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How rude is this?!?!?!?

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shell
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How rude is this?!?!?!?

So, I'm excited today at work and I'm telling people....I'm having a boy!!

So, this lady comes up to me and says:

Sons are Sons, until they find a wife.
Daughters are Daughters for life.

So, after saying her little peom. She says, I hope you try again for a girl.

So, she already has my child leaving me and married. He is not even born yet.
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and what happens if I try again and get another boy.

Is this what you say to a first time mom?
or maybe I am just being sensitive?

Posted 8/1/08 4:56 PM
 
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Lizzy
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Member since 2/08

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Elisabeth

Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

Nope... that was just rude Chat Icon

Posted 8/1/08 4:57 PM
 

Stefanie

Member since 5/05

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Stefanie

Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

How rude...

I would have to think of a cute little poem for her big fat mouth.Chat Icon

Posted 8/1/08 4:57 PM
 

meniasta
Mommy of 2

Member since 6/06

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M

Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

ohhh no..!!!!

I would tell her something!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/1/08 4:59 PM
 

asecretposter
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Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

aaaaaaaaaaaassssssssssss. What the hell is wrong with people.

And to be honest I think that Mammas boys are forever. JMHOChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/1/08 4:59 PM
 

bicosi
life is a carousel

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M

Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

This woman is an a$$.

Posted 8/1/08 5:00 PM
 

Nic3
LIF Toddler

Member since 2/08

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Maria

Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

That woman totally has issues.... wow.

That comment was all about her - try to realize that, even though it was really idiotic for her to say.

Posted 8/1/08 5:02 PM
 

mindygirl73
LIF Adolescent

Member since 2/07

692 total posts

Name:
reens

Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

What a loser! I don't believe that at all. My cousin has 4 grown boys and if they were any more attached to her, they would need to be surgically removed.

Boys are wonderful and when your son becomes the starting pitcher for the NY Yankees you will remember this moment and laugh as you are lounging on your yacht in the Mediterranean :)

that's how i feel about that! congratulations!!!!
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Posted 8/1/08 5:06 PM
 

Dragonfly75
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Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

I have to say that is the rudest thing I have ever heard. Sons are wonderful and are very bonded to their mothers.

Posted 8/1/08 5:16 PM
 

Dani922
Here's to new beginnings

Member since 10/07

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Danielle

Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

That is very rude. I don't understand why someone would think it's okay to say something like that Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/1/08 5:19 PM
 

1stimemom
Love my boys

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Mrs Dee

Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

Someone needs to smack that beyotch!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/1/08 5:24 PM
 

mommy-of-2-angels
It's all about Sophia

Member since 9/07

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Laurie

Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

what a dumb A!!

Posted 8/1/08 5:34 PM
 

pickles16
Real Estate Professional

Member since 11/07

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Jen

Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

What a freaking idiot!!!!! I'm married to a son, and believe you me, he never forgets his mom...


someone's obviously bitter!!!!!!!!!

Posted 8/1/08 5:37 PM
 

CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(

Member since 5/05

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Christine

Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

Can you say, ISSUES!Chat Icon What a moron!

Posted 8/1/08 5:47 PM
 

mamabear
LIF Adult

Member since 3/08

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Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

So rude...and so not true. My dad was the only son and had 2 sisters. When his father passed away, he's the one who moved his mom in with us (he had a wife and a daughter) and took care of her until she passed nearly 30 years later. This woman obviously just has issues of her own. Congrats on your son!!!!

Posted 8/1/08 5:52 PM
 

ESM980
LIF Infant

Member since 6/06

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Eleanor

Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

you should have responded with, "when you have a boy, you only have to worry about one penis, when you have a girl, you have to worry about everyones" (i hope this doesn't upset anyone, I really would loe a little girl, its just another say

Posted 8/1/08 7:24 PM
 

Ladybug3
Two is better than one!!!

Member since 12/07

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Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

Some people don't think before they speak!!!Chat Icon

Posted 8/1/08 7:31 PM
 

snowflake08
Love my boys!!!

Member since 8/07

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Laura

Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

stupid and rude
people really show thier stupidity i swear

Posted 8/1/08 7:32 PM
 

babyonthebrain
Brotherly Love!

Member since 1/08

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Rafaela

Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

ewwwwww this lady is an as*ho*e I hope you told her off!
XOXOXO
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Posted 8/1/08 7:32 PM
 

snowflake08
Love my boys!!!

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Laura

Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

Posted by ESM980

you should have responded with, "when you have a boy, you only have to worry about one penis, when you have a girl, you have to worry about everyones" (i hope this doesn't upset anyone, I really would loe a little girl, its just another say



LOL - That is hysterical LOL

Posted 8/1/08 7:33 PM
 

asecretposter
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Member since 4/08

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Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

Posted by ESM980

you should have responded with, "when you have a boy, you only have to worry about one penis, when you have a girl, you have to worry about everyones" (i hope this doesn't upset anyone, I really would loe a little girl, its just another say

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Posted 8/1/08 8:41 PM
 

debsey75
My two best friends!

Member since 11/06

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Debbie

Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

Very rude. Just so you know my DS is only 8.5 months and he is a total mommys boy. I wouldnt change a thing. I am having a girl this time around and I am sure I will have a completly different type of bond with her. Your children will learn the closeness/bond thru what you teach them.
Maybe she has a son and was a witch of a mom and he couldnt wait to find a lady figure in his life. Chat Icon

Posted 8/1/08 9:00 PM
 

Pooka
Oh Happy Day!!

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Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

opinions are like A-holes...everyone's got one!

What a terrible thing to say Chat Icon

Posted 8/1/08 9:13 PM
 

Bluepixie
Mamarazzi

Member since 6/07

2618 total posts

Name:
Laura

Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

SOO rude.

My Godmother told me that sons LOVE their mothers forever where as little girls are usually quite independent as soon as they come out of the womb. So fear not, your little guy will love his mommy no matter what some ill-mannered woman says.

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Posted 8/1/08 9:30 PM
 

MrsRivera
2 under 2...whew!!

Member since 2/07

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Beth

Re: How rude is this?!?!?!?

What an idiot.

Posted 8/1/08 9:58 PM
 
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