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NJmom
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Re: In Need of some hugs.....
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Posted 8/10/06 10:36 AM |
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Marcie
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Re: In Need of some hugs.....
Oh Shana - I am sorry that you guys are going through a rough patch.
I am here, if you need to talk
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Posted 8/10/06 10:52 AM |
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nrthshgrl
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Posted 8/10/06 10:54 AM |
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betty
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Re: In Need of some hugs.....
I hope you can work through it
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Posted 8/10/06 10:59 AM |
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JD02
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Name: Jen
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Re: In Need of some hugs.....
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Posted 8/10/06 11:06 AM |
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Crismicka
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Re: In Need of some hugs.....
Hang in there, remember...communication is key. Maybe you can go talk to a professional about this.
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Posted 8/10/06 11:19 AM |
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LIMOMx2
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Re: In Need of some hugs.....
Hang in there. We are going through some crazy times too but we really talked about things last night and it made everything sooo much better.
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Posted 8/10/06 11:21 AM |
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lmb03
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Re: In Need of some hugs.....
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Posted 8/10/06 11:23 AM |
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Claud
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Re: In Need of some hugs.....
Shana, you sound overwhelmed. I agree with whomever posted that the first year after a child is born can be very difficult and trying on your relationship - so much has changed!
I think it is okay if you don't really know "what" it is that is bothering you right now...but, I think it's more important that you try to do something to fix it.
Do you think you could have post-partum depression? I ask b/c you mention mood swings...so it's possible. Keep in mind that PPD doesn't always start as soon as the baby is born...sometimes it really does take awhile to manifest itself.
I think you should speak to your OB, or maybe just try speaking to a therapist. If you start with yourself, then you can always ask DH to go with you if you and the therapist feel it would help. Hang in there!! I hope you are okay and that you can work through this rough patch.
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Posted 8/10/06 11:23 AM |
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Kathy
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Re: In Need of some hugs.....
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Posted 8/10/06 11:25 AM |
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-Laurie-
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Re: In Need of some hugs.....
I'm so sorry to hear!! I'll be thinking of you.
By any chance are you on Yasmin? Those bills really messed me up. It's like created a black cloud over my head and it lifted as soon as I got off of them. They have been known to cause depression in some people.
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Posted 8/10/06 12:00 PM |
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Janice
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Posted 8/10/06 12:00 PM |
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jersee3380
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Member since 5/05 1372 total posts
Name: caroline
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Re: In Need of some hugs.....
Posted by Claud
Shana, you sound overwhelmed. I agree with whomever posted that the first year after a child is born can be very difficult and trying on your relationship - so much has changed!
I think it is okay if you don't really know "what" it is that is bothering you right now...but, I think it's more important that you try to do something to fix it.
Do you think you could have post-partum depression? I ask b/c you mention mood swings...so it's possible. Keep in mind that PPD doesn't always start as soon as the baby is born...sometimes it really does take awhile to manifest itself.
I think you should speak to your OB, or maybe just try speaking to a therapist. If you start with yourself, then you can always ask DH to go with you if you and the therapist feel it would help. Hang in there!! I hope you are okay and that you can work through this rough patch.
this is exactly where i'm at. PPD took about 4 weeks before it 'hit' or before i realized it. that is MY issue right now, although there are other issues w/ my DH that adds to it. I sent you FM.
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Posted 8/10/06 12:21 PM |
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jana
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Re: In Need of some hugs.....
Sending you many hugs to let you know you're NOT alone. Sometimes I feel like that too,bothered and fustrated..but at what? I'm not sure exactly. Talk it out with him,get it off your chest.
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Posted 8/10/06 2:06 PM |
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Tracey
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Re: In Need of some hugs.....
I'm sorry you and Dh are going through a tough time right now. It can't hurt for you to talk to someone.
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Posted 8/10/06 2:09 PM |
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cloddy
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Re: In Need of some hugs.....
so sorry
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Posted 8/10/06 2:09 PM |
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steph4777
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Posted 8/10/06 2:13 PM |
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ckdk
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Re: In Need of some hugs.....
I hope you guys work it out...
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Posted 8/10/06 2:20 PM |
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bellarina
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Re: In Need of some hugs.....
So sorry! Hope things get better soon!
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Posted 8/10/06 2:24 PM |
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Debbie
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Posted 8/10/06 2:27 PM |
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Phyl
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Posted 8/10/06 2:48 PM |
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Myrockette
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Re: In Need of some hugs.....
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Posted 8/10/06 3:25 PM |
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4monkeys
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Posted 8/10/06 3:41 PM |
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AndreaLMT
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Posted 8/10/06 3:51 PM |
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paulandles912
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Name: Leslie
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Re: In Need of some hugs.....
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Posted 8/10/06 4:18 PM |
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