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chelle
It's a Good Life
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Isn't it obvious?
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My final update....and my good-bye
For now I'm saying good-bye ladies 
I just got the blood results back and my beta's only at 175. Not good. So it's a miscarriage  I do have to go back tomorrow for additional blood work to make sure it's going down...but the #'s not good, so I'm not holding on to anything anymore.
I have made my peace and I am OK with everything that's happened. Please don't feel sorry for me  It's nothing to be sorry about. This wasn't the plan THIS time. Something wasn't right and nature took care of itself and did what had to be done. I am ok with that. I've always told myself that if this happened to me I wouldn't allow it to bring me down. I believe in the power that everything happens for a reason and the reason this time was something was wrong...it wasn't right. I had absolutely NO control over this and because of that I surrended it up a long time ago and knew it would be ok.
I was extremely sad the 1st day, but as time has gone on I have accepted it and said my peace and said good bye to my little bean. I had hope...but with each day, i just lost a little more and well...I knew inside all along what the outcome was going to be.
I have an AMAZING little girl that makes me smile and giggle every single second and has helped this time go by much easier.
Again, don't be sad for me! I'm ok, I promise!! 
Save me a spot cuz I WILL BE BACK!!!   DH and I will be TTC as soon as possible....so even though I was only here for a short time...I hope to only be gone for a short time! I may not be "DueAgainInJune" anymore...but after that comes July and August...so let's hope for that!!!
I hope to see you all again VERY soon!!!!
I want to thank each and every one of you for your support, well wishes and prayers. It really means a lot to me and it meant SO much to know that I had all of you thinking about us during this time and wishing for the best. I thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you
You are all truly the BEST!
ETA: And next time I PROMISE not to go undercover 
Message edited 10/14/2008 12:23:42 PM.
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Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
I am so sorry you are going through this. I know having a micarriage is such a horrible thing to go through. You really are a strong person, and let your little one get you through this.
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| Posted 10/14/08 12:22 PM |
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neener1211
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J
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
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kerrycec03
Mom of 2 beautiful boys!!
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Kerry
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
I'm so sorry but I'm glad you are doing ok
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| Posted 10/14/08 12:25 PM |
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Lucky
Growing up fast!
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Dawn
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
You have such a positive attitude. Lots of good things will be coming your way!!!!
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| Posted 10/14/08 12:26 PM |
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pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe
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Stephanie
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
sorry Chelle.....
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| Posted 10/14/08 12:28 PM |
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hmm8191
My loves
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Heather
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
You have a fantastic attitude and I have no doubt that we will see you here again very soon!
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| Posted 10/14/08 12:30 PM |
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Marcie
Complete Happiness :)
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LOVE being a Mommy!
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
I am sorry you are going through this
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| Posted 10/14/08 12:34 PM |
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Angel321
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
i am sorry that you are going through this - but i have to agree with the girls and say that i am proud of you for being so strong!
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| Posted 10/14/08 12:36 PM |
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Porrruss
Nya nya nya
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Amy
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
I'm so sorry......
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| Posted 10/14/08 12:37 PM |
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lvdolphins
My Loves!
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
I am so sorry.
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| Posted 10/14/08 12:40 PM |
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Little-J-Mommy
I'm a Big Brother
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
I am so sorry you're going through this but your attitude is beautiful! You will be back!
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| Posted 10/14/08 12:46 PM |
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MsMBV
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Me
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
I am keeping a seat warm from you my dear.
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| Posted 10/14/08 12:52 PM |
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MrsRivera
2 under 2...whew!!
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Beth
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
I'm so sorry to hear--but we'll see you back again soon
And yes, please don't be undercover...that drives me CRAZY!!!
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| Posted 10/14/08 12:53 PM |
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christy
Mommy of 2
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Christy
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
You have a wonderful outlook. I wish you tons of babydust for the NEAR FUTURE!
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| Posted 10/14/08 12:53 PM |
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PrincessP
Big sister!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
Your outlook is incredible! I am not going to say I am sorry but rather see you back on preggo in a few months!
Lots of Luck to you and your family!!!!!!
I commend your spirit 
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| Posted 10/14/08 12:55 PM |
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Diana1215
Living on a prayer!!!
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Diana
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
Chelle - I am so sorry for your loss!
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| Posted 10/14/08 12:57 PM |
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Dani922
Here's to new beginnings
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Danielle
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
I'm so sorry. I hope to see you back here very soon!
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| Posted 10/14/08 12:59 PM |
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Pooka
Oh Happy Day!!
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
Chelle, I'm so sorry I love that you have such a positive outlook and you and your DH will keep trying.
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| Posted 10/14/08 12:59 PM |
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CrankyPants
I'm cranky
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
You are such a strong person-with amazing strength like that you are sure to get through this. for this one that was not meant to be and lots of for the one that is to come.
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| Posted 10/14/08 1:04 PM |
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beachgirl
LIF Adult
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sara
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
I am so sorry. but at your wishes I wont be sad so here is another one I admire your positive attitude.
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| Posted 10/14/08 1:42 PM |
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Rycois
Blessed with 2blue/2pink
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
I'm sorry for your loss and I commend your awesome attitude. Funny I was just thinking about this this morning - how had I never lost my first pg I would have never had Ryan and I cannot begin to imagine that. I totally believe in things happening for a reason and I'm sure you'll be back on here soon
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| Posted 10/14/08 1:47 PM |
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debsey75
My two best friends!
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Debbie
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
You have such a positive outlook. We wish you the best of luck with TTC and hope you are back here soon.
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| Posted 10/14/08 1:54 PM |
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05mommy09
Family of 5!
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<3 Mommy <3
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| Posted 10/14/08 1:58 PM |
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divamommy
LIF Toddler
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krystal
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Re: My final update....and my good-bye
xoxoxoxoxo
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