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Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

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dooodles
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Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

Or is it just weird that it's from my IL's?

Our christmas card was addressed:

Mr & Mrs Chris XXXX and daughter


I've only ever known to address a card for a family as "The XXX Family"


So for me it is weird to see this to begin with and then just weirder that my MIL wrote it out that way (why it surprises me I have no idea Chat Icon )

Posted 12/20/07 5:34 PM
 
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CathyB

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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

That is weird.

Odder that it comes from your MIL, who I assume knows your daughter's name. Chat Icon

Posted 12/20/07 5:35 PM
 

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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

She actually wrote "daughter"? and not her name? Chat Icon yes, that is weird!

Posted 12/20/07 5:36 PM
 

dooodles
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

Yes, she actually wrote "and daughter"

You have no idea how happy I am to know this is not the norm!

Posted 12/20/07 5:40 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

An aunt whom I love soooo much addressed our card:

Mr & Mrs xxxxxx & Son.

I had this reactionChat Icon for like 2 seconds and than I was like OK.

I actually forgot about it until I read your post just now.Chat Icon

Posted 12/20/07 5:42 PM
 

MelToddJulia
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

I sometimes get Mr and Mrs xxxx and Julia, not daughter.....

Posted 12/20/07 5:45 PM
 

traceyd
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

I think that is strange-We received a few cards addressed as Mr & Mrs J LAST NAME & Family and we only have DD

Posted 12/20/07 8:16 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

Sounds like she wrote it out & added & daughter later.

I've never received a card addressed like that.

Posted 12/20/07 8:19 PM
 

MommaG
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

I know it sounds strange, but that is actually the proper way to address the envelope. I usually just use "The xxxx Family".

Posted 12/20/07 8:21 PM
 

architectnycity
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

We have received a few cards and an invitation like that.

Posted 12/20/07 8:22 PM
 

alexlynn7
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

i find it bizarre Chat Icon

Posted 12/20/07 9:42 PM
 

dm24angel
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

How funny, we got one the other day addressed that way and I never ever saw anything like that.

Posted 12/20/07 9:52 PM
 

Charly
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

I just got my first one today!!! My DH and I were both like Chat Icon esp when we saw it was my aunt!!! She must have meant to write The xxxx Family and instead wrote Mr. and Mrs. and then realized she left Hannah off. But she wrote daughter instead of Hannah. Weird, but whatever.

Posted 12/20/07 9:56 PM
 

2BEANS
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

Maybe she wrote mr & mrs... and then say ooooopsss forgot granddaughter, so she just put and daughter.

Posted 12/20/07 9:57 PM
 

an9elic
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

maybe she didnt want to put dd's name on it because she is a baby... and she was afraid of strangers seeing it since there are some crazies out there? Chat Icon

Message edited 12/20/2007 10:12:25 PM.

Posted 12/20/07 10:11 PM
 

waterspout4
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

We received one like that. It read to Mr. and Mrs. XXX and daughter. The weird thing is, we had a boy. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/21/07 12:02 AM
 

pharmcat2000
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

Yes, I think it is weird. I address mine to "The XXX Family" when it is more than Mr. & Mrs.

Posted 12/21/07 7:33 AM
 

dooodles
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

Posted by MommaG

I know it sounds strange, but that is actually the proper way to address the envelope. I usually just use "The xxxx Family".




Mr & Mrs XXXXX and daughter is the proper way to write out an envelope? I honestly have never seen this before. I assumed "The XXX Family" was proper.

What if we have another child or two? Then what do they start to write? Mr & Mrs XXXX and their 2 daughters?

Posted 12/21/07 8:55 AM
 

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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

I got a lot of cards this year addressed to "Mr & Mrs. XXX and family". And thats what they even wrote on the inside of the card. What do you not know our kids names???

Posted 12/21/07 9:00 AM
 

Diane
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

Posted by chmlengr

She actually wrote "daughter"? and not her name? Chat Icon yes, that is weird!



I agree

Posted 12/21/07 9:01 AM
 

AlohaMa
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

Posted by pinky

I got a lot of cards this year addressed to "Mr & Mrs. XXX and family". And thats what they even wrote on the inside of the card. What do you not know our kids names???



I got the same thing... but usually from elderly people who probably forgot DSs names.Chat Icon

Posted 12/21/07 9:01 AM
 

PrincessP
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

do you know its actually somewhere in the book of etiquette. My sis n law works at a printing place for cards. For my wedding EVERYONE who had children was and daughter or and son or sons/daughters etc...
I thought it sounded so weird but the owner told me that is the way it is...

Posted 12/21/07 9:25 AM
 

want2beamom
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

i got ths 2x with my son---i thought it was strange too---one was from an older couple, the other from a girl my age

Posted 12/21/07 3:59 PM
 

Lillykat
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

No but today we got a card to Mr. and Mrs. X and family

Posted 12/21/07 6:48 PM
 

JessicaluvsCharles
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Re: Is it weird that we received a card addressed this way?

I actually received 2 cards that were addressed this way and I was really pi$$ed.
One was from my aunt and the other was from my parents close friend. It's not like they don't know my DD name. I would never ever do that.
I always write The_____ Family.

Oh yeah, I also got cards that didn't even include my DD name or anything at all.

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Posted 12/21/07 7:07 PM
 
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