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Posted 8/10/06 10:36 AM
 
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Oh Shana - I am sorry that you guys are going through a rough patch.

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Posted 8/10/06 10:52 AM
 

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Posted 8/10/06 10:54 AM
 

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Posted 8/10/06 10:59 AM
 

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Posted 8/10/06 11:06 AM
 

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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Hang in there, remember...communication is key. Maybe you can go talk to a professional about this.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/10/06 11:19 AM
 

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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Hang in there. We are going through some crazy times too but we really talked about things last night and it made everything sooo much better.

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Posted 8/10/06 11:21 AM
 

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Posted 8/10/06 11:23 AM
 

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Shana, you sound overwhelmed. I agree with whomever posted that the first year after a child is born can be very difficult and trying on your relationship - so much has changed!

I think it is okay if you don't really know "what" it is that is bothering you right now...but, I think it's more important that you try to do something to fix it.

Do you think you could have post-partum depression? I ask b/c you mention mood swings...so it's possible. Keep in mind that PPD doesn't always start as soon as the baby is born...sometimes it really does take awhile to manifest itself.

I think you should speak to your OB, or maybe just try speaking to a therapist. If you start with yourself, then you can always ask DH to go with you if you and the therapist feel it would help. Hang in there!! I hope you are okay and that you can work through this rough patch.Chat Icon

Posted 8/10/06 11:23 AM
 

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Posted 8/10/06 11:25 AM
 

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Re: In Need of some hugs.....

I'm so sorry to hear!! I'll be thinking of you.

By any chance are you on Yasmin? Those bills really messed me up. It's like created a black cloud over my head and it lifted as soon as I got off of them. They have been known to cause depression in some people.

Posted 8/10/06 12:00 PM
 

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Posted 8/10/06 12:00 PM
 

jersee3380
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Shana, you sound overwhelmed. I agree with whomever posted that the first year after a child is born can be very difficult and trying on your relationship - so much has changed!

I think it is okay if you don't really know "what" it is that is bothering you right now...but, I think it's more important that you try to do something to fix it.

Do you think you could have post-partum depression? I ask b/c you mention mood swings...so it's possible. Keep in mind that PPD doesn't always start as soon as the baby is born...sometimes it really does take awhile to manifest itself.

I think you should speak to your OB, or maybe just try speaking to a therapist. If you start with yourself, then you can always ask DH to go with you if you and the therapist feel it would help. Hang in there!! I hope you are okay and that you can work through this rough patch.Chat Icon



this is exactly where i'm at. PPD took about 4 weeks before it 'hit' or before i realized it. that is MY issue right now, although there are other issues w/ my DH that adds to it. I sent you FM. Chat Icon

Posted 8/10/06 12:21 PM
 

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Sending you many hugs to let you know you're NOT alone.
Sometimes I feel like that too,bothered and fustrated..but at what? I'm not sure exactly.
Talk it out with him,get it off your chest.

Posted 8/10/06 2:06 PM
 

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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I'm sorry you and Dh are going through a tough time right now. It can't hurt for you to talk to someone. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/10/06 2:09 PM
 

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Posted 8/10/06 2:09 PM
 

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Posted 8/10/06 2:13 PM
 

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Posted 8/10/06 2:20 PM
 

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So sorry! Hope things get better soon!

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Posted 8/10/06 2:24 PM
 

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Posted 8/10/06 2:27 PM
 

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Posted 8/10/06 2:48 PM
 

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Posted 8/10/06 3:25 PM
 

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Posted 8/10/06 3:41 PM
 

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Posted 8/10/06 3:51 PM
 

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Posted 8/10/06 4:18 PM
 
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