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Lillies
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I feel AF coming..
She is due today.. nothing but bad back pain and cramps.. so bummed..
For a girl who uses OPK's, has a 28 day cycle to the day- I can't figure out why I am not pregnant already!!! Hoping there is not a tube blockage but leaning to that theory more and more. 
** I just tested and BFN 
Still no AF but spotting with cramps so I think it's inevitable! 
** I just tested fmu- BFN again!
AF did not show still and I am now officially late. What the heck?!
** AF arrived this am..
Message edited 9/7/2012 10:03:53 AM.
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NYCGirl80
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Re: I feel AF coming..
How many months have you been TTC?
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| Posted 9/5/12 10:30 AM |
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maybebaby
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Re: I feel AF coming..
Did you test today? Just wondering...I always feels like AF is coming when i'm pg..
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| Posted 9/5/12 10:56 AM |
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FlowerWife
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I feel AF coming..
a lot of getting pregnant is just luck. i wouldn't jump to assume an issue (unless you are predisposed to having one). depending on your age, every cycle you have 25% or less chance of getting pregnant even if you do everything right. that means theres a 75% chance or over of NOT getting pregnant. and that's for perfectly healthy people.
good luck!
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| Posted 9/5/12 11:43 AM |
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carie0803
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Re: I feel AF coming..
I feel your pain... I was beating myself up on Sunday thinking the same things... what am I doing wrong and what can I do differently? ... well.. its all about hoping everything goes well. I've only been trying for 2 months, I guess I thought it would be easier this time around. 
 good luck and hope AF stays away! 
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Lillies
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Re: I feel AF coming..
Posted by maybebaby
Did you test today? Just wondering...I always feels like AF is coming when i'm pg..
No, haven't tested.. don't really want to waste $ on the test, esp bc I feel it coming.
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| Posted 9/5/12 12:33 PM |
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Lillies
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Re: I feel AF coming..
Posted by FlowerWife
a lot of getting pregnant is just luck. i wouldn't jump to assume an issue (unless you are predisposed to having one). depending on your age, every cycle you have 25% or less chance of getting pregnant even if you do everything right. that means theres a 75% chance or over of NOT getting pregnant. and that's for perfectly healthy people.
good luck!
Well, I had surgery in '04 to remove endo and scarring in my tubes and RT ovary so I know my chances of it coming back are big. I was just hoping I could get preg on my own without having to get tests done.
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Lillies
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Re: I feel AF coming..
Posted by NYCGirl80
How many months have you been TTC?
I have seriously been TTC meaning using OPK's and tracking my periods for ab 4 cycles. This will be my 5th if I get AF. I had a few issues which made me miss my O time so I don't want to really say it's 5 cycles but around there. Just bummed today.. guess AF hormones are kicking in LOL.
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maybebaby
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Re: I feel AF coming..
Well cramps and back pain are exactly what i have when i'm pg..you really never know!!
And it took me 4 cycles to get pg with my second son..that is with a perfect 28 day cycle, bd'ing during fertile period..you just never know. They say a year is normal, but it certainly feels long when it going on a few months!!
Good luck to you!! I hope this is your month!!!!
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NYCGirl80
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Re: I feel AF coming..
Posted by Lillies
Posted by NYCGirl80
How many months have you been TTC?
I have seriously been TTC meaning using OPK's and tracking my periods for ab 4 cycles. This will be my 5th if I get AF. I had a few issues which made me miss my O time so I don't want to really say it's 5 cycles but around there. Just bummed today.. guess AF hormones are kicking in LOL.
4-5 cycles is not a lot. At best, you have a 20% chance of conceiving in a given month.
Why would you assume you have a blocked tube? They are not that common. If you're getting +OPKs and have a regular cycle, I'd actually assume that you're perfectly healthy.
Good luck!
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ModDot
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Re: I feel AF coming..
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Teachergal
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Re: I feel AF coming..
I'm so, so sorry. I think AF is coming for me too. I started spotting just a bit today. It is totally my MO. I too can't believe it's already been 5 months. I'm so sad because it took 5 months for DS the first time around and I was so stupid to think that it would happen sooner this time.
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| Posted 9/5/12 6:15 PM |
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Lillies
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Re: I feel AF coming..
She has not shown yet but still very faint spotting- not like my usual! and I was feeling like CRAP all day- totally sick and headachy in IKEA. I get this sick often before AF. 
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Lillies
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Re: I feel AF coming..
Posted by Teachergal
I'm so, so sorry. I think AF is coming for me too. I started spotting just a bit today. It is totally my MO. I too can't believe it's already been 5 months. I'm so sad because it took 5 months for DS the first time around and I was so stupid to think that it would happen sooner this time.
You are not stupid at all to think that! I know a few friends who have gotten preg immediately when TTC. You never really know when it is YOUR time. Just keep your head up. I am cranky and trying to also. DS has been pretty sick the last few days so I have been preoocupied but trying to keep myself positive with this stupid spotting!
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JenandMikey
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Re: I feel AF coming..
Posted by Lillies
Posted by Teachergal
I'm so, so sorry. I think AF is coming for me too. I started spotting just a bit today. It is totally my MO. I too can't believe it's already been 5 months. I'm so sad because it took 5 months for DS the first time around and I was so stupid to think that it would happen sooner this time.
You are not stupid at all to think that! I know a few friends who have gotten preg immediately when TTC. You never really know when it is YOUR time. Just keep your head up. I am cranky and trying to also. DS has been pretty sick the last few days so I have been preoocupied but trying to keep myself positive with this stupid spotting!
hugs to both of you girls....ttc truly is so hard.....it total messes with your mind every freakin month that passes....
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gina409
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Re: I feel AF coming..
4-5 cycles is not that long but if u have concerns about blockages bc of previous endo i would def go for the hsg even if it was just to ease ur mnd
i hope u get ur bfp soon
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Lillies
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Re: I feel AF coming..
Thank you all.. Tested again this am and BFN and no AF yet.
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JenandMikey
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Re: I feel AF coming..
Posted by Lillies
Thank you all.. Tested again this am and BFN and no AF yet.
me too....sorry...im just hoping af comes soon already so i can get it over with and start the next 2ww of torture
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I feel AF coming..
I am hoping that no AF means you are PG and that she doesnt show up and that you are pregnant!!! Good luck and I'm praying for you!
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Lillies
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Re: I feel AF coming..
Posted by ourlivesstartnow2012
I am hoping that no AF means you are PG and that she doesnt show up and that you are pregnant!!! Good luck and I'm praying for you!
Thank you!!!
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Lillies
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Re: I feel AF coming..
Almost 16dpo and no AF!! I'm so excited and ::hoping:: this means something!
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maybebaby
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Re: I feel AF coming..
Test in the morning!! Best of luck!!!!!
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Lillies
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Re: I feel AF coming..
Thank you for all of the prayers and thoughts ladies.. AF came this am and I'm sad BUT I think I am starting to get my whole ovulation period. This cycle I BD'ed a few days before my smiley and the day of my smiley but could not BD any days after bc I got a YI .. and I got my O pains the day after my smiley.. So I'm thinking the OPK predicted my surge but I may have ovulated a few days later and missed my window bc my Dr said that when I feel my O pains, I should expect to release my egg within 24 hrs. I most likely missed my O window so next month I think I will have a better handle on it. I am planning on BD before my smiley- on my smiley day- the next three days after smiley.. and If I get my O pains, I am def BD'ing during and the next 2 days after.. Aiming for that June baby!! Good luck to everyone this cycle!!
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Teachergal
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Re: I feel AF coming..
Posted by Lillies
Thank you for all of the prayers and thoughts ladies.. AF came this am and I'm sad BUT I think I am starting to get my whole ovulation period. This cycle I BD'ed a few days before my smiley and the day of my smiley but could not BD any days after bc I got a YI .. and I got my O pains the day after my smiley.. So I'm thinking the OPK predicted my surge but I may have ovulated a few days later and missed my window bc my Dr said that when I feel my O pains, I should expect to release my egg within 24 hrs. I most likely missed my O window so next month I think I will have a better handle on it. I am planning on BD before my smiley- on my smiley day- the next three days after smiley.. and If I get my O pains, I am def BD'ing during and the next 2 days after.. Aiming for that June baby!! Good luck to everyone this cycle!!
I'm so sorry but it seems like you have a great plan for next month and a positive attitude! June babies are the best anyway (DS is a June baby). It's a great month for outdoor parties! 
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