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Laura1976
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Friends Houses
If you went to a friends house and it was gross and dirty, would you say something? Not just messy, but actually dirty, make you not even want to use the bathroom dirty.
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Posted 6/26/08 2:29 PM  |
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headoverheels
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Re: Friends Houses
no i don't think i'd say anything, but i'd be making up a lot of excuses not to go back!!
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| Posted 6/26/08 2:33 PM |
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yankinmanc
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Re: Friends Houses
Funny, I don't remember you coming round....
No, I probably wouldn't say anything, its really none of your business.
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| Posted 6/26/08 2:34 PM |
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CunningOne
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Re: Friends Houses
 have you seen my house!
My house is a mess, but it's not dirty. Just has lots of toys and kid stuff all over, everywhere!!
I wouldn't say anything, but like a pp said, I probably wouldn't go back!
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| Posted 6/26/08 2:35 PM |
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LuvMyDH
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Re: Friends Houses
I wouldn't say anything but I'd probably make up an excuse to leave...
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| Posted 6/26/08 2:35 PM |
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JenMarie
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Re: Friends Houses
I wouldn't say anything either. But I also wouldn't go.
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| Posted 6/26/08 2:45 PM |
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longford73
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Re: Friends Houses
Depends who it is. If it was a really good friend I might see if they need help.
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| Posted 6/26/08 2:46 PM |
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anonttcer
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Re: Friends Houses
No way- because who am I to talk?
I don't clean.
My house is dirty too....until my hubby gets fed up and cleans.
I mean it's not to the point of a health hazzard like some people have described here- but I just don't clean as often as I should...
I'm just not good at that kind of stuff....
Plus honestly- it's none of anyone's business how clean or dirty another person's house is....
Message edited 6/26/2008 3:30:46 PM.
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| Posted 6/26/08 2:49 PM |
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nov04libride
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Re: Friends Houses
I would never, ever say anything.
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| Posted 6/26/08 2:49 PM |
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justthe4ofus
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Re: Friends Houses
Posted by headoverheels
no i don't think i'd say anything, but i'd be making up a lot of excuses not to go back!!
I definitely wouldn't say anything. My house is not dirty but it is always messy because my daughter is too spoiled and has too much stuff (Thanks Grandma) and it's all over the place.
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| Posted 6/26/08 2:50 PM |
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summerBaby10
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Re: Friends Houses
I have a friend who's home is dirty.. I mean, cat hair inches high on the furniture, garbage overflowing in the kitchen garbage can, greasy grime on the appliances, clothes all over the floor in the bedroom & who knows the last time those sheets were washed.. yuck, just thinking about it.
I try NEVER to go over there, I have NEVER eaten from her house, & if I must use the bathroom I use tissue to touch everything. Once I suggested she get a cleaning lady & she brushed it off as a joke.
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| Posted 6/26/08 2:51 PM |
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anonttcer
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Re: Friends Houses
Message edited 6/26/2008 3:00:18 PM.
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| Posted 6/26/08 2:53 PM |
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MeNBobs
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Re: Friends Houses
Posted by longford73
Depends who it is. If it was a really good friend I might see if they need help.
I agree with this. If it was my best friend that I have been friends with since i was 5 I would say something. Sometimes a mess can just snowball and be overwhelming. When your house is a mess it can be depressing. A little help to get started may be all they need.
If I wasn't bff I would never say anything I would avoid her house at all costs and suggest we always meet at a restaurant.
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| Posted 6/26/08 2:59 PM |
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MrsPorkChop
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Re: Friends Houses
i know people with dirty houses
i hate being there
i feel like i need to take a shower when i leave 
eta- id never say anything
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| Posted 6/26/08 3:01 PM |
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CunningOne
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Re: Friends Houses
I have this picture front and center on my refrigerator for everyone to see!
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| Posted 6/26/08 3:01 PM |
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anonttcer
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Re: Friends Houses
Posted by chmlengr
I have this picture front and center on my refrigerator for everyone to see!
You are awesome! I am SO printing this out for my fridge too! 
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| Posted 6/26/08 3:03 PM |
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IluvBo
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Re: Friends Houses
Posted by LuvMyDH
I wouldn't say anything but I'd probably make up an excuse to leave...
ITA
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| Posted 6/26/08 3:05 PM |
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GioiaMia
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Re: Friends Houses
a friend i probably wouldn't say anything but for a family member i have offered to "help" clean up and try to discreetly deep clean instead LOL
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| Posted 6/26/08 3:09 PM |
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LIMOMx2
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Re: Friends Houses
I wouldn't say anything but if the bathroom was dirty I would make sure next time I go right before I get there!!
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| Posted 6/26/08 3:09 PM |
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HeatherRose
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Re: Friends Houses
I could never say anything, but I would remember and probally never go there again
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| Posted 6/26/08 3:11 PM |
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Melimaup
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Re: Friends Houses
Posted by LuvMyDH
I wouldn't say anything but I'd probably make up an excuse to leave...
ditto.
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| Posted 6/26/08 3:12 PM |
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CouponKT
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Re: Friends Houses
ughh, this post reminds me of how my house looked this morning when I left..... hope it's not really THAT bad
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| Posted 6/26/08 3:15 PM |
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Beth
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Re: Friends Houses
I have only been in this situation once
and it was the persons parents house
the bathroom had black mold everywhere
so gross- I never went back!
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| Posted 6/26/08 3:19 PM |
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curliegirl
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Re: Friends Houses
wouldn't say anything and wouldn't go over
We are currently doing the exact thing with DH's friend.....his house is disgusting!
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| Posted 6/26/08 3:23 PM |
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Waste06
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Re: Friends Houses
I've been in this situation.
I didn't say anything to them, nor will I in the future. It's their home, not mine.
I was grossed out, and I don't wish to return. The house is so dirty, my allergies kick in and I can't breathe. Between the cigarette smoke, the pet dander and the mold, my throat starts to close up. And those are just the "air" problems. The visuals only make it worse.
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| Posted 6/26/08 3:29 PM |
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