So DH had his procedure today and turns out doc said he had the worst urethral stricture he had ever seen. He doesnt know how any urine or sperm was passing to begin with. they did a dilitation process to open it up and we already see the differance with urination. Dr. said this is going to prolly increase our chances now of getting pregnant!! Dh is recovering fine he has some burning with urination and some bleeding which is all normal just tramatizing for a man to see. He had to wear a pad home and he said "I dont know how girls wear these things" ahh yes so he finally realizes. Also i just took OPK and no smiley today!! im actually ok with this since he cant bd for 24 hours. So hopefully friday he will be ready to go!! Im praying this is our month and I thank god that nothing searious was seen. I cant tell you how scared you get and the thoughts that run through your head when you they put your family and loved ones under anesthesia. Thank you everyone for your support and prayers i really appreciate it.