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Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew
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Jes
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Going out with your girlfriends..... UPDATE!
what time would you be home by?
mini update on bottom of page 4.
Message edited 7/2/2007 7:14:37 PM.
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yankinmanc
Happy Days!
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
5 pm, we drink during the day as we all have children!
Pathetic but true.
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:15 PM |
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Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew
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Jes
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
hmmm. ok. say your DH was home watching the kids and you went out at 9pm.
(this may not work cuz pubs close earlier near you)
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:17 PM |
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LI2VA
Love my life!!
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Melissa
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
Being that I would have to get up early the next morning for DD, I'd day 1-2am.
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:19 PM |
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MrsQ
Just me
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Qiana
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
1am
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:20 PM |
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Little-J-Mommy
I'm a Big Brother
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D
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
I have a book club that goes to dinner on a friday night once a month and I think the lastest I've been home was 1am
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:21 PM |
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eroxgirl
My Loves
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Rebecca
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
Most of my friends have kids or are pregnant, so we try to head out by 8 the latest and lately we're home between 11-12.
Before kids we were lucky if we got out the door by 10 and home by 2 or 3.
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:22 PM |
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Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew
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Jes
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
i am going out tonight because my friend is leaving in a few days for a month and this is our last time to hang out before she goes.
i INVITED DH... whether or not he chooses to come is up to him. if he does come i knwo we'll be out all night.
if he doesnt then he will get mad at me if i come home too late (in his eyes)
Message edited 7/2/2007 3:33:48 PM.
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:22 PM |
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McSullivan
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
Depends. Latest, 1 or 2am.
Although, my sister and I were out until a whopping 10pm on Friday. Yeah, we're wild.
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:24 PM |
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DMT
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
dont take this the wrong way but maybe you guys should have waited a tad longer before getting married
its a huge deal this marriage stuff and if my DH came home at 5am your damn right I would be ******, we dont do that stuff, but then again thats our house
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:25 PM |
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Beth
The Key to your new home....
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Beth
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
during the week- 10:30pm- dinner in the city - plus time to drive home
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:28 PM |
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pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
Posted by DMT
dont take this the wrong way but maybe you guys should have waited a tad longer before getting married
its a huge deal this marriage stuff and if my DH came home at 5am your damn right I would be ******, we dont do that stuff, but then again thats our house
honestly, if my dh came home at 5am, his azz would be sleeping on the couch....I had to do this once when I was pregnant....he has not pulled that sh!t since 
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:28 PM |
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BabyAvocado
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
Well, being that I can't even remember the last time I had a girls night out, if the opportunity presented itself and I left at 9pm, I'd probably try to be home by 3am the latest. Any later than that I know that DH would be pizzed.
If this was a regular thing, I'd be coming home much earlier (probably 12-1am) out of respect for DH... and I would expect the same from him.
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:28 PM |
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Snozberry
I might steal your diamonds
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Melissa
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
On a weekend, no later than 2:30 (which is when the last train in arrives).
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:28 PM |
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J9-13
We're gonna be big sisters!
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J9
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
I'm not too big on going out during the week when I have work so if I did go out, I would be home before 12am
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:31 PM |
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Tany
Becoming a different woman
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
ha, what girlfriends? 
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:32 PM |
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CaseyGirl
Mommy to 3 Boys :)
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
No later than 11...I hardly ever go out during the work week anyway...
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:32 PM |
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Ophelia
she's baaccckkkk ;)
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
you guys seem to have this argument often.
you keep blowing him off, citing various reasons that have to do with your friends/fun/issues whathaveyou.
honestly, if it were me, the real problem would be that even though I tell you something bothers me, your actions tell me you just don't give a sh1t.
if it was ONCE or TWICE...maybe..but after that you'd be on a short leash.
if he was FAR away (ie Fire Island, Atlantic City...Jupiter) it would be fine.
but NO...not just at some random bar/club a hop skip from home.
get your azz home...that's what I'd tell him, and that is what I'd do.
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:33 PM |
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jxnoscar
Baby Delicious!
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Nancy
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
Posted by racheeeee
5 pm, we drink during the day as we all have children!
Pathetic but true.
You are my hero
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:35 PM |
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pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
Posted by Ophelia
you guys seem to have this argument often.
you keep blowing him off, citing various reasons that have to do with your friends/fun/issues whathaveyou.
honestly, if it were me, the real problem would be that even though I tell you something bothers me, your actions tell me you just don't give a sh1t.
if it was ONCE or TWICE...maybe..but after that you'd be on a short leash.
if he was FAR away (ie Fire Island, Atlantic City...Jupiter) it would be fine.
but NO...not just at some random bar/club a hop skip from home.
get your azz home...that's what I'd tell him, and that is what I'd do.
well said...
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:35 PM |
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pmpkn087
Life is good...
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
If DH stayed out that late (early?) I'd be pizzed too! In a marriage you have to take other people's feelings into consideration. My first thought would be "what the h e l l was he doing until 5:00?" then my next thought would be to toss his shite out the window
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:35 PM |
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CunningOne
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
Posted by eroxgirl
Most of my friends have kids or are pregnant, so we try to head out by 8 the latest and lately we're home between 11-12.
Same here. I am usually home by 11.
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:36 PM |
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pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
Posted by Jesaroo
last week i went out and got home at 5:30am
we were at a benfit and knew the bartender and we're just haivng fun.
needless tosay, dh was pizzed.
i am going out again tonight because my friend is leaving in a few days for a month and this is our last itme to hang out before she goes.
i know it may be another late night because we invited two other friends of ours.
note i INVITED DH... whether or not he chooses to come is up to him.
but i already know theres gonna be a fight.
I want to add that I think marriage is about compromise....if you know he will be ******, then WHY would you stay out so late? I am sorry, but I think that is showing an utter lack of respect for him and I would not tolerate that from my SO
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:36 PM |
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dgirl
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Danielle
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
I don't really go out all that much but if I am just getting together with friends locally we usually head out at about 9/10 and I would be back by 12 ish, maybe 1. If it's an event like a bachelorette party or something specific like that it could be later but I woulld have planned for it and DH would know in advance.
His big concern in that situation is always how I am getting home, who's driving, etc.
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| Posted 7/2/07 2:37 PM |
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Superkat
More a stranger than a friend
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K
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Re: Going out with your girlfriends.....
Didn't you have this issue before? How did it end?
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