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Lala08
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May cancel my Beta. Need advice. Update
So I keep getting this feeling that AF is going to show up shortly. I have cramps and slight discoloration on the TP when I go to the bathroom. My beta is at 645 am tomorrow. Do I wake myself up early or skip it and see how tomorrow goes? Last month I felt the same way and I woke up early for the Beta and later that day AF showed up. I don't pay a copay so it's not about the money. Do I go regardless and get the dreaded phone call and at least I know for sure or just wait and see if my premonition is right?
Sorry I am such a Debbie downer. I wish I could feel positive. I just want to cry
***Update***
Well just got the call that it is definitely a BFN. If I don't get AF by tomorrow I have to go in for a sono and blood
I knew it was neg yet I still am so bummed. I really hope next month it happens for us.
Message edited 3/14/2013 11:55:37 AM.
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MrsGoldie
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice
I'm so sorry you are feeling so down  I feel like it's annoying no matter what. I know how you are feeling! Last month I just went even though I just knew. I feel like if it happens again like that this month I will still just go anyway. One day we will all get the call we've been waiting for for so long, and that's what I hope for!! Best of luck to you whatever you choose!!!!!!!!!!!
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Lala08
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice
Posted by MrsGoldie
I'm so sorry you are feeling so down I feel like it's annoying no matter what. I know how you are feeling! Last month I just went even though I just knew. I feel like if it happens again like that this month I will still just go anyway. One day we will all get the call we've been waiting for for so long, and that's what I hope for!! Best of luck to you whatever you choose!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you. I will be fine a day after AF comes then I will get back up on my horse and try again. Hopefully one day soon I will get the phone call I desire so much. Good luck to you too!! I hope this is your month!!!! Not much longer for you either right???
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JWG421
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice
I would go, you really never know until the phone call :)
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MrsGoldie
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May cancel my Beta. Need advice
Thank you. I will either get af Sun/Mon or go for beta on Wed.
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JWG421
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice
Posted by MrsGoldie
Thank you. I will either get af Sun/Mon or go for beta on Wed.
we are on same schedule :)
i am due the 18th,
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Lillies
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice
Oh boy, I am in the same boat!!!! I just want to send you so many You are so helpful and positive for everyone else and I know your time will be here shortly. We all feel that depressed feeling-- this is truly a journey only for the strong. Honestly, if it were me, I would not go for the beta IF I really felt AF coming-- like heavy spotting, heavy cramping, temps dropping on basal.. only you know your body. If I thought there was a chance I were prego, I would go. Only you can decide for that. Have you had any other symptoms besides cramps and spotting? My RE office is pure chaos during the mornings so I am more reluctant to go if I don't want to. Sending positive vibes to you, hun!!
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Linzee636
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice
I have no advice but sending you many many and  !!
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WantBabyNbr2
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May cancel my Beta. Need advice
I know you think for sure AF is coming... but pregnancy usually feels the same way!
I have my beta tomorrow at 6:30am. Despite 20 BFN on HPT, i'm still gonna go and "end" my cycle. Just one more prick of a needle on this roller coaster journey.
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Lala08
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice
Posted by WantBabyNbr2
I know you think for sure AF is coming... but pregnancy usually feels the same way!
I have my beta tomorrow at 6:30am. Despite 20 BFN on HPT, i'm still gonna go and "end" my cycle. Just one more prick of a needle on this roller coaster journey.
Good luck!! I will see if she arrives by tomorrow morning.
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Lala08
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice
Just saw red. Guess I'm out 
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babydreams21
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May cancel my Beta. Need advice
Oh no I was gonna write advice as in changing the appointment to a day later but just read your last reply. So sorry. Hang in there.
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PennyCat
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice
I would go, because even if you see AF, your beta could still be positive. It could be a really low beta and a chemical- but that's information you will want to know. I had a chemical one cycle and got AF that same day. I'm so glad I went for that beta because otherwise I wouldn't have known and that's USEFUL information moving forward with fertility treatments. I wish I had gone for my betas in other cycles where I skipped out on it because I got AF. After that chemical, I never skipped a beta. Good luck!!
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Lala08
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice
Thanks Penny. I decided to go. Even though AF is most likely on her way, I haven't spotted since so DH said the not knowing for me is worse and the only way I can move on is to know for sure. Will update the official results later. Thanks everyone!
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WantBabyNbr2
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May cancel my Beta. Need advice
I got my blood draw this morning too. Now waiting for the dreaded call. Hoping for the best for you Lala!
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Lala08
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice
Posted by WantBabyNbr2
I got my blood draw this morning too. Now waiting for the dreaded call. Hoping for the best for you Lala!
Thank you. Good luck to you too!! Hopefully at least one of us will get good news today!!!!! Sending you lots of baby dust!!
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Lala08
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice
I just want to add a huge THANK YOU to each one of you ladies on this board. Your well wishes, support, advice, concern is so overwhelming. I don't know what I would do without this board. You ladies help me through every day. I hope in some way I do the same for you!  
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice
No advice... Just tons of
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Lillies
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice
I'm so sorry!
So many hugs for you
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08BabySurprise
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice. Update
I am sorry
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MrsGoldie
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice. Update
I'm so sorry Lala
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WantBabyNbr2
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice. Update
As you know, I know exactly how you feel today!! I've teared up a couple times just thinking about the call (which stated something i already knew... but took away all hope of me being wrong).
Hope AF shows soon for you. I actually think mine may start today. There was some brownish spotting before.
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TyReseGreen
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice. Update
I am so sorry!
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Hope2009
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice. Update
I'm sorry
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IveGotAFeeling
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Re: May cancel my Beta. Need advice. Update
I'm so sorry, but I'm glad you're still going. At least it will allow you to have some kind of closure on the cycle. Good luck tomorrow.
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