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Going to a hard week

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BabyLoveBug143
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Jessica

Going to a hard week

so yesterday we found out that DH's father passed away...
it was unexpected and sudden! out of the no where! so things have been kinda crazy! his father lives in jersey and we were there all day yesterday, makeing arrangements etc...

its been really hard because FIL has an 8yr old daughter who witnessed everything and was the one who called 911, after all his brothers got together we were the one who had to tell her! it was really hard.

We have a Dr.'s apt tonight so hopefully hearing the baby's heartbeat will cheer DH up a little.

We also decided that if we have a boy now, that we will take FIL's name for the middle name.

Originally our boy name was going to be Luke Tyler Duda
but now it is going to be
Luke Donald Duda
(that sounds ok right) donald is prob not my fav name in the world, but it kinda feels right because of everything that happened and the fact that our baby's due date is 2 days before FIL's bday!

Posted 3/2/11 1:23 PM
 
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StaceyWill
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Re: Going to a hard week

OMG-I'm so sorry!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
And Luke Donald sounds beautiful!

Posted 3/2/11 1:25 PM
 

jax1
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Re: Going to a hard week

Oh, no. That is horrible. I am so so sorry for you and your husband's loss. Your family will be in my thoughts.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I think the name will be perfect and a nice way to honor your FIl. Im so sorry :(

Posted 3/2/11 1:28 PM
 

julesrbf
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Re: Going to a hard week

Oh Jess ... I saw your post on FB but I can't access it at work and didn't want to respond on my phone.

I am SO SORRY for your loss! What a terrible, sudden loss for you and DH. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Hope you guys are hanging in there.

Posted 3/2/11 1:28 PM
 

Bearcat
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E

Re: Going to a hard week

I'm so sorry sweetie. Chat Icon
and yes Luke Donald sounds great - and so special.

Posted 3/2/11 1:29 PM
 

AngnShaun
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Re: Going to a hard week

Im so sorry JessChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for you guys and DH's family!


ETA: the name... what about changing it to Lucas Donald... instead of Luke...

Message edited 3/2/2011 1:32:08 PM.

Posted 3/2/11 1:31 PM
 

readyfor3
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Re: Going to a hard week

I'm so sorry for your lossChat Icon

I think using your FIL's name as a middle name is a great idea and it sounds terrific together

Posted 3/2/11 1:35 PM
 

babyonboard11
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Re: Going to a hard week

I am so sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
That name is fine and a very nice way to honor him

Posted 3/2/11 1:38 PM
 

summerbaby11
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Re: Going to a hard week

how awful, I'm so sorry.

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Posted 3/2/11 1:57 PM
 

pteradactylmama
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Re: Going to a hard week

I think that that is a fine name. . and though not my favorite name in the world it feels so wonderful and important. .

you are all in my prayers .

Posted 3/2/11 1:58 PM
 

M514
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Re: Going to a hard week

aww sorry for your loss! i think that's a great way to honor your FIL.

Posted 3/2/11 2:16 PM
 

MissingLI
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Re: Going to a hard week

I am so sorry for your loss. The middle name is a beautiful tribute to him. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/2/11 3:18 PM
 

teaforthree
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Re: Going to a hard week

I'm so sporty tp you and your dh. Chat Icon

I think your FIL would be honored. Your dh probably really appreciates it, too.

And Luke Donald is really nice!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/2/11 3:29 PM
 

jennyp
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Re: Going to a hard week

I'm so sorry for your loss Chat Icon Chat Icon
I think its a nice name. When your LO gets older, he will probably love that his name is so special too.

Posted 3/2/11 3:35 PM
 

MrsRitaB
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Re: Going to a hard week

i am so sorry jess how sadChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/2/11 4:50 PM
 

MrsH2009
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Re: Going to a hard week

I'm so sorry, and I love the new nameChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/2/11 5:04 PM
 

Nayia
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Re: Going to a hard week

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Im so sorry for you loss.
My prayers are with you guys.
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Posted 3/2/11 5:07 PM
 

AnxiousPants
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EDD 10/22!

Re: Going to a hard week

I'm so sorry! Chat Icon

Posted 3/2/11 5:24 PM
 

chrisnjoe8108
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Re: Going to a hard week

I'm so sorry about your loss. That sounds like a perfect name!

Posted 3/2/11 5:39 PM
 

sunflowerjesss
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Jesss, duh.

Re: Going to a hard week

Oh my goodness, I am so sorry to hear about your FIL's passing. What a wonderful way to honor him by giving DS his name as a middle name. I think that is beautiful!!

Thinking of you during this difficult time. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/2/11 5:47 PM
 

MyImmortal
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Team Pink? Whoa

Re: Going to a hard week

So sorry again. I know what you mean about the bday thing though. DH lost his grandfather (of course not quite the same, but they were extremely close) quite unexpectedly over Thanksgiving, and his bday is 7/3, and we're due 7/4, so you never know what could happen, and I think his family is really hoping that the baby is born then as an added comfort...so hope the same for you.

Posted 3/2/11 5:53 PM
 
 

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