owe him anything if you rent it on your own!

Let me know!

Did you put it on craigslist?

also where is it? how much?

Posted 6/18/10 4:23 PM
 

Meggo613
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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

thank you ladies... i do have a rea im working with its our cousin whos listed it so i do trust her. i just feel like if trash walks in i dont have a choice kwim??

no its on craigs list....

Lindenhurst 2 bedrooms 1400 plus electric and cable. were paying gas and water

Posted 6/18/10 4:26 PM
 

MaZz
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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

Why not craigslist? We found our old apt on there.... ive even got tons of jobs off of there... I think its a great source!

Posted 6/18/10 4:27 PM
 

Meggo613
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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

Posted by MaZz

Why not craigslist? We found our old apt on there.... ive even got tons of jobs off of there... I think its a great source!



i understand gina we just feel like we cant credit check nor background check where with MLS we can hhave those things done.

Posted 6/18/10 4:28 PM
 

bicosi
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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

Posted by Meggo613

thank you ladies... i do have a rea im working with its our cousin whos listed it so i do trust her. i just feel like if trash walks in i dont have a choice kwim??

no its on craigs list....

Lindenhurst 2 bedrooms 1400 plus electric and cable. were paying gas and water



You can pick and choose who lives in your rental. That is pure BS.

it's YOUR property and you rent it to whomever you feel best suits you in that capacity.

Posted 6/18/10 4:28 PM
 

bicosi
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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

Posted by Meggo613

Posted by MaZz

Why not craigslist? We found our old apt on there.... ive even got tons of jobs off of there... I think its a great source!



i understand gina we just feel like we cant credit check nor background check where with MLS we can hhave those things done.



Sure you can! why couldn't you credit/background check them? The cost is minimal or you can put it in the ad on craigslist and have your REA do the checks for you.

Posted 6/18/10 4:30 PM
 

Meggo613
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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

Posted by bicosi

Posted by Meggo613

thank you ladies... i do have a rea im working with its our cousin whos listed it so i do trust her. i just feel like if trash walks in i dont have a choice kwim??

no its on craigs list....

Lindenhurst 2 bedrooms 1400 plus electric and cable. were paying gas and water



You can pick and choose who lives in your rental. That is pure BS.

it's YOUR property and you rent it to whomever you feel best suits you in that capacity.



get the F out... so im freaking out for no reason??!?! she told us that if a 4 young guys walk in and want to rent it and after we've met them, that we cannot discriminate and say no, but we do have a right to meet them.. (my husband would only say no because he'd be afarid they would be parting and keeping my dd up)

Posted 6/18/10 4:31 PM
 

Meggo613
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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

Posted by bicosi

Posted by Meggo613

Posted by MaZz

Why not craigslist? We found our old apt on there.... ive even got tons of jobs off of there... I think its a great source!



i understand gina we just feel like we cant credit check nor background check where with MLS we can hhave those things done.



Sure you can! why couldn't you credit/background check them? The cost is minimal or you can put it in the ad on craigslist and have your REA do the checks for you.



see these are things i dont know... i have pretty much lived in a bubble my whole live i 25 and lived at home with my parents till my dh and i just bought our home 2 months ago.

Posted 6/18/10 4:32 PM
 

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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

Posted by bicosi

Posted by Meggo613

thank you ladies... i do have a rea im working with its our cousin whos listed it so i do trust her. i just feel like if trash walks in i dont have a choice kwim??

no its on craigs list....

Lindenhurst 2 bedrooms 1400 plus electric and cable. were paying gas and water



You can pick and choose who lives in your rental. That is pure BS.

it's YOUR property and you rent it to whomever you feel best suits you in that capacity.




ita.....the place I have now had a real estate agent. a lot of people saw it...the landlord picked us.

Posted 6/18/10 4:39 PM
 

bicosi
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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

Posted by Meggo613

Posted by bicosi

Posted by Meggo613

thank you ladies... i do have a rea im working with its our cousin whos listed it so i do trust her. i just feel like if trash walks in i dont have a choice kwim??

no its on craigs list....

Lindenhurst 2 bedrooms 1400 plus electric and cable. were paying gas and water



You can pick and choose who lives in your rental. That is pure BS.

it's YOUR property and you rent it to whomever you feel best suits you in that capacity.



get the F out... so im freaking out for no reason??!?! she told us that if a 4 young guys walk in and want to rent it and after we've met them, that we cannot discriminate and say no, but we do have a right to meet them.. (my husband would only say no because he'd be afarid they would be parting and keeping my dd up)



It's your house girl!

I had tons of people view our houses and there were some that I just said no to. No one questioned anything. some weren't credit worthy, some were just not what we were looking for. (for example a family with 3-4 kids and aunts/uncles/

BTW, i'd rent to 4 guys ANY day. I had 4 guys renting my LI house and they were the best tenants. each had their own lives and were hardly ever there really.. always either working or with their GFs. also, rent was always on time. the way I look at it, if one guy can't cough up the rent, the other three will most likely get on the guy to get the rent or will settle it with him directly to make sure that YOU get your rent.

whereas if it's a couple, if one is a$$ed out, usually there's nothing that can be done about it.. only you waiting around for it.

I'm leaving in a bit but if you need any info, FM me. i will help you the best way that I can! :O)

Posted 6/18/10 4:39 PM
 

JldDolphin

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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

Posted by Meggo613

Posted by bicosi

Posted by Meggo613

thank you ladies... i do have a rea im working with its our cousin whos listed it so i do trust her. i just feel like if trash walks in i dont have a choice kwim??

no its on craigs list....

Lindenhurst 2 bedrooms 1400 plus electric and cable. were paying gas and water



You can pick and choose who lives in your rental. That is pure BS.

it's YOUR property and you rent it to whomever you feel best suits you in that capacity.



get the F out... so im freaking out for no reason??!?! she told us that if a 4 young guys walk in and want to rent it and after we've met them, that we cannot discriminate and say no, but we do have a right to meet them.. (my husband would only say no because he'd be afarid they would be parting and keeping my dd up)


I don't understand this? Chat Icon How can you not have a choice on MLS? So the first person that is interested in the apartment gets it? That makes no sense at all. And you can do a credit check online for a small few. My MIL does this all the time. And I would think you have the right to call their employer to find out if they really do have a job. I would double check with your REA and ask her to explain again. Or ask another REA for info about this just out of curiosity. KWIM?

Posted 6/18/10 4:39 PM
 

bicosi
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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

Posted by Meggo613

Posted by bicosi

Posted by Meggo613

Posted by MaZz

Why not craigslist? We found our old apt on there.... ive even got tons of jobs off of there... I think its a great source!



i understand gina we just feel like we cant credit check nor background check where with MLS we can hhave those things done.



Sure you can! why couldn't you credit/background check them? The cost is minimal or you can put it in the ad on craigslist and have your REA do the checks for you.



see these are things i dont know... i have pretty much lived in a bubble my whole live i 25 and lived at home with my parents till my dh and i just bought our home 2 months ago.



That's why you have us! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/18/10 4:40 PM
 

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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

we live in a 2 family and are going through the same process. We were a bit shocked to find out about the discrimation laws and how we don't have much of a say in who will live upstairs. We can't even comment on how many people can live upstairs beyond legal limits. I agree, it is really disturbing and I freaked out just like you.

I spoke with a friend who is a RE. Apparently REs can phrase questions - legally - in such a way as to try and weed out the less desirable elements. In addition, the credit/background checks also help bring in the good tenants.

Be careful, know the laws, and good luck!

Posted 6/18/10 4:41 PM
 

Meggo613
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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

serioulsy you just made my day im sitting here crying (im overly emotion this week!) and i seriously just sighed a huge sigh of relief!!!

i just want to know that if iget a werid vibe from someone and i just flat out dont want to rent to them i want to be able to say NO! end of story.

Posted 6/18/10 4:43 PM
 

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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

Posted by siren

we live in a 2 family and are going through the same process. We were a bit shocked to find out about the discrimation laws and how we don't have much of a say in who will live upstairs. We can't even comment on how many people can live upstairs beyond legal limits. I agree, it is really disturbing and I freaked out just like you.

I spoke with a friend who is a RE. Apparently REs can phrase questions - legally - in such a way as to try and weed out the less desirable elements. In addition, the credit/background checks also help bring in the good tenants.

Be careful, know the laws, and good luck!


If this is truly the case, then I would NOT be using MLS to find a tenant. Meg you guys might want to consider Craigslist. Chat Icon GL!Chat Icon

Posted 6/18/10 4:44 PM
 

Meggo613
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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

Posted by siren

we live in a 2 family and are going through the same process. We were a bit shocked to find out about the discrimation laws and how we don't have much of a say in who will live upstairs. We can't even comment on how many people can live upstairs beyond legal limits. I agree, it is really disturbing and I freaked out just like you.

I spoke with a friend who is a RE. Apparently REs can phrase questions - legally - in such a way as to try and weed out the less desirable elements. In addition, the credit/background checks also help bring in the good tenants.

Be careful, know the laws, and good luck!



Thank you this is EXACTLY what she told me... thanks for putting it in better words then i could

im hoping that the creidt and background checks help bring in the right people.. did you successfully find someone?

Posted 6/18/10 4:51 PM
 

Meggo613
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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

Posted by JldDolphin

Posted by siren

we live in a 2 family and are going through the same process. We were a bit shocked to find out about the discrimation laws and how we don't have much of a say in who will live upstairs. We can't even comment on how many people can live upstairs beyond legal limits. I agree, it is really disturbing and I freaked out just like you.

I spoke with a friend who is a RE. Apparently REs can phrase questions - legally - in such a way as to try and weed out the less desirable elements. In addition, the credit/background checks also help bring in the good tenants.

Be careful, know the laws, and good luck!


If this is truly the case, then I would NOT be using MLS to find a tenant. Meg you guys might want to consider Craigslist. Chat Icon GL!Chat Icon



Thanks jen im thinking maybe your right and i made a mistake with MLS!Chat Icon so much for trying to do the right thing and get people that are "safe"

Posted 6/18/10 4:51 PM
 

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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

don't do an MLS listing

go on craigslist...take some pics of the place, make an ad, post it - if it's a decent apt tons of people will call - trust me (i did this twice so far for my old apt - my in-laws don't know how to use the computer so i did everything but interview for them)

have as many as you want come see the place - that is when you get to interview them - if they are interested in the apt & you like them at that point you can do a background check/credit on our own...

you can 100% choose who you want to rent your apartment - but you CANNOT discriminate b/c of race, religion, etc b/c that is illegal - but you can choose your tenant based on compatibility and your comfort level with them if you are interviewing on your own (as far as i know)....

it's the same as a job interview - employers can't discriminate but they certainly interview and chose the best person for the job KWIM?

craigslist worked twice when i rented out our old apt...both times my in-laws had tenants within 1 week...first time they rented to a young cop, this time they are renting to a young couple...they have been happy with their tenants both times...

my in-laws always told people who came that they were still doing showings - so people knew that they had competition Chat Icon

so far they haven't gotten into legal issues over it - nor have they discriminated against anyone in any way...they just picked the person they felt most comfortable with...


good luck!!

Message edited 6/18/2010 4:59:30 PM.

Posted 6/18/10 4:55 PM
 

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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

just listed a couple of weeks ago (we have a 3 bed apt). Have had 2 showings. One person wanted more than we were okay with (unlimited use of the backyard - the apt has a private outdoor deck, but the backyard is our space).

The other person seems really great and we're hoping she's interested.

So I guess, good luck to us both!

Posted 6/18/10 4:55 PM
 

Meggo613
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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

Posted by Nik211

don't do an MLS listing

go on craigslist...take some pics of the place, make an ad, post it - if it's a decent apt tons of people will call - trust me (i did this twice so far for my old apt - my in-laws don't know how to use the computer so i did everything but interview for them)

have as many as you want come see the place - that is when you get to interview them - if they are interested in the apt & you like them at that point you can do a background check/credit on our own...

you can 100% choose who you want to rent your apartment - but you CANNOT discriminate b/c of race, religion, etc b/c that is illegal - but you can choose your tenant based on compatibility and your comfort level with them....

it's the same as a job interview - employers can't discriminate but they certainly interview and chose the best person for the job KWIM?

craigslist worked twice when i rented out our old apt...both times my in-laws had tenants within 1 week...first time they rented to a young cop, this time they are renting to a young couple...they have been happy with their tenants both times...

good luck!!



Thank you so much for this.. im going to have a long chat with DH tonight about this!

Posted 6/18/10 4:59 PM
 

Meggo613
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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

Posted by siren

just listed a couple of weeks ago (we have a 3 bed apt). Have had 2 showings. One person wanted more than we were okay with (unlimited use of the backyard - the apt has a private outdoor deck, but the backyard is our space).

The other person seems really great and we're hoping she's interested.

So I guess, good luck to us both!



Thanks good luck to you !Chat Icon

Posted 6/18/10 5:00 PM
 

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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

The discrimination laws do not apply when it is an apt in your private house like they do to apt buildings. You absolutely can say no to anyone who walks through the door whether or not they come to the apt through a RE.

Posted 6/18/10 6:00 PM
 

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Re: need a tenant, apartment listed on MLS... i need to VENT!

Posted by bicosi

Posted by Meggo613

Posted by MaZz

Why not craigslist? We found our old apt on there.... ive even got tons of jobs off of there... I think its a great source!



i understand gina we just feel like we cant credit check nor background check where with MLS we can hhave those things done.



Sure you can! why couldn't you credit/background check them? The cost is minimal or you can put it in the ad on craigslist and have your REA do the checks for you.




This is how we found the house we are in now ,was through the CL ! They went throught a REA ,and we paid the fee . Best thing ever was the REA !

Posted 6/18/10 6:32 PM
 
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